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Hey guys!
I wanted to ask some questions about approach invitations. Yesterday I was in a bus and before getting off I looked at a girl that was sitting not far away. She looked at me too and we made eye contact. Of course, I waited till she looked sideways. I looked again after a couple of seconds and she glanced at me again. We made eye contact again and she started smiling. I understood this as very clear approach invitation, but I really had to get off the bus. Maybe I would've been able to ask for her number but no more. Is it worth doing this without even talking a couple of minutes.
Another thing, I very rarely get such approach invitations, when I have eye contact with a girl and she smiles. Often we just have eye contact and girls never smile. I'm not sure if these are approach invitations (I mean longer eye contact, 3-4 secs or second eye contact), maybe that's because I live in Lithuania, esatern Europe and people here are a bit shy and smile rarely. Because If i approach a girl in public, I do it just with random girls, that I simply find them cute, but I'd be glad to raise my chances and do less numbers game.
I'd be very glad if you gave me a couple of insights.
I wanted to ask some questions about approach invitations. Yesterday I was in a bus and before getting off I looked at a girl that was sitting not far away. She looked at me too and we made eye contact. Of course, I waited till she looked sideways. I looked again after a couple of seconds and she glanced at me again. We made eye contact again and she started smiling. I understood this as very clear approach invitation, but I really had to get off the bus. Maybe I would've been able to ask for her number but no more. Is it worth doing this without even talking a couple of minutes.
Another thing, I very rarely get such approach invitations, when I have eye contact with a girl and she smiles. Often we just have eye contact and girls never smile. I'm not sure if these are approach invitations (I mean longer eye contact, 3-4 secs or second eye contact), maybe that's because I live in Lithuania, esatern Europe and people here are a bit shy and smile rarely. Because If i approach a girl in public, I do it just with random girls, that I simply find them cute, but I'd be glad to raise my chances and do less numbers game.
I'd be very glad if you gave me a couple of insights.
You just got to experiment, and gather results.