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10+ Awesome Girl-Getting Tips For Beginners

foggy

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1. Rarely Smile

Girls will take you way more seriously and find you more attractive.

1A. Don't Smile When Bantering

It will make you seem even funnier. They'll eat it up.

2. Start Working Out Now

The benefits are amazing. Increased testosterone will give you a lot more confidence.

3. Flip The Script

Girls are the ones who call guys creepy stalkers. Girls are the ones who call guys players. Girls are the ones who reply "maybe" when they ask you to hang out. Turn it around and use their own tricks back on them.

4. Don't Get Excited When Girls Show Interest

Self explanatory. You should treat this behaviour from girls like it's another day at the office. If you get too excited it will show girls you're not used to getting attention from them.

5. Use Lip Glances

Lip glancing is one of the easiest ways to flirt under the radar in my opinion. You can look at her lips really quickly, but unless you're making it super obvious, it won't register in her mind consciously. However she'll still react to it. You can get a read on how she feels towards you by analyzing her facial expressions after you glance at her lips:

A. Starts licking her lips, giving you sexy looks, looking at your lips = You're in the clear to make a move.

B. No reaction = She's open to the idea of you and her hooking up.

C. Looks to the side, annoyed look on her face = She's not interested or at least needs some more rapport to be built.

6. Congruence in Between Communication Methods

Always be the same guy through texting that you were in person, initially. If you have a serious conversation with her, then get her number and then all of a sudden start bantering and being all witty, it will be weird to her.

7. Always Take Forever to Text Back

This serves a few purposes. You want to convey the image that you are a busy guy. But also, what if you're texting a girl really quickly and she says something that catches you off guard and you're not really sure what to say back? You might have to go on GC and read through a bunch of articles to find the right way to respond to this situation. Well now you''re texting her back 15-20 minutes later and she'll KNOW you were caught off guard and weren't sure what to say. If you always take forever to text back you won't have this problem.

8. Always Meet a New Girl

Anytime you start ruminating/are upset over the mistakes you made with a girl, go meet a new girl.

9. Don't Give Up So Easy

Girls get busy. Sometimes they forget to respond or they don't know what to say. It's not because they hate you. Don't be afraid to text them if they forgot to reply. Just don't be needy about it.

10. A Neat Trick

When you're really close to her face, try to bring her face in focus. This will cause your pupils to dilate. Some girls find this neat.

11. Facial Expressions and The Length of Time You Hold Them

When practising your facial expressions, take into consideration the length of time you hold your facial expressions.
 

foggy

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12. Never Change the Frame

Getting rejected is inevitable. Always act the same way towards the girl after the rejection that you were acting towards her before the rejection. This makes it way easier to reconnect with her/for her to reconnect with you in the future. She'll feel comfortable with contact being re-initiated because she knows your attitude towards her hasn't changed and there is no risk involved.

13. Use Your Peripherals

Don't look around by moving your head. Keep your head in one position and look by moving your eyes around. There's less social risk involved.

14. Conversation Quality

Don’t judge the quality of your conversations by the amount of time they last. An amazing 1 minute conversation is loads better than one mediocre 5 minute conversation. Aim to improve your conversational skills so you can have high quality conversations in short amounts of time.
 

readjusting

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backstory said:
1A. Don't Smile When Bantering

It will make you seem even funnier. They'll eat it up.
Just use that tactic today and it's killing man.
 

Straza

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IceCream said:
backstory said:
1A. Don't Smile When Bantering

It will make you seem even funnier. They'll eat it up.
Just use that tactic today and it's killing man.
yeah these are some useful tips, thanks backstory
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

Michal

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15. Touch / Being physical

I read an article recently about hormones that are released during sex and for men it is mostly dopamine while for women it is mostly oxytocin. And oxytocin is also released when people touch each other, preferably skin to skin contact. So by touching her appropriately you can help her ease up and get comfortable and think about doing something more with you because technically, sex is a form of touch... just more intimate.
 
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