Hey there y'all,
I've been posting here like two months ago about my breakup. Since then much has changed and I feel better. There are few experiences from that but I will leave it for another thread.
So I started dating again and cold approaching, got me to the point where I was in local store and chatted up girl that works there (used to say hi when I was in relationship but never flirted too much). At first glance I saw that she might find me attractive since she said I got a nice fresh haircut. We chatted a little bit and then exchanged numbers. Later on I tested her compliance by really interesting situation:
I've gone for some groceries, and there was one of our mutual friend chatting her up, I've got everything I've needed except for the bread. So I've texted her if she can send it to me via the friend that we both know who was there. It sounded so stupid in my head but it worked. He brought me a bread I've forgot about, and she literally paid for it by herself. Later I found out that our mutual friend is actually friendzoned, since she said he only comes there to talk about stuff she doesn't even care about.
We went on a date for a pizza and I found out she still has some traumas and is quite workoholic (having two jobs so she can forgot about bad stuff), had a bad last relationships and problems with alcohol (but she is sober now for like few years) and is smoking, which kinda kills off the vibe and thoughts about kissing. Her body is fine, but I can't find any connection to her mind and it's kinda making me question if I should just bang her, because I'm not too fond of being in any serious relationship with her, but she seems kinda eager to try.
What should be the best approach to have a lay without her actually getting pissed off afterwards? Should I tell her that I want only fwb, but not relationship? Thanks for the help guys.
I've been posting here like two months ago about my breakup. Since then much has changed and I feel better. There are few experiences from that but I will leave it for another thread.
So I started dating again and cold approaching, got me to the point where I was in local store and chatted up girl that works there (used to say hi when I was in relationship but never flirted too much). At first glance I saw that she might find me attractive since she said I got a nice fresh haircut. We chatted a little bit and then exchanged numbers. Later on I tested her compliance by really interesting situation:
I've gone for some groceries, and there was one of our mutual friend chatting her up, I've got everything I've needed except for the bread. So I've texted her if she can send it to me via the friend that we both know who was there. It sounded so stupid in my head but it worked. He brought me a bread I've forgot about, and she literally paid for it by herself. Later I found out that our mutual friend is actually friendzoned, since she said he only comes there to talk about stuff she doesn't even care about.
We went on a date for a pizza and I found out she still has some traumas and is quite workoholic (having two jobs so she can forgot about bad stuff), had a bad last relationships and problems with alcohol (but she is sober now for like few years) and is smoking, which kinda kills off the vibe and thoughts about kissing. Her body is fine, but I can't find any connection to her mind and it's kinda making me question if I should just bang her, because I'm not too fond of being in any serious relationship with her, but she seems kinda eager to try.
What should be the best approach to have a lay without her actually getting pissed off afterwards? Should I tell her that I want only fwb, but not relationship? Thanks for the help guys.
