You look like a womanizer/player ???

[Cassy]

So I asked my girlfriend, and then I asked my other female friend (which are very attractive looking girls with very nice bodies) what was their first perception of me when they first saw me or met me. They said different things, that I look cool, social etc, but one thing that surprised me is that my girlfriend said I look like a womanizer, I never gave it much thought but then when I asked my other female friend she said that I look like a Cassanova, I tried to get deep and ask what was it about me that made me look like a cassanova but she just said that most players look like me and that the first time we met since I was late to pick her up at the bus station, she thought maybe I was busy fucking some other girls before going to meet her up. I was so shocked these girls thought of me like that, especially that there very beautiful girls with nice bodies a lot of guys wish for.
So whats up with these girls thinking am a player/womanizer at first impression? Is it a good thing or bad thing?

 

[headsup38]

Hi,

As someone who routinely gets that nickname wherever I go, I was puzzled for a long time. I didn't want that reputation because I felt it might hurt me in the relationship department. But now I kinda embrace it. It shows I have experience and the ability to attract desirable females. That's something not too many guys can stake a claim to. Women don't think like men do. When women surround themselves with hot guys, I sure as hell am not going to look at her as datable--looks like she's taken. I'd rather go after a "single untaken girl." When a guy surrounds himself with hot girls, I don't find girls are necessarily turned off. I think they think if pretty girls are paying attention to him than he must be a catch and they want in on him too. With guys it's all about talking about or having the hard evidence--how many times you got laid, how much $$$ you make, the large house...etc. Women don't really respond to that. If the experience is implied than you are good to go. I saw somewhere that said that being seen with pretty girls will help you get women better than having a wing man when scoping for females. You can experiment yourself if you want to find out if it's true or not. I personally don't fraternize with guys too much because I am not a "bros before hos" kinda guy and am getting irritated at all the clowning around guys do at social events.

 

[Seppuku]

Cassy,

I noticed the same myself last year when the girls I was meeting started asking "how many girls do you have?" rather than "do you have a girlfriend? It's either coming from a good game, or from body language cues you are giving away (maybe without you being aware). Girls can tell if you are good or not within the first 30 minutes of ever interacting with you.

It is very good news, it means you have game, and you benefit from preselection. Needless to say, it is much better to be perceived as "fucking tons of chicks" than as "poor sexless chap". It sets you apart from the dozens of lame ass guys that she meets routinely. Whatever they saying otherwise, girls are super excited to meet a guy good with girls.

Like Headsup said, it is much better to fully embrace it. Don't confirm the statement straight (it can backfire) but certainly do not deny it either. Have a slow, mysterious smile, nod your head and say something like "Girls sure seem to like me these days" with a wink. It is a way of saying yes indirectly while keeping mystery and some doubt, and keep her excitement high.

Seppuku