Can't run a good date.... what does this feedback mean?

[West_Indian_Archie]

This is a great post but you said that attraction is different to arousal, but didn't describe how. Can you give more info?

I'm on this site because I set out in 2017 to get a girlfriend and I still don't want to give up. Clearly the articles haven't helped me as much as I'd like, but every dog has its day.

It's pretty clear in the post.

For practical purposes, attraction is just the girl wanting to be around you. Like a kid and new toy.

Her being aroused means she wants to mate. It takes very little to arouse a woman. Cold weather can make her nipples hard. A hand on the inner thigh will make the blood rush to her nether regions.

But just because the kitty is wet, doesn't mean she wants to have sex with you.

Buyer can come into a store, pocket full of money, desperate need for goods, but not YOUR goods.

It's fairly common in the night game to get makeouts because the environment, lights, night time, smoke, alcohol, are conducive to arousal, but that doesn't mean you can just show up.

2017? Perhaps you need therapy to deal with other issues.

 

[POB]

@raiden you are getting dates, so clearly you have something positive going for you!

As I said in my previous post, what you are lacking is structure

You need to follow a proven plan, and stick to it untill you get the hang of it.
That said:
- 7 dates wont work
- dinner dates wont work
- outside dates wont work
Not saying these never work, but they are way harder to deal with and will greatly decrease your odds. So why make your life harder when you can choose a proven path?

What works is doing one date using the 3 bounce technique, OR the 2/3 date method

Either way, for each of those, there are a series of steps you MUST TAKE IN A SEQUENCE that will dramatically increase your chances of pipi in vagina

Your job is to study and learn those steps, then apply them in the real world with real women

 

[Skills]

This is a great post but you said that attraction is different to arousal, but didn't describe how. Can you give more info?

I'm on this site because I set out in 2017 to get a girlfriend and I still don't want to give up. Clearly the articles haven't helped me as much as I'd like, but every dog has its day.

The way you are going about getting a girlfriend is flawed...you are having a reality check the way your view things is 6 dates I am making progress and winning but that is not factual or her reality but yours...again the point of 3 bounces is 3 dates...you can even do 6 dates by doing 2 different meets the 3 bounce... But going on 6 dates is not a good strategy for many reasons... Most guys have done what you are doing in the begining lack of success stages but barely leads to lays is low odds the not making moves can be interpreted as lack of attraction and chemistry, the going on dates as manipulation in other words buying meals and being nice with the agenda to get laid, can be interpreted by women that way... If you are here since 2017 and don't understand this basic principles, you are just looking for reinforcement of bad strategies, flawed believes and lack of understanding of women nature...

 

[OldGuy]

Even the ones that are looking for a husband require sex eventually and will only stay around until they find someone who will provide it. One even told me she might have married me if we had sex (yes, I proposed). Since by then she and her husband were expecting their second son, nothing happened.