Hey Bastian, LEt me know if this post, helps.
There's more nuances and fundamentals of who she is, but yea. I hope this helps.
I just finished watching The Sound of Music, the 1965 Julie Andrews musical. It's not my normal movie-watching fare, so was a bit different for me. I noticed a couple of things that were eye-opening: one was a technique that I've seen before in older movies and never tried, and the other was...
www.skilledseducer.com
Interesting read. It does help illustrate the picture!
It's not about being shy or sweet, nor even about fear. While these factors influence her behavior, the word I'm looking for is submissive -- as in shy, sweet, anxious girls lean towards submissiveness.
That explains why this happens in later stages of the courtship.
I've yet to see it after sex, but no doubt it'll happen too.
Maybe more often. Need more data
Hi Bastian,
Unless it's physical abuse towards you, which by the sounds of it, it's not - ANY amount of touching she does with you is a good thing. It expresses comfort. This can be a soft 'hit' or 'slap' or 'push' on your chest area or shoulder typically once you've made fun of her in a playful way or (as you said) have said something slightly provocative. If she's laughing as well, the signs are clear.
Yeah it makes sense as the seduction progresses, right? But this happens all through the seduction spectrum. It even happened after I fucked a girl! I mean, to let you inside her, kiss her, and do amazing things to her; but afraid to hit you? That needs investigation.
I don't count that girl, because I didn't seduce her. But it did also happen with a girl I kissed.
This points towards submissiveness.
I know old-school pimps wouldn't let their hoes touch them without permission.
In BDSM subs don't touch their master, yet their comfort with their master/dom is beyond a doubt.
SO a girl wanting, but not hitting you would be a sign of submissiveness. Or at least, submissiveness to
you.
Whenever that's good or not would depend on the source.
Is it comfort? Or are you Daddy?
Submissiveness in another man doesn't mean he has your back. Thus, it shouldn't be any different from women.
So like most thing in life, seems like the answer to this thread is
It Depends
At this point I would start moving towards touching her back (shoulder), touching hands. If she asks what you're doing during a 'prolonged touch' of her hands just say "Well I have to restrain you, all i'm being is charming to you and you want to beat me up...I'm the victim here" *Do a cheeky grin.
-Corey Dee
Fucking hell, bro! Haven't tried this one yet, I'll put it to the test, haha
