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Interest yet no compliance on her part means so little

Don't fall for it

Better if you can get both from her of course

But be out looking for compliance,just about every single time you go out

It saves your time a lot

Easy to fake interest...hard to fake compliance

If she's mostly compliant with you,trust me odds are high you are going to get her
Hi Riacrdus, I saw a post of yours about personal development a while ago and would love to hear what you've been working on in the past 7-8 years. Not entirely sure how to PM on here but have read / used to great success (thank you) a lot of your cool day game / relationship ideas so thank you for that as well. Hoping to hear from you.
You don't have to be Mr. Smooth with every girl you meet

Go meet her and then figure what kind of game you have to break out

Most chicks are used to meeting lames that your C game could get them if you do know your stuff

minimum conatus maximus eventus

It's easy to get caught up trying to figure how to move things forward especially when you process is challenged
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( it happens but with great game ,it's no sweat off your back)

Nonetheless , the simplest game could move things forward more often than you think

I’m not saying smooth game doesn’t work

I’m saying you don’t have to rack your brain up trying to figure out how to move an intercation forward when simple stuff could do

You have to try it and see
Chad Tyrone
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And hey if it doesn’t work out ,you can always pull out your big guns

Really, advanced game is game in its simplest form

Lol ,used to want everything perfect and girls wouldn’t get me

Then I’d simplify what I was saying or how I came across and things proceeded without a hitch
Chad Tyrone
Chad Tyrone
So yeah , careful you don’t get stuck running your seductions perfectly.

I mean if the chick is experienced and all , you can…

Provided she gets you and can play along.

With most chicks though , just good game will do
People bitch on lowering your standards

Take it from me tho...

Once you get to be the buyer and have so much choice

You decide whether the interaction is doing it for you or not

Maybe a cute girl is making things harder for you while another more cute one is all over you .

You get to decide whether the just-cute girl is worth the bother
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Lowering your standards isn't about shagging your way through anything that breathes


It's more about giving yourself easy wins/ experience to pick the chicks you most want.

And picking the chicks you most want is getting to decide if you're willing to stick in there if she ain't doing it for you

Being the buyer+ lowering your standards makes for a killer combo
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My mentality is similar at the moment. Building up my wins and honing my seduction skills with girls who aren't as hot as the hot girls I might have some trouble with. Little by little my caliber will go up and up and those girls I had issues with wont mean anything to me. Im already seeing how much more outcome independent and smooth I have become in only 6 or so dates. We only go up from here
You don't have to be contentious to win at frame control

If you do ,you really aren't winning others over

Instead you are outing them

Your frame can come out on top while still making others feel included.

Aim for that
At the top , you get to test lots of different stuff

While starting out,you tend to ,and should, stick to the rules

Past a certain level,you get a big picture of the game

And it gets easier to break the rules without hurting yourself or messing your process

Thinking of this ,more and more lately

Curious to hear what others think too
Chad Tyrone
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But you won't be going out there and forcing yourself on chicks just because attraction will expire if you don't close this first time .

Instead, you can keep your cool , maintain your process or ,come up with a different strategy without chasing her of course

And see how that plays out

Maybe you got used to replacing all chicks you couldn't get at first
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But what if you could change things up and see if you still can win?

Sometimes you may

Sometimes you may not

But it's good to have those experiences in your mind so you know when to persist and stay in there in the future and when not to

Best of all, you get to see more marginal improvements rather than when you used to be rigid and didn't want to see the flip side of things
Chad Tyrone
Chad Tyrone
And that brings you closer and closer to the big picture ,if you ask me
hi how are you, what is your best advice for a beginner? i have had great success with applying sex god method with one girl but am trying to meet other girls, what is your best advice. it is very confusing to know who i should follow and listen to, there is indirect style mystery game, then there is direct game, there is escalation and there is your idea you write about so much where you bring up sexual stories
There's always a lot to learn and it can feel overwhelming .I know .

I don't have enough time just sounds like I don't want it bad enough though .

If you want to be better ...if you want to be great, then you've got to make time.

An hour a day or a week is all you need .

Want to learn fast , put in more hours .

1% improvement weekly is 50% in a year .
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Doesn't matter how much you get advanced too...

There's always something that will move the needle forward .

Always new mountains to climb.

Basically , there is no end to this beautiful journey.

Call it ego ... but it's amazingly awesome when you can run rings around others .

That's the prize of mastery .
Spyce D
Spyce D
Beautifully put .

Improvement no matter how small is still an improvement .
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Glad you liked it
" The ability to deal with people is as purchasable a commodity like sugar or coffee.And I'll pay more for that ability than for any other under the sun"

~John D. Rockefeller
It's been said,time and time again,you should cut your losses and walk away from girls it's going nowhere with

Most guys though,try as they will,can't exercise this option (or worse revert back to their normal ways once they do)

Some try meeting more girls but keep running into the same problem:

It isn't going anywhere but they are finding it hard just to give it all up

Why?
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And I get it ,it's easy to not walk away when there's still hope

When the embers are yet to die

What better rule to come up with when you just can't get yourself to let go?

First: accept that you lost ...we only can learn when we accept our mistakes

Second:You only can walk away from girls you couldn't get by always investing less than they do

Less may vary from girl to girl
Chad Tyrone
Chad Tyrone
Perhaps less may me more to some chicks


While "more " may be less for others


So less here means relative to hers


Anyways ,it's more easier to walk away ,and not kick yourself in the butt for it ,when you invest less than her right from the beginning
Chad Tyrone
Chad Tyrone
Best of all,you don't feel ashamed when you do

This doesn't mean hold it back and don't invest at all

Just be conscious of your own investment relative to hers

As hers goes up ,yours should too

As hers dwindles away,ditto
Hello,

I'm interested in hiring a skilled coach to help fuel my growth in this journey of becoming great with women. Do you offer any coaching plans, where we may have consistent weekly sessions over the period of a few months as I work in field?
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I will pm you, to see if we can work something out....
Hello, this is Alek Rolstad, correct?

I am interested in hiring you for coaching. However, I was wondering if you do any ongoing coaching plans for someone early into their growth that's looking to have consistent sessions over the period of a few months?
Getting fish to bite comes down to thinking like fish

All too often,many guys think like fishermen
and less than the fish

And are disappointed when the fish don't bite

What gets some fishermen to outfish others?

It's by studying all there is to know about the fish they aim to catch, if they are to think like them

What gets them biting with abandon?What makes them lay low? When are they hungry ?

...
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What bait attracts them? The works

Great seducers are no different from the best fishermen that outfish the others

They understand that to get women they'll have to put themselves in women shoes and think like them or along their thinking

Like a great fisherman will ask what there is to know about fish...

A great seducer will ask(about women):
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What's their life like?Who're they most attracted to? When can they be easily gotten? What works on them (generally)?What doesn't work on them?...other paraphernalia

Over and over until he ingrains it in his mind to think this way

It's easy to say that I don't have to do all that

I'll keep thinking like a fisherman...her loss if she can't see the value in a guy like me
Chad Tyrone
Chad Tyrone
But understand this ,the biggest obstacle to your success is always thinking like a fisherman and having little thought for the fish you want to catch

Believe me...perhaps don't

Take this for a spin and see a new world open up to you
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