Xcrunner's missed girls list

[Verisimilitude]

The post on why guys don't approach women and the excuses they make really hit home for me. Especially the part about how we don't want it bad enough.
So I figured I'd post this list, not only to motivate me, but to also show guys what they are missing by not approaching and they can learn from it as well.

1. The girl: On the way to take a practice test for an exam, I saw a girl walking towards me. She was blonde and was wearing a green shirt. Great body, pretty face. She smiled at me. She looked disappointed as I walked by and didn't approach.

My excuse: I looked away and decided not to approach because I was "busy" and I didn't have the time. I'm also worried about coming off weird or creepy by approaching girls on the street, even though she was clearly into me.

2. I was heading to pick up a package and I was walking on the street when a girl walked by and smiled at me. Blonde, about my height, not skinny, but not overweight. I didn't smile back or react.

My excuse: I was having a "bad day" and I was sick.

3. At a house party later that night, I was sitting with some friends when a girl came by and sat by herself close to me. She looked bored and was "floating" around me. i knew her from some other parties, and she had smiled and looked at me a couple times. She was younger, really pretty, great legs and dirty blonde hair. Wearing a great pair of jean cut offs. When I went inside with a group of friends, she sat down close to me and talked with another person on the couch. Later she smiled at me multiple times. She flirted with a couple of other guys but left by herself later. She wasn't disappointed, but I could tell she wanted a guy to pick her up.

My excuse: I could have opened her, but I didn't know what to say, but I never really thought about it. I was also worried that she'd blow me off and because I was with my friends. I wasn't sure how to open her later because she was in a group. I also hadn't gotten her name and I didn't bother.

Hopefully, this is the last post that I make in this thread. These all happened in less than 24 hours. I didn't approach any of them.

 

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Yesterday, I did a pretty good job of approaching, but I was also at a party, so the social context was easier. Only one girl to add.

The girl: Brown haired, pale skinned girl. She didn't flaunt it or highlight it, but I could tell she had a great body. I had met her before at a party. Never thought she was interested, but she shot me an incredible smile. I smiled, purely out of reflex. She looked down and kept smiling. I didn't react and I was so thrown off, I just walked right by her. I was so mad after. I tried my best not to let that happen again at the party I went to, and for the most part it worked.

Hopefully, this is the last post that I make in this thread. This happened yesterday. I didn't approach her.

 

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So its been a while since I've posted in this. I've been busy with other things and really struggling to find time to work on approaches. But I do have another name to add, but its a girl that I approached! So I guess this is the start of my approached girls list.

To start off, I would have made this a FR, but I was high and drunk and nearly blackout at the the time, so I don't remember enough. What I do remember is that I saw a cute blonde smiling at me from on a bench and I approached her. She was waiting for her friends, but I got her to move with me. I got her name and her number, and we hung out for a little. Tried to get some food, but nothing was open. Walked back to her place but nothing happened (I was really drunk). So the positive is that I approached a girl, but the negative is that I missed it because I was too drunk. We're hanging out this weekend, so there's still plenty of time for more fun.

Hopefully I can make more posts like this in this thread. This happened last weekend. I approached after seeing she was interested.

 

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When I went to the gym today, it was just me and another girl (its a small gym). I didn't want to make things awkward, so I decided not to check her out and just focused on working out. When I was working out, I thought she was checking me out, but I wasn't sure and I try to focus on just my work when I lift. I also had my music really loud and I was kind of pissed off. After about 20 minutes, she left and said something to me. My music was loud, so I had no idea what she said. Another guy had come into the gym after I got there so I asked him what she said. He told me, "she looked at you and said have a good night". I don't know if this was a sign of interest or not, but I figured I'd put it up.

Hopefully, this is the last post like this that I make in this thread. This happened yesterday. I didn't approach her.