Who Are Some Great Text Gamers To Model?

[mist]

Spoiler: A Little Context

Intro

Hello I’m Mist. A newbie in the art of seduction.

Last week I did a lot of texting to get a feel for where I am at, what’s limiting me from making my phone a pussy magnet, and experiment with other approaches of text minus sexting and long texting.

My expressed aim was to put myself in texting scenarios I run into a lot and newer ones and ultimately get some sort of action off of my phone by Thursday, Friday, and or Saturday.

I achieved one, but no action from any leads I was texting.

Met a couple more women. Still no action via the phone.

I’ll eventually compile abunch of what occurred last week and try to melt them down into common scenarios and ask you guys how you have approached these scenarios with specific sets.

I’m satisfied with meeting more women, but I also know there isn’t much point in learning seduction if I’m not upping my odds with women I desire and learning to navigate different interest levels.

Plus it would be nice to eventually be able to leave the house with confidence that I can not only meet a girl, but that my probability of bedding her can be influenced positively.

Currently I just know I can meet tons of women and some of them like me, some don’t, some indifferent.

Still working on the fucking part haha.

Anyway intro over.

Thank you for your attention.

TL;DR
Basically What I did, What I’m doing, Why my question.

I don’t particularly care what texting style they take as long as you have found it effective for you.

You’re not limited to any medium. Can be a forum post, video, or a goddamn excel spreadsheet.

Shoot

Peace

 

[ferrero]

Skills. @Skills

Let me clarify:

- Basic texting guide
- Getting phone numbers and ice-breakers
- How and when to soft close
- Radio silence/flakiness
- On morning texts/pings
- Baiting her to hint a meet
- Momentum in texting

Here's an example (kinda long)

- From text to sex, best sexting ever (on skills' blog)

Also, a worthy mention from Velasco

- Compilation of texting posts that formed texting philosophy

 

[Skills]

Spoiler: A Little Context

Intro

Hello I’m Mist. A newbie in the art of seduction.

Last week I did a lot of texting to get a feel for where I am at, what’s limiting me from making my phone a pussy magnet, and experiment with other approaches of text minus sexting and long texting.

My expressed aim was to put myself in texting scenarios I run into a lot and newer ones and ultimately get some sort of action off of my phone by Thursday, Friday, and or Saturday.

I achieved one, but no action from any leads I was texting.

Met a couple more women. Still no action via the phone.

I’ll eventually compile abunch of what occurred last week and try to melt them down into common scenarios and ask you guys how you have approached these scenarios with specific sets.

I’m satisfied with meeting more women, but I also know there isn’t much point in learning seduction if I’m not upping my odds with women I desire and learning to navigate different interest levels.

Plus it would be nice to eventually be able to leave the house with confidence that I can not only meet a girl, but that my probability of bedding her can be influenced positively.

Currently I just know I can meet tons of women and some of them like me, some don’t, some indifferent.

Still working on the fucking part haha.

Anyway intro over.

Thank you for your attention.

TL;DR
Basically What I did, What I’m doing, Why my question.

I don’t particularly care what texting style they take as long as you have found it effective for you.

You’re not limited to any medium. Can be a forum post, video, or a goddamn excel spreadsheet.

Shoot

Peace

get a journal and post your text convos, NO texting works. unless very strong interactions, a lot of guys are missing the STRONG INTERACTION, a lot of women are giving numbers to be nice, friendly or get rid of you, those are waste of time numbers... make sure the interaction is strong, and she knows the goal is for you to get with her eventually in a romantic/sexual way... (even if fast interactions and you can not make them strong, an easy ways is to ask for relationship status so she knows the goal is to hook up eventually) and/or physicality...

P.s. i am talking cold approach, if a girl gives you number online different story...

 

[Rakehell]

Yeah theres no way to consistently text a girl unless the interaction was good. Thats why online game is quite literally a numbers game.

You’ll have a better shot calling them on the phone imo.

I usually text mirroring the girls # of lines no capitalization or punctuation, i don’t use emojis unless they do but not alot if they use alot, i’ll use pet names like “love” sometimes since theres no sexualization on text

 

[mist]

Thank you all for the resources and pointers. This thread has been informative and eye opening.

Peace

 

[XO!]

This entire thread contains valuable insights, but @West_Indian_Archie really nailed it:

Minimalists - There are guys out there that say "strictly logistics". These dudes are idiots. Just because you got her contact information in a good situation, doesn't mean she's DYING TO GO OUT WITH YOU. Often times a man has to respark that initial energy, and blow that spark into a fire. By going to strictly logistics, he doesn't make any text snafus, but he more often than not makes a warm lead go cold. Logistics only is appropriate only for guys that have fat pipelines of girls coming in AND already good text game.

The sexy texters. In my opinion, rookies always want to sexualize something, but don't have the female understanding or social dynamics knowledge to do so properly. Trying to get the girl wet, trying to get her to send pics, maybe works in the moment, but it often induces ASD, often makes the guy look thirsty, or worse yet - the ramp up and release kills her desire for the real thing. Let's not even get into your texts being circulated in her friend group. (and to the press!)

The veteran can get away with sexuality dripping from his every pore. Sexy in silence, sexy on instagram, sexy when he speaks, sexy in text. But the rookie is not calibrated well enough to do it.

At best, he'll screen out prudes (which is most women when they don't know the guy) and screen in the girls with the highest possible buying temperature. And he still has to have the logistics set up PERFECTLY to close her.

The seducer's ideal - Very few texts, very few words, personalized, plausibly deniable, evergreen but maximum emotional impact.

When couples spend a lot of time together, they have a shared history. A lot can be conveyed from one person to another with "a look". Only they know what they're saying to each other and what things mean.

That's what a player should strive for with his texts.

Every text he sends should aim for that ideal, their own secret language, their own special code.

Which means you must be a conversationalist.

Most rookies don't have the pipeline or overall seductive appeal to barely say anything.
Most rookies have not calibrated their sexual persona.
And most rookies don't write well enough or know how to create that shared history with a girl to "mix/max" their effect on women via text.

All that is left is learning how to express yourself via text, and proactively taking steps to do so.

The conversationalist knows how to handle a

"WYD" received at 7:37 am (which is a text I got today)

 

[Lucky]

bump, links to all skills texting guides here, to my knowledge

 

[Lucky]

Skills. @Skills

Let me clarify:

- Basic texting guide
- Getting phone numbers and ice-breakers
- How and when to soft close
- Radio silence/flakiness
- On morning texts/pings
- Baiting her to hint a meet
- Momentum in texting

Here's an example (kinda long)

- From text to sex, best sexting ever (on skills' blog)

Also, a worthy mention from Velasco

- Compilation of texting posts that formed texting philosophy

Bumping this again and linking the last of @Skills text guides here for reference/ shortcut to all

How to Hard Close Properly (Set logistics for meet up)


If we could get an admin to pin this to the best of general/ beginners etc that would be neat too

 

[Lucky]

More Organisation on Texting Guides...

POB
Pinging
Text game: A very simple ping for when you try to seed the date and is left on read

Skills
Don't follow up opening with a hard close....
How to flirt mini guide for in person gaming and digital gaming (texting).....

Fog
SOCIALLY SANITARY TEXTING
Discussion on Icebreaker (Just noticed something about you...)

Miscellaneous
LJBF Text Scenario (Advice provided)


Message to mods
Can a mod pin this or expand upon the old best of general guide etc?
can always leave it bookmarked but feel its neat to have it easier to access for all.

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[Adventurer]

As a complete beginner, I would just use this template

14 Simple Ways to Text a Girl and Make Her Want You

Don't know how to text a girl you like? Copy these texts and send them to her to get her excited and ready to go out with you. Contents 1. Icebreaker Text 2. Same Day Date Text 3. Next Day Date Text 4. Standard Scheduler Text 5. Proposal Text 6. No Worries Text 7. Scheduler II Text 8. Scheduler...

www.girlschase.com

There are a lot of subtilities to texting that you won't be able to address with copy-pasted texts, but this will be 1000 times better than whatever you could have cooked on your own.

Just apply the method without any experimentation and understand why it works. After you've organised 20 dates with this template (it will be fast), start to experiment with better structures that require more flexibility. It will also come from experience when you're forced into a situation the template doesn't cover

 

[POB]

NO texting works. unless very strong interactions, a lot of guys are missing the STRONG INTERACTION,

Precisely!

P.s. i am talking cold approach, if a girl gives you number online different story...

Online you can consider your pictures the "strong interaction".
Get pro looking pics ASAP.

 

[Skills]

Precisely!

Online you can consider your pictures the "strong interaction".
Get pro looking pics ASAP.

The context was getting a number from online means pre number the texting and structure was good, in other words if she gives you a phone number from online that in itself is a strong interaction I was making the point in cold approach phone number no big deal, a phone number online has more weight vs cold approach