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I just searched for this topic as now I am facing this issue. I am still a guy who is getting over AA and hitting my stride in approaching. I still have to cement my approaching skills and reach a stage where cold approaching becomes a regular part of my life.
But I have begun to go for closes and end up getting many numbers. But some of them don't reply etc and it impacts my emotional state. And I have had issues with being addicted to porn and I am recovering. But due to this, I have OCD tendencies. As a result, at this stage I think for me obssessing over ghosts and flakes is really bad. My immediate growth does not lie in turning around ghosts but in getting out there approaching more and getting more leads.
So at this stage, any time I text a girl and she does not respond, I delete her number. Ideally I should have the self control to not text them and not chase and play it cool, but the reality is at this stage I cannot do that, so the only way I can NOT chase, NOT obssessively think about it etc is by deleting the number and not giving myself the option to be able to do it. If they reply, I always know because I see their pic etc and I continue the convo.
But otherwise at this stage, for my level, deleting unresponsive numbers is a good practice to follow as it helps me to get out there and approach more.
But I have begun to go for closes and end up getting many numbers. But some of them don't reply etc and it impacts my emotional state. And I have had issues with being addicted to porn and I am recovering. But due to this, I have OCD tendencies. As a result, at this stage I think for me obssessing over ghosts and flakes is really bad. My immediate growth does not lie in turning around ghosts but in getting out there approaching more and getting more leads.
So at this stage, any time I text a girl and she does not respond, I delete her number. Ideally I should have the self control to not text them and not chase and play it cool, but the reality is at this stage I cannot do that, so the only way I can NOT chase, NOT obssessively think about it etc is by deleting the number and not giving myself the option to be able to do it. If they reply, I always know because I see their pic etc and I continue the convo.
But otherwise at this stage, for my level, deleting unresponsive numbers is a good practice to follow as it helps me to get out there and approach more.
