Nothing will get you to burn out and quit than pressuring yourself
Take the pressure off
You don't have to get it right the first time
Take the pressure off
You don't have to get it right the first time
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Good question to ask yourself everytime you try to move fast with girls ...
And get stopped in your tracks
Or have some doubt in your mind
Whether moving fast does really work is
"Have I worked on my sexiness?"
If girls " out " themselves from the interaction every single time you try to skip steps
I guarantee being a sexy guy will open a new world for you
Else I can go eat crow lol
Once you've been moving fast with girls multiple times
You'll have a disdain for anything moving too slow for your taste
If you've got your game down pat,it won't really matter that much if she's hot too
There is no limit to how fast you can go
It may sound unbelievable at first,to many
But yeah ,this world exists
Attraction is a game board
Time is your opponent
A little procrastination ...a lil slacking
And time will knock you out bad
You must make that move if you are out for victory
You may not be victorious all the time
And that's fine
But being in that mindset constantly will put you far ahead
I promise
Guys will run good game to the T
And fail to make a move
It's sad
It's too easy to get stuck looking out for signals that you end up not making any move(s)
Especially with neutral girls
Too easy to tell yourself that you'll wait until she's " ready"
Too easy to resort to" building a connection more and more,and making the move next time"
Only that next time never comes
To some it may ,but that's all luck
You're a killer seducer,so relying on luck is mostly out
You can get congruent with who you really are, that girls will find it incongruent you'd chase them
You become fully detached once it becomes a matter of just testing things out to see whether my process works
And not whether I get this specific chica
You are ,in essence, leaving the process to put the neck on the line for you (lol)
Whereas if you are too attached on getting that one girl, you are basically signing yourself up for an ego bruise
Test things out for yourself first
Constantly asking for advice
Or looking for some obscure YT video that'll will get girls jumping on your dick right out of the gate ,
Ain't gonna get you anywhere
Believe you have it in you to always figure things out
Go fail...
Fast and forward
There are a billion ways to fuck it up with a chick and only few ways to get her
There are more things you should not be doing than there are things to do
Get out of your head
Easily avoid the things you should not be doing
And follow the patterns
You don't pursue getting better with women to impress people
Some do
But the smart ones ultimately realize that it was never really about impressing others
You pursue greatness because it's how you choose to operate and realize that it's the only way to have control over your reality
You do it for you
Fool is him that mistakes genuity for politeness or weakness
If people can walk over you and you call yourself genuine
You are not there yet!
Truly genuine men are also unfuckwithable
Drill that into your skull everytime you try to talk yourself out of cultivating genuity for a fear that it's "weak" or "uncool"
Is it manipulation if you have her best interests at heart?
She can be above all human laws
But she can never be above the laws of woman nature
Who she really is deep down doesn't change
There is a point of diminishing returns once you get good
A point where you never have to bother racking your brain up to come up with new tactics or strategies on how to get her
Certainly you can but you don't need to
" The only history worth a damn is the history we make today"
-Henry Ford
Get close to those you most admire
And discover a being with human flaws
You can become whoever you want to be
Once you quit idolizing
I promise
For those beating themselves up,
Get this:
3 years from now...5 yrs...10,
It won't matter a flying fig whether you got rejected on your first approach,
Or you couldn't get that girl Penny out.
Nor would it matter how bad you wanted to make things right with Cathy ...once you messed things up
What would matter is what stuck with you
Is it the lesson(s) or the experience?
There's a kind of indifference that every guy that's been down the block embodies
And most importantly, during the escalation to sex
He doesn't get bitter when she's resisting his escalation attempts
Nor does he plead with her to put out like every needy guy she's been with before
He remains his normal self whether he gets the lay or not
And if he doesn't get the lay ,that's ok
No skin off his nose
A guy that gets girls is a guy that truly thinks he can
Everyone,when starting out, is out for that magic secret that will land him chicks easily and faster
We always think that we can magically skip to the good part and avoid the bad one
But Father Experience teaches you that easy and fast seductions are built on the back of 100s of little "nothings"
It looks superhuman ,from the outside , and sort of a magic potion that wannabes could drink from ... -
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