Can’t get it up advice

[KingTurtle]

I’m away from home for a wedding this weekend. Staying a week with just to visit friends and ran into a girl I’ve had a crush on for a while. When we met previously she was dating aanother guy and I never pursued it. Now she’s single and we hit it off right away.

I went home with her last night. Had about 3 IPAs. We went to bed and after some foreplay I couldn’t get it up. This has never happened to me before even when I’ve had way more drinks. She’s a complete babe and I’m super attracted to her. She was really cool about it and still wants to hang out tonight.

when I get home I’m probably gonna go to a doc to get some bloodwork. I’m 27, in great shape, I don’t really think 3 beers should be that much of a problem. Wondering if anyone has any recommendations in the short term to help me perform tonight. Obviously prescription pills on short notice aren’t gonna help. Maybe eat some eggs? Or find some sort of natural supplement? Horny goat weed or something like that

Also I’ve been counting macros recently, bulked up and now I’m trimming off the fat. Still would say I’m at most 20% body fat right now though. Maybe my calorie deficit could be causing some issues?

any input is appreciated

KT

 

[ljrozz69]

Hey there @KingTurtle,

Look at this topic wich is highly related https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/how-to-get-a-rock-hard-erection.22129/.

Also I’ve been counting macros recently, bulked up and now I’m trimming off the fat. Still would say I’m at most 20% body fat right now though. Maybe my calorie deficit could be causing some issues?

If you are doing it in a hardcore way this seems very probable but in any case you should talk about it with your med.

Cya,
Klimax

 

[KingTurtle]

Hey there @KingTurtle,

Look at this topic wich is highly related https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/how-to-get-a-rock-hard-erection.22129/.

If you are doing it in a hardcore way this seems very probable but in any case you should talk about it with your med.

Cya,
Klimax

I wouldn’t say I’m doing it overly hardcore. Have done cuts like this before and don’t remember issues. However I agree seems like the most likely culprit.

appreciate the help man.

 

[Mr.Rob]

Sounds like it was just a mental block.

I'd recommend communicating it to the girl what's going on and take the pressure of yourself to perform.

Chase has a good post on it in the sex forum.

But yeah your putting too much pressure on your self to perform.

 

[KingTurtle]

Sounds like it was just a mental block.

I'd recommend communicating it to the girl what's going on and take the pressure of yourself to perform.

Chase has a good post on it in the sex forum.

But yeah your putting too much pressure on your self to perform.

I feel like I was not that stressed about it. It just wasn’t happening. Was a little anxious before we hung out though so you could be right.

 

[Mr.Rob]

Hormones fluctuate, your not a 10/10 steel fuck machine every day. If you can communicate and take the pressure off you'll probably find that all of a sudden you can get it off.

James Marshall has a video on YouTube called "lost your mojo" that is a good discussion on the topic. Try that out.

 

[Chrance]

Cialis works. Take like 5mg and you can perform under any condition with some exceptions. Though you’re taking other pills so you may need to consult a professional

 

[BigPapa]

I agree with @Mr.Rob , you put pressure on you and because of this you had some problems with being hard

Me for example every time I am super stressed I can not get it hard no matter what I do . Maybe you were not stressed , but you put pressure on you like : she is so cute I can not mess things up , will I be able to satisfy her , did she see a bigger penis than mine , what if she will not like it , etc