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Wolfie

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It was Wednesday afternoon in the mall upstairs I saw this really hot Asian chick with her curves flaunting, like an invitation for men. I couldn't approach her because AA kicked in.

Went down to the Starbucks hoping to finish my story I order a hot mocha and lean against the wall looking at the lights thinking what could my next scene in the story be.

And there arrives my kitty kat, this girl ordered her coffee and did a "I am confused" gesture for 5 seconds around me, she was very cute.

I took my mocha sat across her table and I couldn't help myself but appreciate her. Fuck.... There goes my story writing session for today. I finished my drink and the bitch AA kicked in again... Fuck when am I gonna conquer it, but I looked at her she had cat eyes and... I imagined her wearing cat ears, on her knees giving me a bj looking me right in the eye... That made my legs move

"Excuse me, hi" she looked at me Keep her phone to the side

"I noticed you have very beautiful eyes".

"Oh thank you so much" (giggling her body completely on the edge of the couch laughing looking down and turned towards me

"it's like you got those cat eyes". Yup my kitty kat still couldn't stop herself from laughing.

We exchanged names shook her hand and I asked what got you here " oh I got bored at home".

Her tonality super submissive, her body on the edge of the sofa as if she is gonna pounce on me

"do you mind if I join you or do you want me to leave".(pussy move I know but I wanted her to be comfortable with me)

"oh I am bound to leave" I asked her again thinking she didn't hear me and she said shes bound to leave. I said no worries I understand have a great day ahead and walked away.

I don't know what happened

Her body language was very jerky.... Um let's say there was an exchange of energy.

I would say I felt my masculine energy penetrate her calm female bubble and there was like chaos in her body, jerky movements, giggling, smiling on the edge of the couch, but then she says she is bound to leave.

Now how do I interpret this?

A) I am bound to leave - sorry man not interested, fuck off

B) I am bound to leave - take me, take me away my prince charming, take me on an adventure, free me from this boredom.

So which is it the body language doesn't lie but.... Her words... Why?


P. S-I think I should have pushed ur further
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Wolfie

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Right off any doubt, worry, anxiety, be it approaching, or mid game, you name it, imagine fucking her. Simplistic as it sounds, where your mind goes body will follow. Then also simple as it sounds in situation look her in eyes til she looks away first.

Then P.S thing yes always persist, get a no. Never eject.


Gun
How do you think I should have persisted or let's make it simple if you were in my shoes how would you have reacted to her?
 

Skills

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"do you mind if I join you or do you want me to leave".(pussy move I know but I wanted her to be comfortable with me)

"oh I am bound to leave" I asked her again thinking she didn't hear me and she said shes bound to leave. I said no worries I understand have a great day ahead and walked away.

I don't know what happened

Her body language was very jerky.... Um let's say there was an exchange of energy.


P. S-I think I should have pushed ur further

You should have lead in the first answer not be so accommodating with an alternative choice close, maybe throw in a time constraint .... "i am about to go get coffee, real quick, then i have to get back, come we me for couple of minutes, I want to get to know you more, i really enjoy your vibe"

then in any scenario if you say something and she did not hear you, you need to TOTALLY change all the wording even if is the same point vs repeating yourself (death sentence)

example:
" let me fuck you in the car " if she say wha? i said lets have passionate sex in my ride

if you repeat same wording in my experience and i don't know why you are done, actually tyler one time made that point in one if his videos which i agree he explain the reasoning i totally forgot, but he was right...

you guys are misunderstanding the concept of "autorejection" is misapplied all over the forum

Autorejection is when a girl is into you and she things you will reject her, so she rejects first to preserve herself.... You guys using wrong pick up terminology...

for example recently @Alpha13SC is a cool alpha biker, hot girl in his ss is into him, not wanting to be with him cause she knows he is fuck boy subcommunication... scare of ruining her rep in ss and getting fucked and dump.....

^ this is autorejection your sample is not...
 

Wolfie

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You should have lead in the first answer not be so accommodating with an alternative choice close, maybe throw in a time constraint .... "i am about to go get coffee, real quick, then i have to get back, come we me for couple of minutes, I want to get to know you more, i really enjoy your vibe"

then in any scenario if you say something and she did not hear you, you need to TOTALLY change all the wording even if is the same point vs repeating yourself (death sentence)

example:
" let me fuck you in the car " if she say wha? i said lets have passionate sex in my ride

if you repeat same wording in my experience and i don't know why you are done, actually tyler one time made that point in one if his videos which i agree he explain the reasoning i totally forgot, but he was right...

you guys are misunderstanding the concept of "autorejection" is misapplied all over the forum

Autorejection is when a girl is into you and she things you will reject her, so she rejects first to preserve herself.... You guys using wrong pick up terminology...

for example recently @Alpha13SC is a cool alpha biker, hot girl in his ss is into him, not wanting to be with him cause she knows he is fuck boy subcommunication... scare of ruining her rep in ss and getting fucked and dump.....

^ this is autorejection your sample is not...
Thank you so much for your valuable input ❤️
 

Wolfie

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You should have lead in the first answer not be so accommodating with an alternative choice close, maybe throw in a time constraint .... "i am about to go get coffee, real quick, then i have to get back, come we me for couple of minutes, I want to get to know you more, i really enjoy your vibe"

then in any scenario if you say something and she did not hear you, you need to TOTALLY change all the wording even if is the same point vs repeating yourself (death sentence)

example:
" let me fuck you in the car " if she say wha? i said lets have passionate sex in my ride

if you repeat same wording in my experience and i don't know why you are done, actually tyler one time made that point in one if his videos which i agree he explain the reasoning i totally forgot, but he was right...

you guys are misunderstanding the concept of "autorejection" is misapplied all over the forum

Autorejection is when a girl is into you and she things you will reject her, so she rejects first to preserve herself.... You guys using wrong pick up terminology...

for example recently @Alpha13SC is a cool alpha biker, hot girl in his ss is into him, not wanting to be with him cause she knows he is fuck boy subcommunication... scare of ruining her rep in ss and getting fucked and dump.....

^ this is autorejection your sample is not...
@Skills I think there was a hook maybe... Do you think it was a hook? Looking at her body language and her voice tonality made me think it was a hook
 

Skills

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@Skills I think there was a hook maybe... Do you think it was a hook? Looking at her body language and her voice tonality made me think it was a hook
Yes based on the description.. also you should know by body language an intuition... you were there...

P.s. i just notice you were already in coffe shop my sample is silly, so my point is lead vs giving alt choice...
 
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Gunwitch

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How do you think I should have persisted or let's make it simple if you were in my shoes how would you have reacted to her?
When she said she was about to leave/bound to leave? Maybe a language barrier?

I woulda just went "oh that sucks, cause I just noticed something else about you that seemed really cool, but if you're strapped for time..."

Almost always gets a chick curious to find out, cause it's about her of course. They usually will say "no wait what was it?" or even sometimes exchange numbers if they really are strapped for time, not just blowing you off.

Just wording tricks and persistence, you seemed like you were doing well with eye contact, beating AA with horny and all :D

Try to remember not to verbalize it so much, and try to put more focus on her (her energy in general, the way she sees the world, standard cold read shit you can find through community) in general.

So to answer base question, she kind of rejected you, but you also kind of ejected, that's just how most PUAs operate early on.

Gun
 
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