When you genuinely get bored.

[Novacane]

I was out on a meet with a girl who went cold on me for about 2 months, shot her a message out of the blue and she quickly agreed to meet up. Now logistics were horrible so no way in bedding during the meet, so we chilled for a bit I deep dived here and there but I genuinely got bored pretty quick and started to zone out. It got the point where I locked eyes with another girl while out with the current girl I was with. (Is it ever a good idea to engage another potential lover when out with some as is?) I'm just wondering has there been a time that anyone on the forums has gone out for a meet unable to close and just lost interest in the meet all together? If so how do you handle the interaction do you cut it short or continue to go along building rapport in hopes of closing the deal when logistics are better handled? Any insight would be appreciated

 

[Franco]

Hey Novacane,

In general, this is something that really never happens to me (and probably will never happen to me). Logistics is something that comes into play LONG before I even schedule the date, and if I know that bedding her won't even be an option on a given day or place, then I simply won't schedule the date for that day or place.

Making sure that you have a way to close on the girl before you even schedule the date will be your biggest defense against boredom. I'm sure I would feel the same way if I were to schedule a date that I absolutely knew for sure wasn't going anywhere after an hour or two!

So make sure to do yourself a favor and only schedule dates when you know you'll have an opportunity to move things forward.

Cheers,

Franco

 

[Novacane]

Thank you, for the quick reply I'll start turning down meet ups if I know logistics aren't handled ahead of time.