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"You should take it as a compliment, That I'm talking to everyone here but you." Someone explain this to me.

batman12

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I woke up and began listening to music. Taylor Swift's song "Gorgeous" came on. I began tripping out for like a good hour. Enlighten me guys.

First it says "You're so gorgeous. I can't say anything to your face." "You should take it as a compliment, That I'm talking to everyone here but you."

Umm I've had this happen a few times... There was this one girl who would literally act so weird around me. She'd ignore me one minute, and then bend over in front of the next. I try to talk to her, she ignores... but then would stare at me like nonstop. I like even tried moving to another spot and took another look and she was still looking at me. But every time I try to talk to her she ignores me. I try persisting and ignored. How do I move forward when I keep getting ignored?

I noticed this at a party too. I was making this one girl laugh a lot and then she just started ignoring me out of nowhere and talking to my friend. I chalked it off as a loss and moved on, but turns out my friend didn't score either and didn't even get close.

She then says "You should take it as a compliment. That I got drunk and made fun of the way you talk." "You're so cool, it makes me hate you so much."

I've had girls do this. They won't comply to little things or say yes to dates. But will make fun of me... Not really sure how to tell if it's genuine or if it's like Taylor's song...

The same girl who was ignoring me and bending over in front of me was at one point making fun of me... but again, anytime I try talking to her, cold shoulder.

I've never thought of myself as "Gorgeous" but I am in great shape, under 10 percent body fat, and more or less exotic looking (I'm middle eastern white). I'm beginning to think I look good... but like what do I do in these situations? I'm being ignored so I can't really do much... and pretty much any effort on my part leads me to get ignored even more.
 
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Boom_1982

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She could be inexperienced so just relax and focus on other things and do not try hard. Give her some time and space to come back to you and take it fwd from there based on your style and get her to bed quickly to kill the nervousness. Enjoy the attention you’re getting because your hard work is paying off
 

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She could be inexperienced so just relax and focus on other things and do not try hard. Give her some time and space to come back to you and take it fwd from there based on your style and get her to bed quickly to kill the nervousness. Enjoy the attention you’re getting because your hard work is paying off
Thanks for the advice! I always thought of myself as average before, but I guess I'm moving up the chains of attractiveness.
 

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This is the kind of things that make you realize that women are not all masters of social game with socialization superpowers.

Some of them do weird stuff when nervous and shoot themselves in the foot often.

Most guys will never reach a point of attractiveness that allows them to realize this.
 
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so true @uriel, i’d even say that girls are MORE awkward around guys they like than guys are with girls they like
 

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Thanks for the advice! I always thought of myself as average before, but I guess I'm moving up the chains of attractiveness.
In addition physical attractiveness, you should now work on improving your mental strength. You're the prize and there's little or no time for things that don't provide value. You've tried your bit and it's now time to move on until she choses to come back. I suggest reading some articles on domination by Chase
 

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Taylor is a very talented song writer, and I think her lyrics can kind of be like a looking glass into the female mind.
 

Boom_1982

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I'm just thinking about the poor guy who is going through this and is completely clueless on what's going and to an extent it can feel insulting. Why is she talking to everyone else except me? What have I done and how can I make her talk to me? are some random questions buzzing his mind
 
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