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  • Detached is the man that always bets things may go south no matter how great an interaction is

    And hey it doesn't have to be defeatist

    Women can and do "change" for whatever reason

    Plan for that and you won't panic any when it doesn't go your way
    Interest yet no compliance on her part means so little

    Don't fall for it

    Better if you can get both from her of course

    But be out looking for compliance,just about every single time you go out

    It saves your time a lot

    Easy to fake interest...hard to fake compliance

    If she's mostly compliant with you,trust me odds are high you are going to get her
    You don't have to be Mr. Smooth with every girl you meet

    Go meet her and then figure what kind of game you have to break out

    Most chicks are used to meeting lames that your C game could get them if you do know your stuff

    minimum conatus maximus eventus

    It's easy to get caught up trying to figure how to move things forward especially when you process is challenged
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    ( it happens but with great game ,it's no sweat off your back)

    Nonetheless , the simplest game could move things forward more often than you think

    I’m not saying smooth game doesn’t work

    I’m saying you don’t have to rack your brain up trying to figure out how to move an intercation forward when simple stuff could do

    You have to try it and see
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    And hey if it doesn’t work out ,you can always pull out your big guns

    Really, advanced game is game in its simplest form

    Lol ,used to want everything perfect and girls wouldn’t get me

    Then I’d simplify what I was saying or how I came across and things proceeded without a hitch
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    So yeah , careful you don’t get stuck running your seductions perfectly.

    I mean if the chick is experienced and all , you can…

    Provided she gets you and can play along.

    With most chicks though , just good game will do
    People bitch on lowering your standards

    Take it from me tho...

    Once you get to be the buyer and have so much choice

    You decide whether the interaction is doing it for you or not

    Maybe a cute girl is making things harder for you while another more cute one is all over you .

    You get to decide whether the just-cute girl is worth the bother
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    Lowering your standards isn't about shagging your way through anything that breathes


    It's more about giving yourself easy wins/ experience to pick the chicks you most want.

    And picking the chicks you most want is getting to decide if you're willing to stick in there if she ain't doing it for you

    Being the buyer+ lowering your standards makes for a killer combo
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    My mentality is similar at the moment. Building up my wins and honing my seduction skills with girls who aren't as hot as the hot girls I might have some trouble with. Little by little my caliber will go up and up and those girls I had issues with wont mean anything to me. Im already seeing how much more outcome independent and smooth I have become in only 6 or so dates. We only go up from here
    You don't have to be contentious to win at frame control

    If you do ,you really aren't winning others over

    Instead you are outing them

    Your frame can come out on top while still making others feel included.

    Aim for that
    At the top , you get to test lots of different stuff

    While starting out,you tend to ,and should, stick to the rules

    Past a certain level,you get a big picture of the game

    And it gets easier to break the rules without hurting yourself or messing your process

    Thinking of this ,more and more lately

    Curious to hear what others think too
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    But you won't be going out there and forcing yourself on chicks just because attraction will expire if you don't close this first time .

    Instead, you can keep your cool , maintain your process or ,come up with a different strategy without chasing her of course

    And see how that plays out

    Maybe you got used to replacing all chicks you couldn't get at first
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    But what if you could change things up and see if you still can win?

    Sometimes you may

    Sometimes you may not

    But it's good to have those experiences in your mind so you know when to persist and stay in there in the future and when not to

    Best of all, you get to see more marginal improvements rather than when you used to be rigid and didn't want to see the flip side of things
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    And that brings you closer and closer to the big picture ,if you ask me
    There's always a lot to learn and it can feel overwhelming .I know .

    I don't have enough time just sounds like I don't want it bad enough though .

    If you want to be better ...if you want to be great, then you've got to make time.

    An hour a day or a week is all you need .

    Want to learn fast , put in more hours .

    1% improvement weekly is 50% in a year .
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    Doesn't matter how much you get advanced too...

    There's always something that will move the needle forward .

    Always new mountains to climb.

    Basically , there is no end to this beautiful journey.

    Call it ego ... but it's amazingly awesome when you can run rings around others .

    That's the prize of mastery .
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    Beautifully put .

    Improvement no matter how small is still an improvement .
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    Glad you liked it
    " The ability to deal with people is as purchasable a commodity like sugar or coffee.And I'll pay more for that ability than for any other under the sun"

    ~John D. Rockefeller
    It's been said,time and time again,you should cut your losses and walk away from girls it's going nowhere with

    Most guys though,try as they will,can't exercise this option (or worse revert back to their normal ways once they do)

    Some try meeting more girls but keep running into the same problem:

    It isn't going anywhere but they are finding it hard just to give it all up

    Why?
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    And I get it ,it's easy to not walk away when there's still hope

    When the embers are yet to die

    What better rule to come up with when you just can't get yourself to let go?

    First: accept that you lost ...we only can learn when we accept our mistakes

    Second:You only can walk away from girls you couldn't get by always investing less than they do

    Less may vary from girl to girl
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    Perhaps less may me more to some chicks


    While "more " may be less for others


    So less here means relative to hers


    Anyways ,it's more easier to walk away ,and not kick yourself in the butt for it ,when you invest less than her right from the beginning
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    Best of all,you don't feel ashamed when you do

    This doesn't mean hold it back and don't invest at all

    Just be conscious of your own investment relative to hers

    As hers goes up ,yours should too

    As hers dwindles away,ditto
    Getting fish to bite comes down to thinking like fish

    All too often,many guys think like fishermen
    and less than the fish

    And are disappointed when the fish don't bite

    What gets some fishermen to outfish others?

    It's by studying all there is to know about the fish they aim to catch, if they are to think like them

    What gets them biting with abandon?What makes them lay low? When are they hungry ?

    ...
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    What bait attracts them? The works

    Great seducers are no different from the best fishermen that outfish the others

    They understand that to get women they'll have to put themselves in women shoes and think like them or along their thinking

    Like a great fisherman will ask what there is to know about fish...

    A great seducer will ask(about women):
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    What's their life like?Who're they most attracted to? When can they be easily gotten? What works on them (generally)?What doesn't work on them?...other paraphernalia

    Over and over until he ingrains it in his mind to think this way

    It's easy to say that I don't have to do all that

    I'll keep thinking like a fisherman...her loss if she can't see the value in a guy like me
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    But understand this ,the biggest obstacle to your success is always thinking like a fisherman and having little thought for the fish you want to catch

    Believe me...perhaps don't

    Take this for a spin and see a new world open up to you
    Good question to ask yourself everytime you try to move fast with girls ...

    And get stopped in your tracks

    Or have some doubt in your mind

    Whether moving fast does really work is

    "Have I worked on my sexiness?"

    If girls " out " themselves from the interaction every single time you try to skip steps

    I guarantee being a sexy guy will open a new world for you

    Else I can go eat crow lol
    Once you've been moving fast with girls multiple times

    You'll have a disdain for anything moving too slow for your taste

    If you've got your game down pat,it won't really matter that much if she's hot too

    There is no limit to how fast you can go

    It may sound unbelievable at first,to many

    But yeah ,this world exists
    Attraction is a game board

    Time is your opponent

    A little procrastination ...a lil slacking

    And time will knock you out bad

    You must make that move if you are out for victory

    You may not be victorious all the time

    And that's fine

    But being in that mindset constantly will put you far ahead

    I promise
    It's too easy to get stuck looking out for signals that you end up not making any move(s)

    Especially with neutral girls

    Too easy to tell yourself that you'll wait until she's " ready"

    Too easy to resort to" building a connection more and more,and making the move next time"

    Only that next time never comes

    To some it may ,but that's all luck

    You're a killer seducer,so relying on luck is mostly out
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    One thing to note here is that you are testing to see how she reacts

    Her reaction matters little tbh

    You just have to execute and let her be the judge

    I guarantee if you are doing your shit right, letting her be the judge isn't in any way approval seeking as some may think

    You are the man,you have evolved into being the one that makes the move
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    Anyways,you don't always have to bail on girls that didn't signal you

    Make that move


    Get your response or whatever you're looking for
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    Still getting neutral responses?

    Try making your moves bolder,within reason of course
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    You become fully detached once it becomes a matter of just testing things out to see whether my process works

    And not whether I get this specific chica

    You are ,in essence, leaving the process to put the neck on the line for you (lol)

    Whereas if you are too attached on getting that one girl, you are basically signing yourself up for an ego bruise
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    Moreover, it's way easier to tighten up your process and game enough that it can land you more girls in general than it is to get this special girl

    And who knows, maybe after letting your process “do the work” for you , you can end up getting that one girl you’re after

    Because she can tell that it doesn’t really matter to you, whether you get her or not
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    I’m not saying you shouldn’t care …of course ,you should make her feel special

    I’m saying it’s okay if it doesn’t lead to wherever you want it to

    That’s true detachment
    Test things out for yourself first

    Constantly asking for advice

    Or looking for some obscure YT video that'll will get girls jumping on your dick right out of the gate ,

    Ain't gonna get you anywhere

    Believe you have it in you to always figure things out

    Go fail...

    Fast and forward
    There are a billion ways to fuck it up with a chick and only few ways to get her

    There are more things you should not be doing than there are things to do

    Get out of your head

    Easily avoid the things you should not be doing

    And follow the patterns
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