Which style suits me best from Hector's college articles

[Lucky]

Alright I'm​ a huge mix between​ extrovert and introvert and I'm in high school. I'm usually quite the entertainer on stage but off stage I'm a bit more introverted but I talk to quite a few people just saying stuff like what's up and sup. (maybe a nickname if I know them with that 2nd line.) Right now I'm thinking about BMOC against Slowburn (not really big on Wildcard.)
Thanks in advance Lucky (;

 

[Inbocca]

It's hard to say without knowing you personally. One might be easier to naturally embody (based on what you said I'm guessing it's introvert) but the other probably gives you more of a rush. Do you prefer comfort or excitement? You can do either (and both given enough time), it'll just vary what traits you focus on bringing out in yourself.

 

[Lucky]

Thanks for replying Inbocca to answer your question I'm quite social with lots of people especially the younger years (No idea why?) But when I come across a high status individual who happens to be a girl. I might get a bit anti social even though I push myself to talk to her but continuing with the question I can be a huge entertainer on stage although I'll be incredibly nervous before I get on. But in the long run I prefer comfort over excitement but it would depend on the risk involved.

 

[Bboy100]

Just for asking this question, I can already tell you the answer is none of them. Unless there's one specific style he has which really resonates with you and you instantly think YES! THAT'S ME!!, I wouldn't worry about trying to copy what Hector and his friends did. Because if none of them feel right to you, its very likely that your personality doesn't fit into any of them neatly. And if your genuine true self doesn't fit in with what your actions, it will come off as fake and tryhard. And people don't respond well to that.

The reason Hector was so succcessful with his "BMOC" style is because at his core, that's the kind of person he is. So for him, it was relatively raw, authentic and a real version of himself. Same goes for all the friends he alluded to in all the other styles. Whereas for you, I bet that's not the case.

So think of it like this...don't try to change who you are to fit a certain mold you think is successful. Rather, enhance your personality. Remove the unnecessary unattractive bullshit and add some attractive elements. But at its core, your actual personality shouldn't be all that different.

At most, I would take elements you think fit with your personality and incorporate them into your style. For example, I really liked the wittiness, charm, playfulness and devil-may-care attitude the "BMOC" style presents. But I've never been an asshole. And I never will be. It's just not who I am. And if I tried to be (and I know because I have), I'll just look foolish. Because there's no intent nor authenticity behind my words and actions. So once I quit trying to be an asshole and I just did the things from "BMOC" that I actually liked, I started doing much much better.

I hope this makes sense. It might be a little bit nebulous to grasp this concept if you're don't yet have too much experience.

 

[Lucky]

Thanks Bboy100