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Ive decided to mix two separate outings into one post. Im not sure if thats against the rules. So, sorry Chase 
First the FR.
Went to a house party, it was a total sausage fest. So I invited a bunch of a girls over. People brought more people and you know how the grapevine works. I can usually turn a bad party into a good party even if its not mine because I have assembled a nice social network.
Anyways, it was a bit awkward at first because 2 girls that I have already slept with showed up at the party (without me inviting them) and it just made for an interesting scenario because they both knew about me sleeping with each of them. But I played it cool and didnt let it bother me. Instead I invited a girl who I have made out with a few times but have never closed the deal with. This girl is like a 9 on my chart.
I thought that was gonna be the night. She showed up and was immediately all over me. Holding my hand, taking shots with me, kissing me. I thought for sure it was in the bag. Well a little while later, her boyfriend showed up and that was the end of that. As soon as he came she acted like I didnt exist. This frustrated me a bit, but at the same time it humbled me. Even I, after all the progress I have made in the art of seduction, still have lessons to learn. Because if I was a master, then she would have went home with me and not him. I took it as an experience and not as a failure.
Now for the LR
The next day, I went out on a date with a girl whom I have slept with only once in the past, but not recently. We never had any sort of a relationship, it was just a one night thing. Shes a solid 8.
When I saw her that weekend, we hung out very casually. I think what helped me out most in this situation was the law of least effort. I had already slept with her before so it wasnt new territory. I went into it with the mindset that it didnt really matter if I got with her or not because I already have. We watched a movie and listened to music. We left to go get food and it gave us a chance to deep dive and really catch up. We got onto the topic of relationships and were very honest about our sexual pasts. It felt a little odd to be having this conversation but it actually worked to my benefit. We talked about relationships that we had that didnt work out and she kept saying how I deserve so much better and blah blah blah. Then after she would make that comment, she would touch my hand or offer me some of her food. I was trying to pay attention at the indirect stuff and at the non verbals. After we were finished eating, we just sat in my car for another hour talking and we were just having a great time. In the car, there were MANY more non verbal cues. But it was getting late and I had to be up early the next day so I told her I would drop her off. I put my car into reverse and literally as I was backing up, I saw her just glaring at me out of the corner of my eye. So I stopped the car, mid-reverse, and went in for a kiss. She was more than happy to get it. I pulled back into my spot, and we made out for a while, I said we need to either go somewhere else and continue or I have to drop her off. She didnt want to get dropped off. So I pulled my car behind the restaurant into the alley. And the backseat scores again. (;
So my analysis of these reports:
1) with the FR, I realized still have much to learn. I need to figure out how to handle other guys coming in; I need to figure out how to think on my feet and stay collected at the same time with that situation. In all fairness, I was better off letting her go with her boyfriend or else I'm sure there would have been a confrontation. They are obviously not in a very solid relationship if she was making out with me until his arrival. So maybe next time eh?
2) with the LR, the Law of Least Effort is the bread and butter of seduction. Its a foundation to build upon. I think I needed a lay to keep my confidence an momentum going though.
Thanks for reading,
Monsterslimjim
~Stay Classy~
First the FR.
Went to a house party, it was a total sausage fest. So I invited a bunch of a girls over. People brought more people and you know how the grapevine works. I can usually turn a bad party into a good party even if its not mine because I have assembled a nice social network.
Anyways, it was a bit awkward at first because 2 girls that I have already slept with showed up at the party (without me inviting them) and it just made for an interesting scenario because they both knew about me sleeping with each of them. But I played it cool and didnt let it bother me. Instead I invited a girl who I have made out with a few times but have never closed the deal with. This girl is like a 9 on my chart.
I thought that was gonna be the night. She showed up and was immediately all over me. Holding my hand, taking shots with me, kissing me. I thought for sure it was in the bag. Well a little while later, her boyfriend showed up and that was the end of that. As soon as he came she acted like I didnt exist. This frustrated me a bit, but at the same time it humbled me. Even I, after all the progress I have made in the art of seduction, still have lessons to learn. Because if I was a master, then she would have went home with me and not him. I took it as an experience and not as a failure.
Now for the LR
The next day, I went out on a date with a girl whom I have slept with only once in the past, but not recently. We never had any sort of a relationship, it was just a one night thing. Shes a solid 8.
When I saw her that weekend, we hung out very casually. I think what helped me out most in this situation was the law of least effort. I had already slept with her before so it wasnt new territory. I went into it with the mindset that it didnt really matter if I got with her or not because I already have. We watched a movie and listened to music. We left to go get food and it gave us a chance to deep dive and really catch up. We got onto the topic of relationships and were very honest about our sexual pasts. It felt a little odd to be having this conversation but it actually worked to my benefit. We talked about relationships that we had that didnt work out and she kept saying how I deserve so much better and blah blah blah. Then after she would make that comment, she would touch my hand or offer me some of her food. I was trying to pay attention at the indirect stuff and at the non verbals. After we were finished eating, we just sat in my car for another hour talking and we were just having a great time. In the car, there were MANY more non verbal cues. But it was getting late and I had to be up early the next day so I told her I would drop her off. I put my car into reverse and literally as I was backing up, I saw her just glaring at me out of the corner of my eye. So I stopped the car, mid-reverse, and went in for a kiss. She was more than happy to get it. I pulled back into my spot, and we made out for a while, I said we need to either go somewhere else and continue or I have to drop her off. She didnt want to get dropped off. So I pulled my car behind the restaurant into the alley. And the backseat scores again. (;
So my analysis of these reports:
1) with the FR, I realized still have much to learn. I need to figure out how to handle other guys coming in; I need to figure out how to think on my feet and stay collected at the same time with that situation. In all fairness, I was better off letting her go with her boyfriend or else I'm sure there would have been a confrontation. They are obviously not in a very solid relationship if she was making out with me until his arrival. So maybe next time eh?
2) with the LR, the Law of Least Effort is the bread and butter of seduction. Its a foundation to build upon. I think I needed a lay to keep my confidence an momentum going though.
Thanks for reading,
Monsterslimjim
~Stay Classy~
