Will girls still like you if you have autism?

[duke1998]

Hi I have autism and I'm not sure if a girl would want someone like me. Because why have me if they could have someone normal? You know?

Maybe girls don't really care? I don't know. But if I was a girl I think I'd avoid someone like me.

Second part, have you guys ever known any autists who get girls (who aren't ugly)? I have friends who also have mental disabilities and they either don't have girls ever or they get only really ugly girls.

Thanks

 

[ulrich]

Ok, first your autism is not a mental disability, it’s just a condition.
It’s like having a bald patch or a birth mark… you’re not sick or anything…. you’re just a little slow on some things and pretty good on others.

Second, your autism has nothing to do.
Most people will never know you’re autist unless you are doing autistic shit.
In other words, nobody cares… so long you can act calibrated, it’s not really important.

Third, yes. Autistic guys can get girls.
There is a pretty big community of women married with autistic men who share their challenges and experiences.

Don’t let a fucking label throw you into victim mentality.
You are just a slow learner for social skills. You can do it if you put the work and your mind on it.

Read this:

Why Autistic People Struggle with Dating: Mind Blindness

Men with Asperger’s struggle with “social confusion.” Others often behave in ways that seem irrational to them. Why is this so, and is there anything they can do? I write this article for every guy on the autism spectrum, whether he's on it a little or on it a lot.

www.girlschase.com

For the record, I am mildly autistic.
I got it controlled… from time to time I catch up myself saying uncalibrated stuff or taking things too literally. It’s not a big deal.

 

[Skills]

Hi I have autism and I'm not sure if a girl would want someone like me. Because why have me if they could have someone normal? You know?

Maybe girls don't really care? I don't know. But if I was a girl I think I'd avoid someone like me.

Second part, have you guys ever known any autists who get girls (who aren't ugly)? I have friends who also have mental disabilities and they either don't have girls ever or they get only really ugly girls.

Thanks

I think half of the dudes in forums are autistic to be honest... The biggest example is tyler durden/owen cook.... Problem with this dudes is that they can not vibe, they may get laid but not keep women long term...

 

[Skjöldr]

yes.. i am autistic as fuck!