You got her to your home both sober. Say you don't usually have alcohol/don't drink. Should you still have some alcohol and try to get her to drink?

[sinksink]

So this is all assuming she came to your place and you guys did not come from a place with alcohol. Say you picked up a girl during day game and eventually got her to your place

1. See title question " Should you still have some alcohol and try to get her to drink" ->If so, how would you ask her / tell her to drink?

2. What drinks would you go with?

3. Is there any way around this so you yourself don't have to drink too if you offer her a drink?

4. What would be some ways you would suggest she drinks more/is this a good idea?

There is the question of whether girls are more likely to have sex with some alcohol in them- I'm guessing yes in general. There does seem like an risk of a rape accusation if she sleeps with you while intoxicated though to get out of having to say she slept with a stranger, though hopefully she liked you enough not to do this.

 

[Mr.Rob]

I dont drink ever but when I pull a girl back I do think it helps to have a drink with her (alcohol gives her an excuse to loosen up and be more sexual).

Id typically just make my drink a bit less strong and nurse it/hardly drink it.

Neither of you will get tipsy off one drink and a few sips wont kill you if your super into health. Its more about giving her something to blame her sexual behavior on ("oh I just started kissing him, it was the drinks!"... yeah right lol).

That said it can still be done without drinks pretty easy... if you have a really good virgin drink you can make thats interesting that can be fun too. Talk about your passion for health and use it as a transition to talk about how being healthy means better sex.

Its also just nice if she has something in her hands to play with and make her feel like "oh were having drinks" and not "oh were just sitting on a couch".

 

[sinksink]

I dont drink ever but when I pull a girl back I do think it helps to have a drink with her (alcohol gives her an excuse to loosen up and be more sexual).

Id typically just make my drink a bit less strong and nurse it/hardly drink it.

Neither of you will get tipsy off one drink and a few sips wont kill you if your super into health. Its more about giving her something to blame her sexual behavior on ("oh I just started kissing him, it was the drinks!"... yeah right lol).

That said it can still be done without drinks pretty easy... if you have a really good virgin drink you can make thats interesting that can be fun too. Talk about your passion for health and use it as a transition to talk about how being healthy means better sex.

Its also just nice if she has something in her hands to play with and make her feel like "oh were having drinks" and not "oh were just sitting on a couch".

1. Is there really a good way so she drinks alcohol and the guy doesn't drink - when they are at his place? I really dislike alcohol and bars, but I do think it would be good if she had a little alcohol (but nowhere near enough to puke, that could be a bit gross). How would you go about this?

2. What kind of alcohol would you have at your place that tastes good and what excuse / trick would you use so you didn't have to drink? I'm unfamiliar with types of drinks

3. Or what drink is least alcoholic and more sugary but is common? Something that might taste good to a little kid / tastes sugary

4. If you ask her, "would you like a drink?" she can more easily say no. What is a better phrase or sentence so she feels more pressured to drink?

I've drank before a few times, hated it