Recently matched a girl on tinder, got her number, snapchat, etc. We had something in common which is we both attend the same college. Anyways I was busy lately and she would always snap me/text me and we had plans fall through two times before. I was finally able to meet her up when she insisted I visit her at her job (she works in the mall), which happened to be on the way to where I was going. So I paid her a visit and we talked for about 30 minutes, just getting to know each other talking about our lives, etc. I of course wanted to set up a same day date for when she got off of work. I first proposed we hang out at my apartment which is about 15 minutes away, but she said she might be doing something with her friends (typical resistance). She mentioned she didn't like what her friends were doing and that she'll let me know if we'd hang out (some more resistance). I didn't want to chase as I had already tried to overcome her maybe's. After I left, I had texted her about an hour later, asking if she ever had bubble tea because I knew a good place to try some. I felt she wasn't comfortable with going to my apartment just yet, so I decided to use the bubble tea thing as a platform to build a little more and then head back to my apartment. She said "I'll let you know" once again but never got back to me. I ended up getting caught up in a phone conference anyways that lasted about an hour, however, I wasn't going to text her back anyways, instead leaving it open so I can text back whenever I'm free again. Not sure if I should propose a date again, or if I should wait it out a bit and text her in a few days.
She also doesn't snapchat me as much as before, almost as if she wants me to chase but I'm not
. She definitely showed interest in me when we hung out at her job but I was unable to build enough rapport to gain her trust and get her back to my apartment for a same day lay.
She also doesn't snapchat me as much as before, almost as if she wants me to chase but I'm not
. She definitely showed interest in me when we hung out at her job but I was unable to build enough rapport to gain her trust and get her back to my apartment for a same day lay.
