Guys here misunderstood what I meant. It is not as much about being attractive, it is about access and social acceptance when it comes to the hottest girls. Hot girls regularly go for lesser attractive men all because those men are socially acceptable or have access to them. Most of the hottest girls are not meeting guys out grocery shopping, that is a select few. Most of the better looking younger women are meeting men in social circles and not to mention you are dealing with nagging cockblocking friends that will stop her from going for an older guy.
Women around your age, as I see with women over the age of 25, become more marriage-minded and more closed off to quick instant sex. Younger women meanwhile are using you for your wealth.
Not to discourage a guy though, I think there could very well be ways around beating age.
1. Earn status in a sexy realm. A hot nightclub owner in his 30s is easily slaying.
2. Numbers game anyways, find the odd 20-something chick who is tired of the BS and wants to explore more.
3. Go for girls from cultures where age differences are not a big deal because they sure as hell are in the US.
Being attractive is not enough. The key part is access and social acceptance which old age becomes a barrier for.
What you’re saying doesn’t sound like a normal 20 something year old man.
You’re talking about hot girls in social circles, but you’re not mentioning that it’s not just that these guys are in their 20s, these guys have the status that these women want above all.
It’s not like all men that are in their 20s are getting so many women. They still have to work on themselves.
It sounds like you’re strictly talking about college women and their social circles.
There is no way a girl can know you’re older unless you really look it or you tell her.
Hot girls are not meeting with dudes just because they’re in their 20s, they made themselves wanted by them, which sounds like something an older man can do as well.
You have to state why these hot women want these guys, it’s more than age. Say why the hot girls want these men in their 20s exactly, it’s more than age and social norms.
It sounds like you’re talking about guys who are popular in college and getting girls from there because I can’t see how being in social circle matters that much anywhere else where you have to be in your 20s to pull.
You make 30s sound like 60s.
