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Sooo the saga continues. This was a girl from “Feeld” a niche BDSM/Kink type app. Will keep it short & sweet as it pretty much follows the same stack and formula of my precious lay reports.
For transparency been on a few more dates so currently tracking at 5/7 lays from dates in Jan which is some of the best conversation rates I’ve had.
TLDR
- Girl messages me 1st saying “I’d totally be down to be a rope muse *angel emoji*” which is a response to my bio
- Have chit chat then get her onto WhatsApp 3/4 messages in. Ask her when she’s free and she goes quiet for 2 days before providing her schedule
- Meet for drinks at a nearby bar and go through my usual stack. A gambit that lands really well with girls is saying how they have to choose from 2 different type of guys. Safe and boring missionary guy or fuck boy who won’t text back. Placing myself in the middle but closer to F boy works well
- We deep dive into her love for theatre. How good sex is hard to find and after 1 drink she comes back to mine for cocktails
- We make 1 drink then head to my room after she got comfortable with a house tour and playing with my roommates dog
- Start kissing and grinding before she says “no sex tonight” (this is getting repetitive lol)
-Like the London Drive lay girl she tries to just give me head but I get hee
- Break LMR through usual: kissing, grinding, choking, dirty talk and re-inforcing this changes nothing... I’ll still see you again
-Eventually as we’re both naked except our pants on she says “Should we just have sex now? May as well”
- Sex is pretty good and confident retaining this will be easy if I want it
-Give her a message and continue to talk about dating and girls/guys dynamics (which tied the interaction up, made it feel natural & likely helped with retention)
Closing Thoughts:
-Niching into BDSM can get easier lays than usual but you have to be competent and confident. Not for beginners.
- Learning how to tie girls is a quick win way to get good attention on your profile. Think I read a guide here a while back that was super useful. Failing that YouTube “Simple BDSM knots” to get started.
- This January run has been fun but genuinely starting to get bored of it all. Once I lock in 1 more girl I’m going to lay low for a while
-Have a holiday booked this weekend for Greece so any travel suggestions (especially hip hop/ R&B ones are appreciated)
Onwards & Upwards x
For transparency been on a few more dates so currently tracking at 5/7 lays from dates in Jan which is some of the best conversation rates I’ve had.
TLDR
- Girl messages me 1st saying “I’d totally be down to be a rope muse *angel emoji*” which is a response to my bio
- Have chit chat then get her onto WhatsApp 3/4 messages in. Ask her when she’s free and she goes quiet for 2 days before providing her schedule
- Meet for drinks at a nearby bar and go through my usual stack. A gambit that lands really well with girls is saying how they have to choose from 2 different type of guys. Safe and boring missionary guy or fuck boy who won’t text back. Placing myself in the middle but closer to F boy works well
- We deep dive into her love for theatre. How good sex is hard to find and after 1 drink she comes back to mine for cocktails
- We make 1 drink then head to my room after she got comfortable with a house tour and playing with my roommates dog
- Start kissing and grinding before she says “no sex tonight” (this is getting repetitive lol)
-Like the London Drive lay girl she tries to just give me head but I get hee
- Break LMR through usual: kissing, grinding, choking, dirty talk and re-inforcing this changes nothing... I’ll still see you again
-Eventually as we’re both naked except our pants on she says “Should we just have sex now? May as well”
- Sex is pretty good and confident retaining this will be easy if I want it
-Give her a message and continue to talk about dating and girls/guys dynamics (which tied the interaction up, made it feel natural & likely helped with retention)
Closing Thoughts:
-Niching into BDSM can get easier lays than usual but you have to be competent and confident. Not for beginners.
- Learning how to tie girls is a quick win way to get good attention on your profile. Think I read a guide here a while back that was super useful. Failing that YouTube “Simple BDSM knots” to get started.
- This January run has been fun but genuinely starting to get bored of it all. Once I lock in 1 more girl I’m going to lay low for a while
-Have a holiday booked this weekend for Greece so any travel suggestions (especially hip hop/ R&B ones are appreciated)
Onwards & Upwards x
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