Hi guys!
I just registered to the forum and thought to make a short introduction. I hope this is the right place.
Who am I
I'm 30 years old Finnish guy, currently living in southern Germany. I found PUA material long time ago, at year 2009. I read a lot about it and tried it also in the field, which led good/moderate success with girls, and I had multiple GF's. However, something happened around 4,5 years ago and I found myself in a relationship which was really not good for me. It took a long time before I could get myself to end that relationship, it happened only end of May this year. Since then I have tried to became good with girls again, but to be honest it has been bit of a struggling.
My strengths
I think I am a good looking guy. I'm tall, in a good shape and dress well. I look more like a 25 yo than 30 yo.
I have done many interesting things during my life. Have been living in four different countries and traveled a lot.
My job is not sexy, but it's steady one with a good income. For example I can afford a nice apartment.
Challenges
AA is back. Years ago I could approach girls in a broad day light and say that their are cute. But now, if I go to a mall and see I cute girl, I totally freeze and walk away. I keep telling myself it's a language issues, as I do not speak enough German to have a proper discussion, and it would feel weird to start talking English to a total stranger. But I guess it's just excuse, for sure many younger girls speak English even here in southern Germany.
Have work with my inner game to get more confidence.
I need to improve my social skills. I'm not a total Silent Sam, but sometimes I found myself out of thinks to say, and I really need to get better on telling stories. Also my voice is quite low, which makes it hard for people to hear me in loud circumstances. And I mumble a bit.
I do not have a wing man.
So that's about the most important things about me what comes to meeting girls. I think I have to start from the scratch, first to get rid of AA then move forward. I actually tried to start Newbie Assignment, but do not get through day 4 because I find it weird to say "hi" for strangers on the street. :/
I just registered to the forum and thought to make a short introduction. I hope this is the right place.
Who am I
I'm 30 years old Finnish guy, currently living in southern Germany. I found PUA material long time ago, at year 2009. I read a lot about it and tried it also in the field, which led good/moderate success with girls, and I had multiple GF's. However, something happened around 4,5 years ago and I found myself in a relationship which was really not good for me. It took a long time before I could get myself to end that relationship, it happened only end of May this year. Since then I have tried to became good with girls again, but to be honest it has been bit of a struggling.
My strengths
I think I am a good looking guy. I'm tall, in a good shape and dress well. I look more like a 25 yo than 30 yo.
I have done many interesting things during my life. Have been living in four different countries and traveled a lot.
My job is not sexy, but it's steady one with a good income. For example I can afford a nice apartment.
Challenges
AA is back. Years ago I could approach girls in a broad day light and say that their are cute. But now, if I go to a mall and see I cute girl, I totally freeze and walk away. I keep telling myself it's a language issues, as I do not speak enough German to have a proper discussion, and it would feel weird to start talking English to a total stranger. But I guess it's just excuse, for sure many younger girls speak English even here in southern Germany.
Have work with my inner game to get more confidence.
I need to improve my social skills. I'm not a total Silent Sam, but sometimes I found myself out of thinks to say, and I really need to get better on telling stories. Also my voice is quite low, which makes it hard for people to hear me in loud circumstances. And I mumble a bit.
I do not have a wing man.
So that's about the most important things about me what comes to meeting girls. I think I have to start from the scratch, first to get rid of AA then move forward. I actually tried to start Newbie Assignment, but do not get through day 4 because I find it weird to say "hi" for strangers on the street. :/
