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Hey guys, as the title says...I may already be good at some female communication, but what do we need to know if we're unsure if our skill is up to par or not?
Direct game works for me, but not in social situations unless the interest is very much there and even then calibration is required. Most of my lays are online or cold/warm approach. I have a hard time dating in social circle scenarios outside of college, and not sure if its a skill I want to get good at or if its always useful(especially discretion), I am discrete for the most part except for escalation or her knowing I'm interested.
So how can I get good at speaking/deciphering it or tell if my current level is good enough? And is it a good idea to let her be so passive aggressive in communicating, when I've had success with girls by calling them out kindly instead of engaging in such feminine communication style?
Would love a range of perspectives and assessments from those who best understand this and comprehend how this is difficult for guys(especially those of us who are more career focused/busy in general).
~Daken
Direct game works for me, but not in social situations unless the interest is very much there and even then calibration is required. Most of my lays are online or cold/warm approach. I have a hard time dating in social circle scenarios outside of college, and not sure if its a skill I want to get good at or if its always useful(especially discretion), I am discrete for the most part except for escalation or her knowing I'm interested.
So how can I get good at speaking/deciphering it or tell if my current level is good enough? And is it a good idea to let her be so passive aggressive in communicating, when I've had success with girls by calling them out kindly instead of engaging in such feminine communication style?
Would love a range of perspectives and assessments from those who best understand this and comprehend how this is difficult for guys(especially those of us who are more career focused/busy in general).
~Daken
