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Since I joined the community....I had to fight ridiculous things such as: "dance floor is a trap" "text to meet only" "fuck women on the first night no matter what or game over" "talk on the dance floor" "don't physically escalate till closing location" "After 30 is over and you will never get laid unless you got money or status" "women from clubs are low quality and total trash" "humor does not work for seduction" "wait 3 days to text her" "I don't get how Justin Wayne is getting laid with reds, i was screaming that he was a fraud and made a post, on the forum about this before the scandal" "looks don't matter" "to go clubs you need drugs and/or alcohol" "game is bullshit is mostly luck", "women on day game likely to have lower count than any other game styles" and on and on, that people looked at me in the past with disgust and i constantly have to deal with shit like this even in the present....
-So i will give you a practical view of women and how they really are and how they operate (i am 46 and i have been pimping since moses had diapers in all type of games SUCCESSFULLY), and the type of relationship with every girl is super difficult on their end, it is a lot of power on my part "how high you want to jump on their parts" every relationship set up, every type of girl, every type of look, though my preference is and always have been pawg(phat ass white girls/porno looking type girls), i date all type of women and demographics.
First as much as red pillers, black piller, tradcom and even a few seducers view women, is all distorted and off in my experience/opinion and i don't know what the fuck they are talking about.... Usually the problem is that what they are doing is trying to find excuses for their lack of success with the ladies or relationships:
Red pillers- blame lack of success due to women nature.
black pillers- blame lack of success due to generics
tradcom- blame lack of success due to "modern society" and want to go back to the stone ages.
Some seducers- Try to find ways of lack of getting the success in the relationships "lay count" "personality disorders" and the likes....
^ what happens is these type of mentality nitpick and exaggerate on the "worst case scenarios type of situations" like iraq has weapons of mass destructions ready to attack the USA. The problem has never been women but the dude.
A good seducer/lover, you will never hear complain about none of that shit, ever, ever... is business as usual, so let me teach you basics practical stuff about women does not matter online, day game, night game, churh, japan, latin america, north korea i don't care women are women...
So women are not static beings... in other words they go through different changes and stages on their life (i highly recommend the book, the women brain)... Most dudes are pretty much the same dude and they barely change... There is a saying:"he hoped she stayed the same" "she hoped he changed" when it comes specially to break ups... The changes are due to many factors but in short the main 2 are hormones and life stages... Life stages is the primary changing factor... A girl at 18 is a different stage that a girl at 28 for example and different at 38 etc.., totally different life views, totally different goals, total different strategies etc...But i don't want to ramble on that his is not what the post is about... (just a short point)...
There are also not static physical feelings that gets a bit complicated:
some women have lower sex drive.- they can take or leave sex... Obviously unfortunately not much i can say about these girls, cause i have no much experience since i screen them out or they don't make it (trauma, religious hang ups etc.. minority of cases)... This can also be circumstantial(majority of cases), she does not feel it for you and she does not want to have sex with you... (ex.-sexless marriage)... This is stuff seducers should not really worry about, but i am talking about practical view on women)...
-most women have normal sex drives.-
-a few women have higher sex drives...
^ now sex drive DOES NOT EQUAL CHEATING.... In other words a lot of guys will assume high sex drive = cheating, but not necessarily, normal sex drive or no sex drive = no cheating... Again no necessarily the case... For example a low sex drive women that is a result of reaching a relationship breaking point is more likely to cheat than a high sex women that has onitis on a seducer. Cheating is overrated, it does happens, on the way out/planning escape stages with SOME WOMEN, guy became betasized, she had enough, revenge, dude not attractive enough etc... but not all women cheat and all women can cheat regardless of lay count... Is important to open them up and screen cause cheating is not determined by lay count, but the main thing that will determined cheating is THE HISTORY OF CHEATING.... I have dated high lay count girls that will not cheat on me with Bradd pitt, i have dated low count girls that cheated on me (at the end of relationship/way out) low lay count girls, that had a history of doing similar toward the end of previous relationship (and i knew this was a possibility all along, ex. my 10 year ex)...
So we covered sex drive and we cover life stages now lets cover the different type of girls again not static, a normal girl today can be a promiscuous girl tomorrow and a promiscuous girl tomorrow can become a normal girl:
Normal girl.- majority of women.
temp promiscuous.-a girl that sleeps with a lot of guys while pretending to be exclusive monogamous. Minority of women, usually happens with a minority of women after they reach breaking point of the relationship or planning escape and not all women will do this like is exaggerated by the red pill etc...
promiscuous girl or a girl that go through stages of sleeping around.- Again in my experience is not as exaggerated as red pillers and some guys make it out to be i will explain how this work... Minority of women as well.
- here is were things get complicated, cause some women will treat different guys, in different ways, for example a girl can date 2 different guys and treat and behave with those 2 guys in totally different ways.... But here is how it usually happens with a majority of women regardless medium of how you meet them, i am not talking about outliers (sexual freaks more on them later), hoochie mamas (can be white girls pretending to be ghetto, not only black girls), chongas (a latin low class ghetto/gansta wanna be from the hood), escorts/prostitutes,bdsm/hard core emos/swinger lifestyle girls.... I am talking most of the girls you guys will meet in this forum regardless of game style, if is the above you will automatically know by online/social media profile and during banter ( i left on purpose only fans, cam girls, strippers out, ig girls etc... cause i will cover in a bit.)
hunting/dating stages: Usually profile goes up if online, posting in social media for some increase a lot, some will go out with friends to night venues (not necessarily clubs, clubs is not night game, clubs is a night game medium, i will make a post on this later, don't want to go into that here):
lets take girl A.. (a girl that maybe goes to clubs every once in a blue moon, most girls don't go out to clubs every weekend(majority of women really don't) they are not club rats/regulars ( which is a minority of women), again:
- Here they start talking to multiple prospect/ cause BELIEVE IT OR NOT SNL/ONS ARE RARE AND NOT THE NORM NOW A DAYS IN NIGHT GAME, I AM NOT TALKING VEGAS(if not the lr sections of every forum will be filled with lay reports).- SECOND, THEY ARE NOT FUCKING SLEEPING WITH EVERY PROSPECT LIKE VIRGIN RED PILLERS LET YOU BELIEVE.- let me give you an example lets say and i will super exaggerate she met 5 guys on a night and gave 5 numbers(super exaggerated example, women don't get approach that much if at all), 2 guys will never contact her, 2 will fuck it up with ridiculous texting/low odds behavior maybe 1 will make it on a date, that dude that make it on a date maybe or may not sleep with her....
- ^ now lets assume she lost interest
-rinse wash repeat.- (went to club, 5 numbers blah blah) But in the second round lets say she went out on a date, and really liked the guy, lets assume the dude got some game and fucked her (unlikely trust me on this), now she either did not like the sex, or if he got to fuck her he probably is one of us (guys that get women, usually does keep fucking the most women) or he got "lucky" and got NEEDY/ONITIS. That is one possibility, lets call it possibility a.
possibility b.- the dude fucked her, and that was it, or lets assume he locked her in after 3 fucks or a connection/pair bond.
- if he locked her in even temporarily, she will not be going around sleeping with other guys, she may talk to other guys and keep them as orbiters, but ras(reticular activation system) is on the locked in guy...
- if she got fucked and dumped, she will stop frequenting or not go clubbing for a while, or if she does, same stuff happens (rinse wash repeat) until dude gets locked in, then she stops going out for duration of relationship most of the time...(the MAJORITY OF WOMEN, DON'T GO TO CLUBS OVER AND OVER AND OVER, NONE SENSE like puas do, is a projection).
NOTE.- there is are subset group of cultural differences, some latin women love to dance for example, they are likely to go to clubs more, but they will go with female/gay friends they will not cheat, a girl going to a club that is taking does not translate into hunting or cheating, again unless post breaking point is over stages, but again more of a factor history of cheating vs game style....
Lets talk about online dating, is very similar but WORST FOR HER:
-after a break up, she activates a dating account lets say tinder or bumble or okkupid, or match ( a few women try different apps, but most of them try one or another that they had success with)
- she will get 100s to 1000 matches, messages, etc... most of the guys are unattractive will not get a response, a VERY FEW, will make it, from those very few they will fuck it up in the texting, 1 will reach a date, in the date THEY WILL NOT SLEEP WITH THEM, it is exhausting and annoying to them, specially if she wasted her time...
- the ones that make it are usually FUCK BOYS (us), or a normal guy that is decent and more normal(unusual she will at times settle)... now if she gets locked in, she will stop checking or deactivate and focus on the dude just like the night game girl sample...
The average dude thinks women are fucking all over the place a bunch of different men all over the place, this is a men projection that is not how women are.... The nitpick is on guys that are not attractive and get no investment and/or have low game skills, they get put on orbiter position or ghosted and she keps hunting. Guy gets frustrated, since he sucks, and becomes a red piller, black piller, tradcum, or make silly post on "how can i meet a low count girl like some dude he does not even know idolizes, blind silliness/worshipping"...
A note on instagram, facebook, tiktok, only fans, wet cams...- this is how a normal guy perceives all the attention, the "you are amazing so beautiful" silly messages and likes and pms.... Too much competition, this is how she REALLY sees those guys "none existent in her eyes".
p.s. this will be just like i did in other forums with dance floor and in this forum with texting (where i taught you in multiple posts how to text like a baby) a series of posts I will tackle women and her sexuality, and i will teach you everything that you need to know about women....
Again, i personally have not found any difference on the medium of game on "women better suited to relationships" or damage control in case "things go south", I was trying to even think at the beginning of my women journey and when my skill level was low and no difference, but again, it was a different generation...
Curious to know and be as specific as you possibly can on how you are finding major differences in WOMEN cross gaming, if you have not cross game, please don't post and move along... If you have never fucked at least 10 women online, not interested in any of your opinion, if you have not fucked at least 10 women in day game, not interested in your opinion, if you have at least not fucked 10 women in clubs not interest in your opinion. Thanks in advance...
Since I joined the community....I had to fight ridiculous things such as: "dance floor is a trap" "text to meet only" "fuck women on the first night no matter what or game over" "talk on the dance floor" "don't physically escalate till closing location" "After 30 is over and you will never get laid unless you got money or status" "women from clubs are low quality and total trash" "humor does not work for seduction" "wait 3 days to text her" "I don't get how Justin Wayne is getting laid with reds, i was screaming that he was a fraud and made a post, on the forum about this before the scandal" "looks don't matter" "to go clubs you need drugs and/or alcohol" "game is bullshit is mostly luck", "women on day game likely to have lower count than any other game styles" and on and on, that people looked at me in the past with disgust and i constantly have to deal with shit like this even in the present....
-So i will give you a practical view of women and how they really are and how they operate (i am 46 and i have been pimping since moses had diapers in all type of games SUCCESSFULLY), and the type of relationship with every girl is super difficult on their end, it is a lot of power on my part "how high you want to jump on their parts" every relationship set up, every type of girl, every type of look, though my preference is and always have been pawg(phat ass white girls/porno looking type girls), i date all type of women and demographics.
First as much as red pillers, black piller, tradcom and even a few seducers view women, is all distorted and off in my experience/opinion and i don't know what the fuck they are talking about.... Usually the problem is that what they are doing is trying to find excuses for their lack of success with the ladies or relationships:
Red pillers- blame lack of success due to women nature.
black pillers- blame lack of success due to generics
tradcom- blame lack of success due to "modern society" and want to go back to the stone ages.
Some seducers- Try to find ways of lack of getting the success in the relationships "lay count" "personality disorders" and the likes....
^ what happens is these type of mentality nitpick and exaggerate on the "worst case scenarios type of situations" like iraq has weapons of mass destructions ready to attack the USA. The problem has never been women but the dude.
A good seducer/lover, you will never hear complain about none of that shit, ever, ever... is business as usual, so let me teach you basics practical stuff about women does not matter online, day game, night game, churh, japan, latin america, north korea i don't care women are women...
So women are not static beings... in other words they go through different changes and stages on their life (i highly recommend the book, the women brain)... Most dudes are pretty much the same dude and they barely change... There is a saying:"he hoped she stayed the same" "she hoped he changed" when it comes specially to break ups... The changes are due to many factors but in short the main 2 are hormones and life stages... Life stages is the primary changing factor... A girl at 18 is a different stage that a girl at 28 for example and different at 38 etc.., totally different life views, totally different goals, total different strategies etc...But i don't want to ramble on that his is not what the post is about... (just a short point)...
There are also not static physical feelings that gets a bit complicated:
some women have lower sex drive.- they can take or leave sex... Obviously unfortunately not much i can say about these girls, cause i have no much experience since i screen them out or they don't make it (trauma, religious hang ups etc.. minority of cases)... This can also be circumstantial(majority of cases), she does not feel it for you and she does not want to have sex with you... (ex.-sexless marriage)... This is stuff seducers should not really worry about, but i am talking about practical view on women)...
-most women have normal sex drives.-
-a few women have higher sex drives...
^ now sex drive DOES NOT EQUAL CHEATING.... In other words a lot of guys will assume high sex drive = cheating, but not necessarily, normal sex drive or no sex drive = no cheating... Again no necessarily the case... For example a low sex drive women that is a result of reaching a relationship breaking point is more likely to cheat than a high sex women that has onitis on a seducer. Cheating is overrated, it does happens, on the way out/planning escape stages with SOME WOMEN, guy became betasized, she had enough, revenge, dude not attractive enough etc... but not all women cheat and all women can cheat regardless of lay count... Is important to open them up and screen cause cheating is not determined by lay count, but the main thing that will determined cheating is THE HISTORY OF CHEATING.... I have dated high lay count girls that will not cheat on me with Bradd pitt, i have dated low count girls that cheated on me (at the end of relationship/way out) low lay count girls, that had a history of doing similar toward the end of previous relationship (and i knew this was a possibility all along, ex. my 10 year ex)...
So we covered sex drive and we cover life stages now lets cover the different type of girls again not static, a normal girl today can be a promiscuous girl tomorrow and a promiscuous girl tomorrow can become a normal girl:
Normal girl.- majority of women.
temp promiscuous.-a girl that sleeps with a lot of guys while pretending to be exclusive monogamous. Minority of women, usually happens with a minority of women after they reach breaking point of the relationship or planning escape and not all women will do this like is exaggerated by the red pill etc...
promiscuous girl or a girl that go through stages of sleeping around.- Again in my experience is not as exaggerated as red pillers and some guys make it out to be i will explain how this work... Minority of women as well.
- here is were things get complicated, cause some women will treat different guys, in different ways, for example a girl can date 2 different guys and treat and behave with those 2 guys in totally different ways.... But here is how it usually happens with a majority of women regardless medium of how you meet them, i am not talking about outliers (sexual freaks more on them later), hoochie mamas (can be white girls pretending to be ghetto, not only black girls), chongas (a latin low class ghetto/gansta wanna be from the hood), escorts/prostitutes,bdsm/hard core emos/swinger lifestyle girls.... I am talking most of the girls you guys will meet in this forum regardless of game style, if is the above you will automatically know by online/social media profile and during banter ( i left on purpose only fans, cam girls, strippers out, ig girls etc... cause i will cover in a bit.)
hunting/dating stages: Usually profile goes up if online, posting in social media for some increase a lot, some will go out with friends to night venues (not necessarily clubs, clubs is not night game, clubs is a night game medium, i will make a post on this later, don't want to go into that here):
lets take girl A.. (a girl that maybe goes to clubs every once in a blue moon, most girls don't go out to clubs every weekend(majority of women really don't) they are not club rats/regulars ( which is a minority of women), again:
- Here they start talking to multiple prospect/ cause BELIEVE IT OR NOT SNL/ONS ARE RARE AND NOT THE NORM NOW A DAYS IN NIGHT GAME, I AM NOT TALKING VEGAS(if not the lr sections of every forum will be filled with lay reports).- SECOND, THEY ARE NOT FUCKING SLEEPING WITH EVERY PROSPECT LIKE VIRGIN RED PILLERS LET YOU BELIEVE.- let me give you an example lets say and i will super exaggerate she met 5 guys on a night and gave 5 numbers(super exaggerated example, women don't get approach that much if at all), 2 guys will never contact her, 2 will fuck it up with ridiculous texting/low odds behavior maybe 1 will make it on a date, that dude that make it on a date maybe or may not sleep with her....
- ^ now lets assume she lost interest
-rinse wash repeat.- (went to club, 5 numbers blah blah) But in the second round lets say she went out on a date, and really liked the guy, lets assume the dude got some game and fucked her (unlikely trust me on this), now she either did not like the sex, or if he got to fuck her he probably is one of us (guys that get women, usually does keep fucking the most women) or he got "lucky" and got NEEDY/ONITIS. That is one possibility, lets call it possibility a.
possibility b.- the dude fucked her, and that was it, or lets assume he locked her in after 3 fucks or a connection/pair bond.
- if he locked her in even temporarily, she will not be going around sleeping with other guys, she may talk to other guys and keep them as orbiters, but ras(reticular activation system) is on the locked in guy...
- if she got fucked and dumped, she will stop frequenting or not go clubbing for a while, or if she does, same stuff happens (rinse wash repeat) until dude gets locked in, then she stops going out for duration of relationship most of the time...(the MAJORITY OF WOMEN, DON'T GO TO CLUBS OVER AND OVER AND OVER, NONE SENSE like puas do, is a projection).
NOTE.- there is are subset group of cultural differences, some latin women love to dance for example, they are likely to go to clubs more, but they will go with female/gay friends they will not cheat, a girl going to a club that is taking does not translate into hunting or cheating, again unless post breaking point is over stages, but again more of a factor history of cheating vs game style....
Lets talk about online dating, is very similar but WORST FOR HER:
-after a break up, she activates a dating account lets say tinder or bumble or okkupid, or match ( a few women try different apps, but most of them try one or another that they had success with)
- she will get 100s to 1000 matches, messages, etc... most of the guys are unattractive will not get a response, a VERY FEW, will make it, from those very few they will fuck it up in the texting, 1 will reach a date, in the date THEY WILL NOT SLEEP WITH THEM, it is exhausting and annoying to them, specially if she wasted her time...
- the ones that make it are usually FUCK BOYS (us), or a normal guy that is decent and more normal(unusual she will at times settle)... now if she gets locked in, she will stop checking or deactivate and focus on the dude just like the night game girl sample...
The average dude thinks women are fucking all over the place a bunch of different men all over the place, this is a men projection that is not how women are.... The nitpick is on guys that are not attractive and get no investment and/or have low game skills, they get put on orbiter position or ghosted and she keps hunting. Guy gets frustrated, since he sucks, and becomes a red piller, black piller, tradcum, or make silly post on "how can i meet a low count girl like some dude he does not even know idolizes, blind silliness/worshipping"...
A note on instagram, facebook, tiktok, only fans, wet cams...- this is how a normal guy perceives all the attention, the "you are amazing so beautiful" silly messages and likes and pms.... Too much competition, this is how she REALLY sees those guys "none existent in her eyes".
p.s. this will be just like i did in other forums with dance floor and in this forum with texting (where i taught you in multiple posts how to text like a baby) a series of posts I will tackle women and her sexuality, and i will teach you everything that you need to know about women....
Again, i personally have not found any difference on the medium of game on "women better suited to relationships" or damage control in case "things go south", I was trying to even think at the beginning of my women journey and when my skill level was low and no difference, but again, it was a different generation...
Curious to know and be as specific as you possibly can on how you are finding major differences in WOMEN cross gaming, if you have not cross game, please don't post and move along... If you have never fucked at least 10 women online, not interested in any of your opinion, if you have not fucked at least 10 women in day game, not interested in your opinion, if you have at least not fucked 10 women in clubs not interest in your opinion. Thanks in advance...
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