SO I wrote this time and again...I left a date to go to weightlifting training.
Basically, I used to be this skinny weak fuk for my whole life and I start to be student of strength training. I have found an olympic weightlifting school in the small city I live in after long search, I was very commited to the sport and it takes place only twice per week. I happy about some evel of strength that I gained I got comments on how my shoulders got broader, how my clothes fits better and how my posture improved. I paid so much so I try my best not to skip the training and I have noticed that when I skip it in such a cold and deppressing country it is necessary sometimes.
I was dating an African woman that I was absolutely infuatuated with, we had few dates ere we kissed, madeout even caress senstive body parts...We separated for a while and havent seen her for over a year, except sending flirtatious messagees everyonce in a while. Now that woman has first send me a message asking if I would dance with her because even though she isnt rich she makes up for it in personality and dance moves (I semi agree on personality but 100 percent agree on her dance moves), I tell her you are one of the sexiest dancers ever even your pencil is attractive (I thing I have better responses now), she doesnt responb but texts me later "good morining" and I say "good evening" she says "lol what planet are you living on" I tell her I am going to the Library today at 13:00 and you are welcome to joing and she says I will come.
We meet, we compliment each other how we look, I make comments on her figure and breasts, she asks about my dick size(Which I wish I would tell her come figure it out yourself) anyways, it was training day so in my mind beacuse I havent seen her in a year I dont know where was she at and I dint treat it exactly like a date but I first told her I was busy at 18:00 (she thought I will be meeting a girl) and I told no just training...I told her if she is free Friday night (She says no, bad sign), Saturday nigh(She says only in morning (Bad sign) BUT I say Wednesday NIGHT and she says why too far and she says when she gives a word to show up she likes to show up(Seemed like a good sign)...
So to me in my head Wednesday is the date where I will be free and we agreed on it, She is not the kind of person that ghosts but she did....This is also the first date that we dont makeout or kiss or have any kind of intimacy and strangely it is the first time for me that I dont look at her "Lustfully", I was always crazy horny for her but this time was less....I kept kissing her cheek, she kisses my cheek, she touches me a lot with both her hand, grapping my shoulders etc...I can see there was still some sexual tension but weaker than it used to be.
Here is somethings I want to ask.
1) If excuse my French pussy is the most important thing, why do pickup artist or dating couches teach you that you should not leave your life for anybody even a woman you like...If I didnt go to training there is a chance I might have fuk up or etc..., also I might have come across too needy, I dont like to play games but I dont get why people keep telling me to skip training and just go after a woman, if that is the case than that is what should be taught.... If as my friend say that traiining is just a hobby, the woman probably felt offended because even if she is very hot she might felt insecure or undesired by my action and say fuk him and go meet some other dude but if that is case what is the right thing to do....I like her more than my traiing but still it is dumb to leave something important for you for a woman even if you are not competing (Because that is how I have a good posture, good strength, clothes fit; feel confident, paid lots of money etc...)
If dating and trying to bed a woman is the most important than that should be taught leave everything to go on a date or choose a date when you are free but none of this is taught to us begineers...so please clarify what is the right thing to do.
2) I want to know what was wrong because it seems there is many mistakes that I did or didnt do during the date, I am suprised why was I ghosted even if I am not mistaken she said she will show up (She never flaked on me before)
Basically, I used to be this skinny weak fuk for my whole life and I start to be student of strength training. I have found an olympic weightlifting school in the small city I live in after long search, I was very commited to the sport and it takes place only twice per week. I happy about some evel of strength that I gained I got comments on how my shoulders got broader, how my clothes fits better and how my posture improved. I paid so much so I try my best not to skip the training and I have noticed that when I skip it in such a cold and deppressing country it is necessary sometimes.
I was dating an African woman that I was absolutely infuatuated with, we had few dates ere we kissed, madeout even caress senstive body parts...We separated for a while and havent seen her for over a year, except sending flirtatious messagees everyonce in a while. Now that woman has first send me a message asking if I would dance with her because even though she isnt rich she makes up for it in personality and dance moves (I semi agree on personality but 100 percent agree on her dance moves), I tell her you are one of the sexiest dancers ever even your pencil is attractive (I thing I have better responses now), she doesnt responb but texts me later "good morining" and I say "good evening" she says "lol what planet are you living on" I tell her I am going to the Library today at 13:00 and you are welcome to joing and she says I will come.
We meet, we compliment each other how we look, I make comments on her figure and breasts, she asks about my dick size(Which I wish I would tell her come figure it out yourself) anyways, it was training day so in my mind beacuse I havent seen her in a year I dont know where was she at and I dint treat it exactly like a date but I first told her I was busy at 18:00 (she thought I will be meeting a girl) and I told no just training...I told her if she is free Friday night (She says no, bad sign), Saturday nigh(She says only in morning (Bad sign) BUT I say Wednesday NIGHT and she says why too far and she says when she gives a word to show up she likes to show up(Seemed like a good sign)...
So to me in my head Wednesday is the date where I will be free and we agreed on it, She is not the kind of person that ghosts but she did....This is also the first date that we dont makeout or kiss or have any kind of intimacy and strangely it is the first time for me that I dont look at her "Lustfully", I was always crazy horny for her but this time was less....I kept kissing her cheek, she kisses my cheek, she touches me a lot with both her hand, grapping my shoulders etc...I can see there was still some sexual tension but weaker than it used to be.
Here is somethings I want to ask.
1) If excuse my French pussy is the most important thing, why do pickup artist or dating couches teach you that you should not leave your life for anybody even a woman you like...If I didnt go to training there is a chance I might have fuk up or etc..., also I might have come across too needy, I dont like to play games but I dont get why people keep telling me to skip training and just go after a woman, if that is the case than that is what should be taught.... If as my friend say that traiining is just a hobby, the woman probably felt offended because even if she is very hot she might felt insecure or undesired by my action and say fuk him and go meet some other dude but if that is case what is the right thing to do....I like her more than my traiing but still it is dumb to leave something important for you for a woman even if you are not competing (Because that is how I have a good posture, good strength, clothes fit; feel confident, paid lots of money etc...)
If dating and trying to bed a woman is the most important than that should be taught leave everything to go on a date or choose a date when you are free but none of this is taught to us begineers...so please clarify what is the right thing to do.
2) I want to know what was wrong because it seems there is many mistakes that I did or didnt do during the date, I am suprised why was I ghosted even if I am not mistaken she said she will show up (She never flaked on me before)
