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With a girl who's future-oriented, it's all adventure, thrills, what drives you, what do you most enjoy, come on, are you going to live forever? and that sort of thing. These girls feed off of this, and it gets them going.
There seems to be some relation between past-oriented and present-oriented... e.g., if she's past-oriented it seems a lot easier to get her present-oriented than it does to move a future-oriented girl into present-orientation. I'm not sure why that is, but it might be that a future-oriented girl is too focused on, "Does sleeping with him further my goals?" and she's repeatedly coming up with, "No, not really," or, "Actually, then I've added another partner to the pile and I'm less desirable as long-term material!"
These girls are the coldest ones emotionally anyway. Past girls are warm and fuzzy; present girls are fun and joyous; future girls are thoughtful and rational. I like future girls in relationships, but for a quick fling they're some of the worst
Chase
Re: Any tips to get a raging boner to have sex multiple time
Guys...why in the World would you have sex with a girl...make her come...hopefully multiple times....but then NOT come yourself?
What the fuck am I missing?
That sounds enormously frustrating and unfulfilling to me.
But @Chase , wont women feel bad about themselves if i didn't ejaculate (given , i am banging different women , every week).Re: Any tips to get a raging boner to have sex multiple time
Tyme-
A lot of my buddies are sold on Viagra. If you're staying away from medication though, I'd suggest you try working on the mental aspect of things.
When you're focused on being totally present - you're basically just pure sensation, and nothing but - it's usually pretty straightforward getting hard, even if you've had a ton of sex. You can add onto this one thinking things like, "This girl wants my cock so bad," or, "This girl just wants me to shoot my load into her and make her pregnant," or, "This girl is completely helpless for me at this point, and totally submitted," or whatever else it is about sex that makes you most excited (for most guys, it's being desired, being dominant, or impregnation, or some combination of the three). There's also imagining one girl is some different girl - some ideal girl, or some girl you saw naked pictures of, or some girl you want to sleep with but haven't yet, etc.
Mostly, it's focus on doing nothing but feel the sensation of the underside of your cock rubbing against her body, and that does it most of the time. Imagining the sensation of climaxing and releasing your seed into her vagina will often serve as an additional exciting way of doing this, as well.
There's also basic stuff, like get plenty of sleep and have a healthy diet. Those two things have a pretty surprising impact on health - namely, testosterone levels. Work out more, etc. Basically, the higher your testosterone levels get, the higher your sex drive is and the less difficulty you'll have getting and staying hard.
One other suggestion - don't cum during sex. Sex is testosterone+, ejaculating is testosterone-. If you ever try having lots of sex but not ejaculating, you'll pretty quickly find you end up with a raging bull sex drive - it can even make pickup loads easier. Women sense the sex pouring out of you from lots of sex but no ejaculating, and they start flocking to you a lot more than they usually do.
Chase
Not like you think, as you outlined don't wear it for long (depends if you condition yourself, but that's another ballpark and a long story which makes me look like some pervert lol). But it does work well, especially if you are a regular (and responsible) pumper.Re: Any tips to get a raging boner to have sex multiple time
Buy a "cock ring" (online not the buzzing kind you get from a drugstore) its essentially a tight rubber band you put around your cock, either the base behind your balls or just above your balls on your shaft. It prevents the blood from escaping but doesnt prevent it from entering.
Re: Any tips to get a raging boner to have sex multiple time
Smoking marijuana beforehand works really well for me. I can last 1-2 hours with no problem and keeping an erection is easy.
Re: Any tips to get a raging boner to have sex multiple time
Tyme-
A lot of my buddies are sold on Viagra. If you're staying away from medication though, I'd suggest you try working on the mental aspect of things.
Having an honest think, if this is extremely important to you, then consider improving your stamina. Ideally in those positions (so push ups etc, also look at the assortment of articles, but no harm in getting some exercise in), but also your overall stamina. That means cardio; your heart will thank you which means more sessions and a raging boner. More better cardio means better circulatory system i.e. blood pumping system meaning HARDER erections.
One of the most enjoyable rounds of sex was when I was playing pin pong for 2-3h per day(intense, was sweating a lot), 4-5 days a week. It really makes a difference.