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- Dec 12, 2019
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If I'm rusty and have AA, first I have to identify I have AA
Some people lie to themselves and say "oh she wasn't hot enough" or "now isn't the right moment"
This is huge, I have it, a lot of people have it. Doesn’t feel like anxiety more like hesitation.
You recognize it sooner or later, for me there’s always a moment of “ok enough of this, fuck it, let’s just do it”. Could be at the start of the night or 1h in of me being too picky.
It’s smart to expect it and mentaly prepare for it if it’s something that happens reguraly.