Hey guys,
So I've been lurking on here for years, occasionally posting (I think I may have broken a few of the rules for posting as well, sorry), and taking some action in high school. I have been in several relationships over the last few years thanks to improving my fundamentals and working a brooding social circle vibe. My last girlfriend I picked up with by directly saying "I want to kiss you, I know I shouldn't" (she had a boyfriend). I should have just kissed her then, I waited a few days and ended up getting a blowjob in her room and sex the next week. Unfortunately, I had an on and off girlfriend at the time, who then found out and dumped me publicly. It also didn't help that the old girlfriend's best friend was the sister of the new girl, and my ex. Needless to say, I was still in jerk phase. This lead to huge reputation problems that I didn't mend until the last month of school, then I graduated.
Post-graduation, I toured Europe with the new girlfriend, who I told about girlschase. She didn't mind, surprisingly. She also knew what she was doing. In a bar in Amsterdam, this happened.
GF: "You're going to need to learn to not rely on already knowing people so much. See the bartender over there, with red hair and a lot of cleavage"
I look. Yup. Cleavage like a black hole. She looked mid-twenties.
GF: "I want you to go up to her and order drinks. As you do it, slowly look down at her cleavage, back into her eyes, and smirk."
So I go. She's already serving drinks to someone else, super busy night. I wait. Bartender looks at me. I look at her eyes, look back down to her neck, back up. She keeps serving drinks but faster. She then walks up to me and asks what I want. I do the smirk and cleavage glance thing, she makes my drinks right in front of me, slowly.
I was wearing a leather jacket and dark jeans and felt like a boss. As I said, I've never done non-social circle anything.
Oh and hours later that night she remembered my order.
That was a week ago.
So now I'm in the US waiting for college. I don't know anyone here, I have lived overseas for ten years. I'm stuck with my family in a cabin in the middle of nowhere. After four days of doing nothing, I've been pretty down. In the last month I got my weighted pullups up to 80 pounds, and incline bench up to 160 (I weigh 150). But I have no weights up at this cabin, just a pull-up bar. Am going to try to work up to one arm pullups, I can already do one arm pushups.
Read the article on taking action today. I've gotten back to writing on this book I've been working on, as well as practicing guitar. I went to the local town (population 900) today. I walked around a bit, but was with my family so was limited. Talked to a few girls, but pretty much was just asking for directions (all the girls I met were there with parents as well).
So yeah. Just a sort of introductory post. The good stuff should come in a few months, when college starts. Will try to do some approaches between now and then but we will see.
So I've been lurking on here for years, occasionally posting (I think I may have broken a few of the rules for posting as well, sorry), and taking some action in high school. I have been in several relationships over the last few years thanks to improving my fundamentals and working a brooding social circle vibe. My last girlfriend I picked up with by directly saying "I want to kiss you, I know I shouldn't" (she had a boyfriend). I should have just kissed her then, I waited a few days and ended up getting a blowjob in her room and sex the next week. Unfortunately, I had an on and off girlfriend at the time, who then found out and dumped me publicly. It also didn't help that the old girlfriend's best friend was the sister of the new girl, and my ex. Needless to say, I was still in jerk phase. This lead to huge reputation problems that I didn't mend until the last month of school, then I graduated.
Post-graduation, I toured Europe with the new girlfriend, who I told about girlschase. She didn't mind, surprisingly. She also knew what she was doing. In a bar in Amsterdam, this happened.
GF: "You're going to need to learn to not rely on already knowing people so much. See the bartender over there, with red hair and a lot of cleavage"
I look. Yup. Cleavage like a black hole. She looked mid-twenties.
GF: "I want you to go up to her and order drinks. As you do it, slowly look down at her cleavage, back into her eyes, and smirk."
So I go. She's already serving drinks to someone else, super busy night. I wait. Bartender looks at me. I look at her eyes, look back down to her neck, back up. She keeps serving drinks but faster. She then walks up to me and asks what I want. I do the smirk and cleavage glance thing, she makes my drinks right in front of me, slowly.
I was wearing a leather jacket and dark jeans and felt like a boss. As I said, I've never done non-social circle anything.
Oh and hours later that night she remembered my order.
That was a week ago.
So now I'm in the US waiting for college. I don't know anyone here, I have lived overseas for ten years. I'm stuck with my family in a cabin in the middle of nowhere. After four days of doing nothing, I've been pretty down. In the last month I got my weighted pullups up to 80 pounds, and incline bench up to 160 (I weigh 150). But I have no weights up at this cabin, just a pull-up bar. Am going to try to work up to one arm pullups, I can already do one arm pushups.
Read the article on taking action today. I've gotten back to writing on this book I've been working on, as well as practicing guitar. I went to the local town (population 900) today. I walked around a bit, but was with my family so was limited. Talked to a few girls, but pretty much was just asking for directions (all the girls I met were there with parents as well).
So yeah. Just a sort of introductory post. The good stuff should come in a few months, when college starts. Will try to do some approaches between now and then but we will see.
Not exactly a field report but I wanted to let you guys know how things were going, and advice on how to be more calibrated and less tryhard would be much appreciated. 