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Got friendzoned by this one chick back in February. We didn't cross paths again until last week.
Caught her across the street on my way to the gym and said hi. She crossed over the other side of the street to give me a tight hug while we caught up. She offered me a ride since where she was going was on the way to where I was going.
Did some more catching up at the store we went to (with prolonged eye contact, starting up conversations when they began to fizzle out, etc) since I wasn't in a hurry to head to the gym, which was a building away. As we left and began to head out separate ways, she asked me to take down her number since she was carrying supplies and gave me a super tight hug before she took off.
I sent an icebreaker text about a minute later, worked out and went about my day. Didn't get back to her until about 6 days later with the following text:
what's good (her name), my bad for the radio silence; I've been swamped with projects, exams, and training
anyway, I hope the holidays treated you well
what's your schedule look like this week so we can grab a bite or coffee?
it's been radio silence from her end since. it's been about a week.
I was confused as to whether she changed her mind about how she felt about me. But I don't think a female platonic friend would act the way she did throughout the interaction. Plus, what else was I expected to do with that number? Also, the fact that she wasn't comfortable with the idea of us being alone (in a public place might I add) said enough. I ended up deleting her number and unadding her on social media since ghosting in a deal-breaker for me.
If anyone can give some insight as to where I went wrong so I don't repeat this in the future, I'd appreciate it. will give more context if needed.
Caught her across the street on my way to the gym and said hi. She crossed over the other side of the street to give me a tight hug while we caught up. She offered me a ride since where she was going was on the way to where I was going.
Did some more catching up at the store we went to (with prolonged eye contact, starting up conversations when they began to fizzle out, etc) since I wasn't in a hurry to head to the gym, which was a building away. As we left and began to head out separate ways, she asked me to take down her number since she was carrying supplies and gave me a super tight hug before she took off.
I sent an icebreaker text about a minute later, worked out and went about my day. Didn't get back to her until about 6 days later with the following text:
what's good (her name), my bad for the radio silence; I've been swamped with projects, exams, and training
anyway, I hope the holidays treated you well
what's your schedule look like this week so we can grab a bite or coffee?
it's been radio silence from her end since. it's been about a week.
I was confused as to whether she changed her mind about how she felt about me. But I don't think a female platonic friend would act the way she did throughout the interaction. Plus, what else was I expected to do with that number? Also, the fact that she wasn't comfortable with the idea of us being alone (in a public place might I add) said enough. I ended up deleting her number and unadding her on social media since ghosting in a deal-breaker for me.
If anyone can give some insight as to where I went wrong so I don't repeat this in the future, I'd appreciate it. will give more context if needed.
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