Back To University with Bad Logistics

[SirSouth]

Hello Guys,

I've been following the site for a while. I'm 25 and am attending class twice a week at a University about 20 minutes from me via train (trains are slow and considered dangerous here) and sometimes I take a taxi when I can afford it. I keep to myself but I meet girls who are interested and after seeing how bad my logistics are some of they lose interest. I tend to move fast and I think that's the problem because there is no place to move them since I don't live in Campus or where it's considered a safe area.

There's a cute girl who showed high interest in class. So far we had two classes together and after the first class I spoke to her we walked and talked a bit, but nothing sexual but I was glad to have rewarded her obvious interest with a conversation at least. Second class we were asked to work in groups and she came and placed her things on my desk and I was surprised and didn't say anything and she moved to sit on the other side and made a joke about it. Class ends she leaves stands at the door busy on her phone and I don't talk to her. I leave and regret it of course.

Later I meet a girl who lives where I in the same area I do. The conversation was good and I think I handled my fundamentals well. I canceled the date we set today and suggested we meet tomorrow because we will be both at campus early morning.

Last night I got a call from a girl I failed to pull from the Library five minutes from my place where I was practice pulling. I had left her a voice mail and now bonded and I ended the call after 3min. I asked when she's around and she said told me she's going to be around on Thursday or Saturday next week. (Considering calling her on Sunday for more bonding)

I am in a relationship and my girlfriend who was an ex and we got back together is great, but I want to meet more girls so I never suffer from scarcity again.

The question is bad logistics in an environment where there are lots of woman. How do I tackle it? Is it a waste of time? Are there alternatives way of continuing with the seduction? Perhaps suggesting dates in campus until....

I am thinking of asking the girl in class to join me for a swim in one of the pools in Campus. But the idea of home not being close and pulling a girl of different race to a different neighborhood does not seem easy at the moment.

Hope I have been clear. What are your thoughts?

 

[Fuck This]

Make your first dates short and intriguing near campus, and seed a second date nearer your place.

Alternately, be trustworthy enough that she invites you to meet her at her campus housing. Many folks might think this is too beta, but it is an option. Make the date plan that you will pick her up from her dorm room. Bring a cooler with drinks or something, and leave it there. Then go do your activity and go back to her place for the drinks and snacks you brought afterwards. This requires a lot of calibration on your part.

It is tough as an off campus student to integrate into the on campus activities, especially when older. You are swimming upstream but it can be done. won't be easy.