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Hello gentlemen,
After a winter break of preparing and improving myself to be better for women, I think I am now better prepared for second semester. However I would like some advice regarding some headway I managed to make back in first Semester. Unfortunately my inexperience stopped me from accomplishing anything worth mention however I want to know if I can salvage any of these situations.
1. Krysten- Met her through a friend one day. Then much later in the future while going for breakfast before early morning philo class I spot her eating alone. I join her and we talk and walk towards our classes together where we part ways. The next day I get a FaceBook request from her. I accept and later I strike up a conversation, it goes for a while but I finally have the balls to get her number. I succeed but stupid me continues the conversation for a bit before finally realizing I need to get her in person. So I ask, "hey want to get dinner later?", she replies that she had plans with her friend to eat already. I say no problem , another time. She replies "Yeah Deff". I did not try anything after that... We still say hi to each other when we pass by... I am stupid for not persisting but I guess my logic was that I would be chasing after that.
2. Julie- Met her in my tiny human development class. Or she saw me rather because I first spoke to her when she recognized me at a party. Had a small chat then said our goodbyes. I then began talking to her in class where one day while walking back to our dorms we exchanged numbers(she asked for mine). We began texting back and forth for a bit, but I never really set anything definitive up. Ate lunch together one time only because we both met in the cafeteria by coincidence. This was another one where I did not know how to go about things really, plus I did not find her to be very attractive. She was not bad but meh.
3. Lisa- I met her through the student government for my hall. After 2 positions became, my President being a very smart man, realized we had no girls in the e-board for our hall and so he ended up selecting Lisa and this other girl named DeeDee. The first time I talk to her is during the big area wide meeting between all 5 of the hall e-boards and the area wide council which governs over them. We end up sitting next to each other and I strike up a conversation while we wait for the meeting to commence. Had a good conversation on psychology and other stuff and then at one point asked me my grade. I said Freshman(shes a Junior and I cannot lie now). She then says "interesting", no I may be digging to deep into this but that just sounded peculiar to me... Problem is that she is part of a friend group I want to ingratiate myself within(raves) and since I am still a beginner I suppose I should just tread carefully.
I would like any of your opinions on these three situations. Should I just drop em all, do this or that? Any response would be appreciated and in a format like this would be a great.
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After a winter break of preparing and improving myself to be better for women, I think I am now better prepared for second semester. However I would like some advice regarding some headway I managed to make back in first Semester. Unfortunately my inexperience stopped me from accomplishing anything worth mention however I want to know if I can salvage any of these situations.
1. Krysten- Met her through a friend one day. Then much later in the future while going for breakfast before early morning philo class I spot her eating alone. I join her and we talk and walk towards our classes together where we part ways. The next day I get a FaceBook request from her. I accept and later I strike up a conversation, it goes for a while but I finally have the balls to get her number. I succeed but stupid me continues the conversation for a bit before finally realizing I need to get her in person. So I ask, "hey want to get dinner later?", she replies that she had plans with her friend to eat already. I say no problem , another time. She replies "Yeah Deff". I did not try anything after that... We still say hi to each other when we pass by... I am stupid for not persisting but I guess my logic was that I would be chasing after that.
2. Julie- Met her in my tiny human development class. Or she saw me rather because I first spoke to her when she recognized me at a party. Had a small chat then said our goodbyes. I then began talking to her in class where one day while walking back to our dorms we exchanged numbers(she asked for mine). We began texting back and forth for a bit, but I never really set anything definitive up. Ate lunch together one time only because we both met in the cafeteria by coincidence. This was another one where I did not know how to go about things really, plus I did not find her to be very attractive. She was not bad but meh.
3. Lisa- I met her through the student government for my hall. After 2 positions became, my President being a very smart man, realized we had no girls in the e-board for our hall and so he ended up selecting Lisa and this other girl named DeeDee. The first time I talk to her is during the big area wide meeting between all 5 of the hall e-boards and the area wide council which governs over them. We end up sitting next to each other and I strike up a conversation while we wait for the meeting to commence. Had a good conversation on psychology and other stuff and then at one point asked me my grade. I said Freshman(shes a Junior and I cannot lie now). She then says "interesting", no I may be digging to deep into this but that just sounded peculiar to me... Problem is that she is part of a friend group I want to ingratiate myself within(raves) and since I am still a beginner I suppose I should just tread carefully.
I would like any of your opinions on these three situations. Should I just drop em all, do this or that? Any response would be appreciated and in a format like this would be a great.
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Hmmm, for this one, not sure. I would talk with her more if you can and ask her if she'd like to hang out as friends (just you and her though). You can come up with a bogus excuse pretty easily here: want to talk more about psychology and interested in the major, want to talk more about being Junior and coursework, want to talk more about the council/etc.
