This is my first of hopefully many approaches. Hope you enjoy.
Friday night at around 11 me and some friends went to a shisha bar down town to kill some time before a party we were planning to attend later on in the night. The place was completely pact save for a table of six occupied by two dark haired age girls both a 7. There was four of us that night so I took it as a sign that this was went to be. I introduced myself to the two girls then the two girls to the rest of my friends and we sat and talked/smoked for a good forty-five min.
While we were at the bar I sat next to the girl i decided to make my target and things went along pretty well. Using the fundamentals described on this site worked wonders for me! Especially chase's explanation of eye contact, very solid stuff. Any way, I was deep diving along talking about her and what she does, what she likes to do, ect. I'm not a frequent smoker so I had her teach me to do smoke rings, which I got to do pretty well. Every thing was going great, little bit of light light touching her when ever I adressed her being as low energy and smooth as i could and getting alot of ioi's. Then right when I got the "Bambi Eyes" she falters and blurts out that she is in a relationship of three years.
Naturally I take this as a challenge.
I didn't make a big deal out of it laughed a bit commended her for her honesty and proceded the gradual escalation as before. After another meager attempt at making smoke rings (made two) she teased me about it and I challenged her to make them after I shotgunned the smoke to her mouth (inhale smoke, kiss her, then she exhale smoke while kissing). She enthusiastically agreed until she looked out the window and saw a bunch of guys who are "friends of her bf." Worst timing ever. They came in and sat down next to us so I talked to them for a bit and my friends and I left with the girls to the party we were planning on going to.
Once we got in line to the party we met a few of our female friends who joined our group. The only thing is that they pre-gamed for the night a bit too enthusiastically and the bouncer refused to let them in, not much of a surprise there. Instead of leaving them there we went to a bar nextdoor instead. We got to the bar which was pretty crowded and I pulled my girl away from the group and looked into her eyes brought her in for a kiss. She was not receptive so I remained unfazed and we went back to join our friends at the bar. That lasted about 30 seconds. So after another round of drinks and talking we all start dancing again. After a song and half we start dancing really close I go in for another kiss which is again shot down on the grounds that she is "really faithful to her boyfriend" which only made me try harder. I ramped up the sexual tension as far as I could. Used Push-pull, lots of physical contact, the "ESP model of escalation" (found in Tactics & Techniques), and I could tell she was really into it. So much so that she wouldn't look me in the eyes because she couldn't trust herself to not do anything. But the only thing I could pull from her was the smallest of small kisses on the lips. Quite annoying. At this point it was time me to go, (Im 18 and have a 3am curfew bleh) so I told her I was leaving and at was now or never. She have me another peck to try and tried to get me to stay but I was tired and sleep sounded nice. I said by to her and her friend, complemented her on her iron like resolve, rounded up the boys and went home.
Reflection: Didn't really get any where but it was alot of fun and I learned a few things for next time.
1. ISOLATE HER ASAP after hooking her! Things would of gone smoother had her friend not been there. The friends at the bar also didn't help at all.
2. Having her teach you something seems like a good idea, going to try that more.
Any thoughts reflections or criticism are always appreciated. Thanks for reading
Friday night at around 11 me and some friends went to a shisha bar down town to kill some time before a party we were planning to attend later on in the night. The place was completely pact save for a table of six occupied by two dark haired age girls both a 7. There was four of us that night so I took it as a sign that this was went to be. I introduced myself to the two girls then the two girls to the rest of my friends and we sat and talked/smoked for a good forty-five min.
While we were at the bar I sat next to the girl i decided to make my target and things went along pretty well. Using the fundamentals described on this site worked wonders for me! Especially chase's explanation of eye contact, very solid stuff. Any way, I was deep diving along talking about her and what she does, what she likes to do, ect. I'm not a frequent smoker so I had her teach me to do smoke rings, which I got to do pretty well. Every thing was going great, little bit of light light touching her when ever I adressed her being as low energy and smooth as i could and getting alot of ioi's. Then right when I got the "Bambi Eyes" she falters and blurts out that she is in a relationship of three years.
Naturally I take this as a challenge.
I didn't make a big deal out of it laughed a bit commended her for her honesty and proceded the gradual escalation as before. After another meager attempt at making smoke rings (made two) she teased me about it and I challenged her to make them after I shotgunned the smoke to her mouth (inhale smoke, kiss her, then she exhale smoke while kissing). She enthusiastically agreed until she looked out the window and saw a bunch of guys who are "friends of her bf." Worst timing ever. They came in and sat down next to us so I talked to them for a bit and my friends and I left with the girls to the party we were planning on going to.
Once we got in line to the party we met a few of our female friends who joined our group. The only thing is that they pre-gamed for the night a bit too enthusiastically and the bouncer refused to let them in, not much of a surprise there. Instead of leaving them there we went to a bar nextdoor instead. We got to the bar which was pretty crowded and I pulled my girl away from the group and looked into her eyes brought her in for a kiss. She was not receptive so I remained unfazed and we went back to join our friends at the bar. That lasted about 30 seconds. So after another round of drinks and talking we all start dancing again. After a song and half we start dancing really close I go in for another kiss which is again shot down on the grounds that she is "really faithful to her boyfriend" which only made me try harder. I ramped up the sexual tension as far as I could. Used Push-pull, lots of physical contact, the "ESP model of escalation" (found in Tactics & Techniques), and I could tell she was really into it. So much so that she wouldn't look me in the eyes because she couldn't trust herself to not do anything. But the only thing I could pull from her was the smallest of small kisses on the lips. Quite annoying. At this point it was time me to go, (Im 18 and have a 3am curfew bleh) so I told her I was leaving and at was now or never. She have me another peck to try and tried to get me to stay but I was tired and sleep sounded nice. I said by to her and her friend, complemented her on her iron like resolve, rounded up the boys and went home.
Reflection: Didn't really get any where but it was alot of fun and I learned a few things for next time.
1. ISOLATE HER ASAP after hooking her! Things would of gone smoother had her friend not been there. The friends at the bar also didn't help at all.
2. Having her teach you something seems like a good idea, going to try that more.
Any thoughts reflections or criticism are always appreciated. Thanks for reading
