Why is "moving fast" or "date compression" not needy or low value?

[Deeppua]

Hey guys,

I hope Chase answers this!

I've read a few articles about "moving fast" and "date compression" from Chase which is taking the girl faster to bed by being in touch with her constantly in a short period of time like a week. But doesn't it come across as needy and doesn't have other things going on in my life?

 

[Sub-Zero]

That’s if you don’t think you can sleep with her the first night.

You need to move fast, that’s the key, and to me even more so today, don’t try to be too fast.

But you need to understand that with date compression, having weeks go by and not sleeping with a girl is wasting a lot of time.

 

[naturalmikey]

your putting yourself in a low value position to her. wouldn’t it be needy if she wanted to have sex on the first night. if you can get her chasing that will be the case. the neediness comes from needing it. wanting it is fine. ideally she’s the needy one. although that can get annoying.

 

[Sub-Zero]

your putting yourself in a low value position to her. wouldn’t it be needy if she wanted to have sex on the first night. if you can get her chasing that will be the case. the neediness comes from needing it. wanting it is fine. ideally she’s the needy one. although that can get annoying.

How many days you going to the gym?

 

[naturalmikey]

How many days you going to the gym?

1 - Legs
2 - Chest/Tris
3 - Back/Bis
4 - Shoulders
5 - Legs
6 - Upper body

I rotate that. I always take a day of rest after workout 6. I sometimes take a day of rest somewhere in the middle. So five to six days a week.

 

[Sub-Zero]

1 - Legs
2 - Chest/Tris
3 - Back/Bis
4 - Shoulders
5 - Legs
6 - Upper body

I rotate that. I always take a day of rest after workout 6. I sometimes take a day of rest somewhere in the middle. So five to six days a week.

Good shit my man. I gotta get back on my shit.

 

[Grand Pooba]

Hey guys,

I hope Chase answers this!

I've read a few articles about "moving fast" and "date compression" from Chase which is taking the girl faster to bed by being in touch with her constantly in a short period of time like a week. But doesn't it come across as needy and doesn't have other things going on in my life?

It's only needy if you're chasing after her like you have no other girl in her life and nothing else to do; the reason you're trying to get her out quickly is because her attraction expires and you know this. There are two completely different things going on here - one is whether or not you NEED to go out with her (or feel like you do), and the other is whether or not you SHOULD see her quickly, because if you wait things will never consummate. For the latter case you're actually helping the girl along on her own process and mindset with a guy.