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Hi,
I hope I find some help in here, so please give me some opinions what to do. I'm a beginner, and even though I occasionally have something with different women, I rarely feel some connection. Recently, I was the one who refused relationships. But finally, I met a girl with whom I really get along, we laugh together, and I've been out with her three times. Here's the story:
Meet her during regular event i attend and i had feeling that we are natural and have always a great time.
In the past she ignored my invitation to go out, but finally she agreed but i had to point out its no date.
1st Meeting: We had a great time, talked for app. 6 hours, and felt a strong connection. No gestures.
After that meeting, responding to my texts after 2 days and with no interest.
2nd Meeting: After some time. I was stressed and felt i acted unnaturally, creating awkward moments. Despite the stress, she came out again. After two weeks.
3rd Meeting: Took her to a play, but it wasn't enjoyable. After I tried subtle gestures (offering an umbrella, light touches) but felt she wasn’t receptive and refuse to take my hand. But went for a drink after anyway. I confessed my feelings at the end but she didn’t respond directly and changed the topic.
After a few days i offered another meeting, but she refused, due to some plans all week and schoolwork. I replied that she can text me when she has free time and feels like meeting. But she rarely writes first.
I dont want to put her on pedestal but after long time there is somebody with whom i feel really alive and we talk and have fun for hours.
During messaging she is unreceptive but meetings with her are really good and fun. Obviously there is something, otherwise she wouldnt go out with me 3 times, but not sure what to do now.
Wait for another lucky meeting during the event or write her once again for a meeting? Dont want to be pushy because i will meet her during these hobby events in the future.
I hope I find some help in here, so please give me some opinions what to do. I'm a beginner, and even though I occasionally have something with different women, I rarely feel some connection. Recently, I was the one who refused relationships. But finally, I met a girl with whom I really get along, we laugh together, and I've been out with her three times. Here's the story:
Meet her during regular event i attend and i had feeling that we are natural and have always a great time.
In the past she ignored my invitation to go out, but finally she agreed but i had to point out its no date.
1st Meeting: We had a great time, talked for app. 6 hours, and felt a strong connection. No gestures.
After that meeting, responding to my texts after 2 days and with no interest.
2nd Meeting: After some time. I was stressed and felt i acted unnaturally, creating awkward moments. Despite the stress, she came out again. After two weeks.
3rd Meeting: Took her to a play, but it wasn't enjoyable. After I tried subtle gestures (offering an umbrella, light touches) but felt she wasn’t receptive and refuse to take my hand. But went for a drink after anyway. I confessed my feelings at the end but she didn’t respond directly and changed the topic.
After a few days i offered another meeting, but she refused, due to some plans all week and schoolwork. I replied that she can text me when she has free time and feels like meeting. But she rarely writes first.
I dont want to put her on pedestal but after long time there is somebody with whom i feel really alive and we talk and have fun for hours.
During messaging she is unreceptive but meetings with her are really good and fun. Obviously there is something, otherwise she wouldnt go out with me 3 times, but not sure what to do now.
Wait for another lucky meeting during the event or write her once again for a meeting? Dont want to be pushy because i will meet her during these hobby events in the future.
