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So I went out with this lady last night whom drove 40 mins to see me. We had fun. We made out.
I asked if I should drive her up to her house, since I cant host.
She said " Nice try, but thanks."
Two minutes later, I said " I have to go, so I am getting the check."
She looked confused and seemed like she had a lot to say.
I asked her whats up she said " Im just trying to figure you out. Do you want to hook up or what.?"
I Said" I want love." She said " Okay, what do you think of us?."
I said " What do you think?"
She said" I think you are cute, confident, we have many things in common, and funny."
I said " Thank you. I want my worth in the dating market." She said " Okay."
She wanted me to pay for her drinks. She was like " Like if a guy asks me out, I think he should pay for drinks." I didnt say anything, so she went and paid for hers. A few seconds later, I said see you.
Does she think I'm choppliver here ? Women divide men into two sections: One provider aka beta, and other is lover aka alpha. The lover gets sex effortlessly, while the beta doesnt. She wanted me to pay for her drinks and get nothing in return. She would probably give it up easily to someone else. I felt offended WTF.
I wont text her again.
Do you think I made a mistake by doing all the asking in the interaction ? Like I shouldnt have paused in between a lot and have her do some of the work which she did after I realized that I was doing too much.
I asked if I should drive her up to her house, since I cant host.
She said " Nice try, but thanks."
Two minutes later, I said " I have to go, so I am getting the check."
She looked confused and seemed like she had a lot to say.
I asked her whats up she said " Im just trying to figure you out. Do you want to hook up or what.?"
I Said" I want love." She said " Okay, what do you think of us?."
I said " What do you think?"
She said" I think you are cute, confident, we have many things in common, and funny."
I said " Thank you. I want my worth in the dating market." She said " Okay."
She wanted me to pay for her drinks. She was like " Like if a guy asks me out, I think he should pay for drinks." I didnt say anything, so she went and paid for hers. A few seconds later, I said see you.
Does she think I'm choppliver here ? Women divide men into two sections: One provider aka beta, and other is lover aka alpha. The lover gets sex effortlessly, while the beta doesnt. She wanted me to pay for her drinks and get nothing in return. She would probably give it up easily to someone else. I felt offended WTF.
I wont text her again.
Do you think I made a mistake by doing all the asking in the interaction ? Like I shouldnt have paused in between a lot and have her do some of the work which she did after I realized that I was doing too much.
