Wondering what happened here?

[almosteasy21]

This was a long time ago but It still bothers me to this day. Basically I had a sexual encounter where she let me stick it in but 10 seconds later she told me that she wasn't comfortable and wanted to stop. It wasn't like we raced into the sack either. We dated for two weeks and hung out numerous times before that all while being very sexual with each other. She gave me a very brief moment of head the prior to the almost sex incident. I got friend zoned shortly after. To this day I can't figure out what happened. I would appreciate some insight gentleman.

 

[Franco]

Hey Kinny21,

This sounds fairly unusual, and we would probably have to know more details about your interactions with her (as well as her personality) to be able to figure out why she stopped.

I wouldn't rack your brain over something like this though -- it will drive you crazy. Once you've got your cock inside her, 99/100 times you're pretty much good to go. Don't stress about it too much.

- Franco

 

[almosteasy21]

Thanks for the reply Franco. She was brought up with all brothers which turned her into a really sexy tomboy. She's was really into hockey, video games, ect...

The night that it happened we were laying in my bed watching movies and she would occasionally flash me her butt and vagina that night trying to work me up. I basically tackled her on the bed and asked her "you ready"? I put a pillow under her ass because the girl I was having sex with before her loved that. I slipped the condom on and stuck it in. She was more than receptive up until the point where she told me to stop.

The only reason I bring it up is because with every new girl I had sex with after that has started off clumsily for fear that it would happen again. It was a terrible feeling I never want to experience again. Plus I was really into her at the time and got friend zoned because of it.