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Gee Golly, there’s this One Stripper
Been around the block and had a few strippers in my younger days. I’m getting a bit older now and trying to embrace younger women/older men game. Find the girls with daddy issues.
Now and then I stop by a hole-in-the wall strip club for a drink or two. Maybe twice a month. Just use the place for social exercise. I go in, have 2 or 3 drinks, I don’t get lap dances, I don’t hand the girls a bunch of money. I do chat everyone up who’s friendly, I do tip the girls when they’re on stage, but just a few bucks. I don’t stare at their bodies or try hard to flirt with them. Maybe some light flirting. We talk about working in a “service” industry mostly. (I use to bartend). The bartenders, door guys and strippers seem to genuinely like seeing me around. They tell me horror stories about other customers and tend to hook me up on the drinks.
There’s “this one girl” who is about 19, smart for her age, very upbeat, very sexy. We tend to talk about counter cultural stuff, traveling, this-and-that. She usually perks up when she sees me (more than with other customers). We just “click”. But I never thought much of it. Of course these girls are gonna enjoy running their stripper game on guys they have some report with rather than some creeper.
But last time I was in “this one girl” was leaning up against me as I was talking about leaving. I was lightly teasing her about I can’t remember what. She says “You know you can take me out on a ‘date’, I’ve got daddy issues. Heehee, giggle, giggle.” She bats her eyes at me.
“What would we do on this ‘date’?” I ask.
“We could go ice skating”. There’s a rink downtown.
“Ha. I’d bust my ass so fast.”
“No, you’d do fine.” She replies.
I was a day away from leaving town for work (am still out, will be back in a few days, will be close to 2 weeks total time). Don’t remember if I mentioned this to her.
She tells me the venue has rules against giving out phone numbers so she hits me with her instagram account (when I ask about getting a hold of her). I don’t really use instagram (I’m older) but what the hell. I install it and message her (introducing self ‘hi, it’s, was nice chatting’) with in a day. She accepts my ‘following’ her on the site but I don’t actually hear from her.
At this point I figure a couple of things are possible but they all tend to contradict each other (young woman, go figure).
A) She was just getting me on her instagram as a safe way to keep me a customer at arms length, as the handful of pics she had up were all stripper shit and mentioned when she was working. Self promotion. BUT she didn’t push the instagram account on me, she gave it to me when I mentioned contacting her AFTER she suggested a ‘date’. Also I've never given her much in the way of money.
B) The ‘date’ was just stripper slang for her taking me on as a John/sex client and I was dense and didn’t catch it. Maybe? But she seemed genuinely enthusiastic about the ice skating.
C)She really does want to fuck me/go on a date to feel things out. Ok great. But her lack of text response on instagram contradicts this. I didn’t push for a meet, just said ‘hey it’s me, cool talking to you.’
I was just thinking, screw it, I’ll send her a message a day or two before I get back into town and if she doesn’t respond I’ll next the whole thing in my brain catalog. BUT a few days ago she sends me a pic, not of a stripper pose or at the club, but of her smiling face. We had commented before on liking each other’s smiles in previous conversations. I commented something like it being ‘a cute smile’ and I had just been wondering what she was up to. Again no actual text response. That was a couple of days ago. I didn’t push for a meet or her number because, again, I’m out of town and working looong days. Not a great time to ‘build comfort’.
So it’s kind of weird. She not responding much (I’m also only reaching out so much) BUT she does seem to reach out just enough to stoke my interest, while contradicting the 3 possible things I think she maybe wanting (from what I can tell). She’s waiting for me to take more action and be more assertive? I usually would be, just be but am just not available.
My instincts tell me if I hit her up on instagram to try and build comfort or line up a ‘date’ that I would continue to not get much of a response. I have considered going back to the club once I’m back in town (will be about 2 weeks from last seeing her). Have 2 drinks at the max. Tip and tell her to ‘come say hi’ when she’s on stage. Tease her and tell her I’ve been busy, chat her up, get a laugh then push for a meet time in the next few days. Maaaybe playfully call B.S. on her lack of response on instagram, something like ‘I told myself, ‘I’m sure this girl isn’t all talk” while smirking at her. Though going back into the club seems a step backward when she’s given me contact info. But a quick in and out could work (or backfire if she can't make it over to me because she's working over a customer and then I'm just in there hovering).
I’ve been working to line up some meets/dates in and out of town for next week. Keeps me fairly outcome independent, and it seems to be working. BUT this girl and I do have chemistry and is the hottest (and youngest) I’ve had in my cross hairs in a damn good while. Would LOVE to fuck her. Figure I’ll put my best foot forward then blow the whole thing off and then blow my load all over some other girl’s sheets.
But what’s the best move? Figure the girl has plenty of potential dick hitting her up and that’s cool but do I stroll back into the club to stoke the fire or just try hitting her up on instagram again? Thoughts? Like situations from experienced guys?
Thanks, gonna go send out messages to random girls on that there interweb
Been around the block and had a few strippers in my younger days. I’m getting a bit older now and trying to embrace younger women/older men game. Find the girls with daddy issues.
Now and then I stop by a hole-in-the wall strip club for a drink or two. Maybe twice a month. Just use the place for social exercise. I go in, have 2 or 3 drinks, I don’t get lap dances, I don’t hand the girls a bunch of money. I do chat everyone up who’s friendly, I do tip the girls when they’re on stage, but just a few bucks. I don’t stare at their bodies or try hard to flirt with them. Maybe some light flirting. We talk about working in a “service” industry mostly. (I use to bartend). The bartenders, door guys and strippers seem to genuinely like seeing me around. They tell me horror stories about other customers and tend to hook me up on the drinks.
There’s “this one girl” who is about 19, smart for her age, very upbeat, very sexy. We tend to talk about counter cultural stuff, traveling, this-and-that. She usually perks up when she sees me (more than with other customers). We just “click”. But I never thought much of it. Of course these girls are gonna enjoy running their stripper game on guys they have some report with rather than some creeper.
But last time I was in “this one girl” was leaning up against me as I was talking about leaving. I was lightly teasing her about I can’t remember what. She says “You know you can take me out on a ‘date’, I’ve got daddy issues. Heehee, giggle, giggle.” She bats her eyes at me.
“What would we do on this ‘date’?” I ask.
“We could go ice skating”. There’s a rink downtown.
“Ha. I’d bust my ass so fast.”
“No, you’d do fine.” She replies.
I was a day away from leaving town for work (am still out, will be back in a few days, will be close to 2 weeks total time). Don’t remember if I mentioned this to her.
She tells me the venue has rules against giving out phone numbers so she hits me with her instagram account (when I ask about getting a hold of her). I don’t really use instagram (I’m older) but what the hell. I install it and message her (introducing self ‘hi, it’s, was nice chatting’) with in a day. She accepts my ‘following’ her on the site but I don’t actually hear from her.
At this point I figure a couple of things are possible but they all tend to contradict each other (young woman, go figure).
A) She was just getting me on her instagram as a safe way to keep me a customer at arms length, as the handful of pics she had up were all stripper shit and mentioned when she was working. Self promotion. BUT she didn’t push the instagram account on me, she gave it to me when I mentioned contacting her AFTER she suggested a ‘date’. Also I've never given her much in the way of money.
B) The ‘date’ was just stripper slang for her taking me on as a John/sex client and I was dense and didn’t catch it. Maybe? But she seemed genuinely enthusiastic about the ice skating.
C)She really does want to fuck me/go on a date to feel things out. Ok great. But her lack of text response on instagram contradicts this. I didn’t push for a meet, just said ‘hey it’s me, cool talking to you.’
I was just thinking, screw it, I’ll send her a message a day or two before I get back into town and if she doesn’t respond I’ll next the whole thing in my brain catalog. BUT a few days ago she sends me a pic, not of a stripper pose or at the club, but of her smiling face. We had commented before on liking each other’s smiles in previous conversations. I commented something like it being ‘a cute smile’ and I had just been wondering what she was up to. Again no actual text response. That was a couple of days ago. I didn’t push for a meet or her number because, again, I’m out of town and working looong days. Not a great time to ‘build comfort’.
So it’s kind of weird. She not responding much (I’m also only reaching out so much) BUT she does seem to reach out just enough to stoke my interest, while contradicting the 3 possible things I think she maybe wanting (from what I can tell). She’s waiting for me to take more action and be more assertive? I usually would be, just be but am just not available.
My instincts tell me if I hit her up on instagram to try and build comfort or line up a ‘date’ that I would continue to not get much of a response. I have considered going back to the club once I’m back in town (will be about 2 weeks from last seeing her). Have 2 drinks at the max. Tip and tell her to ‘come say hi’ when she’s on stage. Tease her and tell her I’ve been busy, chat her up, get a laugh then push for a meet time in the next few days. Maaaybe playfully call B.S. on her lack of response on instagram, something like ‘I told myself, ‘I’m sure this girl isn’t all talk” while smirking at her. Though going back into the club seems a step backward when she’s given me contact info. But a quick in and out could work (or backfire if she can't make it over to me because she's working over a customer and then I'm just in there hovering).
I’ve been working to line up some meets/dates in and out of town for next week. Keeps me fairly outcome independent, and it seems to be working. BUT this girl and I do have chemistry and is the hottest (and youngest) I’ve had in my cross hairs in a damn good while. Would LOVE to fuck her. Figure I’ll put my best foot forward then blow the whole thing off and then blow my load all over some other girl’s sheets.
But what’s the best move? Figure the girl has plenty of potential dick hitting her up and that’s cool but do I stroll back into the club to stoke the fire or just try hitting her up on instagram again? Thoughts? Like situations from experienced guys?
Thanks, gonna go send out messages to random girls on that there interweb
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