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Basically, met this girl at a party a few weeks ago. A lot of people just meeting each other (brand new) and she complimented on how "I'm so smooth socially". I can tell she's very interested in me, talks to me alone while ignoring everyone else, etc. I say bye to her and just go to get some food with a different girl cause I'm hungry. I didn't have any intentions with the girl I left cause I was just being friendly and getting food.
I see her again and say hi to her expecting her to be excited to see me. Instead, this time around she's a little bit aloof and short with me. As the party goes on, I sit next to her and her friend. I slowly talk to her friend and we start to talk about Halloween. She comments "I wanna show you my Hallooween pictures" and etc.
I'm wondering is this aloofness/reservedness due to low attainability or high attainability? In other words, she thinks I'm too + for her or - value wise. How can you tell which is which so that you can adapt?
I see her again and say hi to her expecting her to be excited to see me. Instead, this time around she's a little bit aloof and short with me. As the party goes on, I sit next to her and her friend. I slowly talk to her friend and we start to talk about Halloween. She comments "I wanna show you my Hallooween pictures" and etc.
I'm wondering is this aloofness/reservedness due to low attainability or high attainability? In other words, she thinks I'm too + for her or - value wise. How can you tell which is which so that you can adapt?