Astrology

[themino]

I always hated astrology, because I thought it was voodoo bullshit and never could relate to people who were into it, But now I understand how blind I was.
Astrology is a useful topic to get people talking about themselves, and how they view themselves. This gets her talking about herself gives you Deep topics to dive into. So don't be like me and ignore the topic in field- learn Astrology so you can relate to others that are open to it and you might find it fun too.

 

[West_Indian_Archie]

Along those lines

1) Love Languages
2) Myers-Briggs
3) Any type of personality test that you'll find in Cosmo or other women's magazines
4) The Cube
5) Strawberry Fields
6) Fortune Telling
7) Palm Reading
8) Opinion Openers

Women love those sorts of things when they're presented straight up. OG Mystery said it best, chicks love all the occult/supernatural stuff.
As men who enjoy women, there are plenty of resources out there in real psychology and pop psychology

Less "gimmicky" i.e. easier to work into a conversation

Cold Reads - that's when you basically say, "you look like the type of girl.."; "You know what they say about girls from/girls that do..."

Wrong or right about your cold read, you're gonna do few things,
1) Talk about her favorite subject - herself,
2) Put her on the defensive, as many girls are image conscious (self conscious) and your idea of who she is, has to match how she thinks about herself.
3) Grab the frame - by becoming the person she HAS to convince.

Odd reactions to things she says or does while having an innocent chat.

She offhandedly mentions her dog (or liking pizza, or watching Glee) - "You like dogs?..." "You eat pizza?"

With an honest/earnest tone, she will wax poetic about whatever thing you "discovered" about her.

Provocations (Nonverbal)

• Girl - "So I was making some pasta"
• Archie - *make eye contact* and then *give her a look that says "I don't believe you"*
• Girl - "What?"
• Archie - *exaggerate the look*

Again this builds tension because a lot of girls really care about saying the right things, presenting the right image.
I don't want to call it mining her insecurity, so we'll just call it, getting to the real girl, not the facade she puts up.

Women are endlessly fascinated...by themselves.

Many a conversation has been had where she only talks about herself, and thinks that I'm the funniest, most interesting person she's ever met - and doesn't know a thing about me.

WIA

 

[PalmaSailor]

Along those lines

1) Love Languages
2) Myers-Briggs
3) Any type of personality test that you'll find in Cosmo or other women's magazines
4) The Cube
5) Strawberry Fields
6) Fortune Telling
7) Palm Reading
8) Opinion Openers

Women love those sorts of things when they're presented straight up. OG Mystery said it best, chicks love all the occult/supernatural stuff.
As men who enjoy women, there are plenty of resources out there in real psychology and pop psychology

Less "gimmicky" i.e. easier to work into a conversation

Cold Reads - that's when you basically say, "you look like the type of girl.."; "You know what they say about girls from/girls that do..."

Wrong or right about your cold read, you're gonna do few things,
1) Talk about her favorite subject - herself,
2) Put her on the defensive, as many girls are image conscious (self conscious) and your idea of who she is, has to match how she thinks about herself.
3) Grab the frame - by becoming the person she HAS to convince.

Odd reactions to things she says or does while having an innocent chat.

She offhandedly mentions her dog (or liking pizza, or watching Glee) - "You like dogs?..." "You eat pizza?"

With an honest/earnest tone, she will wax poetic about whatever thing you "discovered" about her.

Provocations (Nonverbal)

• Girl - "So I was making some pasta"
• Archie - *make eye contact* and then *give her a look that says "I don't believe you"*
• Girl - "What?"
• Archie - *exaggerate the look*

Again this builds tension because a lot of girls really care about saying the right things, presenting the right image.
I don't want to call it mining her insecurity, so we'll just call it, getting to the real girl, not the facade she puts up.

Women are endlessly fascinated...by themselves.

Many a conversation has been had where she only talks about herself, and thinks that I'm the funniest, most interesting person she's ever met - and doesn't know a thing about me.

Interesting Archie

About 35 years ago my dad bought me a book, Body Language by Allan Pease. He thought it would help with my sales career, and it did. But it also had a section on attraction and women ‘preening’ and ‘looking down’ etc.

From that point on, if a woman flicked her hair behind her ear then I went for the make out. Looking back it was an IOI, but wasn’t described as such.


So getting back on your above topic which is getting them talking about themselves, other elements of the book came into play - open and closed questions.

An open question requires more than a yes or no answer, and is preceded by :

How

Why

When

Where

What


Closed questions elicit an yes or no answer and should be avoided at all costs in a seduction. because they only get you a yes or no answer it puts the seducer back in the chair to find MOAR conversation because he hasn’t opened up that target.


For instance


PalmaSailor to girl : do you like coffee?


Girl : no.


PalmaSailor- oh. Do you like tea then?


Girl : No.


You can see this is fucked^^


Alternatively


PalmaSailor: What type of drinks do you like?


Girl: oh I love all types of drinks, especially boxwine, I like drinking it alone at night when I’m with my cats phoebe and tiddles


PalmaSailor: really that is interesting, what are the best ones to buy, and what type of cats are phoebe and tiddles?


Girl: [well I won’t say it ... but you can imagine it needs no more input from me, she’s off talking all sorts of shit]


Time after time I hear young men asking closed questions leading to awkward silences because they just run out of ammunition. They need to get it in their heads - all conversation during a seduction is preceded by how, why, when, where, what... Do THAT and they give you enough ammunition to hook into and they’ll talk all night.