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Marty

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I met this girl just over two weeks ago; due to a very eventful period in my life, I haven't had a chance to file timely.

Note that certain insignificant details have been changed intentionally to protect anonymity. Nothing affecting the girl's sexual market value—her age, height, weight, figure, or experience of show-business and modeling—has been altered, however.

Approach

On a Friday at lunchtime I am driving up a winding, narrow road on a steep hill, lined on both sides with townhouses and apartment complexes. My city is pedestrian-friendly in the business districts, but that certainly does not include this road. To my surprise, I see on the sidewalk, going the same direction as I, a girl of exquisite figure and dressed with class and panache.

Right after I pass her, there is a turn-lane where it would be in principle possible to park (illegally). I miss it. A wave of shame comes over me. A couple hundred yards further down, there is another opportunity (also illegal). I park.

I lock the car and walk back in the opposite direction. Presently, the girl appears over the brow of a hillock. I address her directly.


  • Marty: I just saw you walking here as I drove past, and you have this incredibly elegant look about you. I couldn't resist stopping to say hello.
She is transcendentally beautiful. Tumbling locks of chestnut hair with a distinctive steely tinge frame a face of such perfect gentleness as I have seldom before seen. The chin has a feminine softness that goads a man to take it gently in hand and pull her delectable mouth toward his. Her eyes are set fractionally wider, and have a fractionally wider aperture, than the limit beyond which male resistance is hopeless. The blue irises pick up the steely hue in her hair and the pupils appear to be constantly dilated such as to melt the hardest heart.

The body is beyond description, though I become blissfully familiar with it in time. Her wrists are so small I can encircle them with my thumb and index, middle or ring finger, without exerting pressure. Her upper arms contain not a trace of surplus fat and her exposed décolletage harbors no bulk above the alluring roundness of her breasts. The waist will bear minute examination without incident and the hips set my loins on fire. The "inner-thigh gap", I later discover, is a permanent feature of this lady and the legs have a faultless silkiness.

I learn in time that she is 25, 5'9", and weighs all of 120 lbs, and that she has worked as a catwalk model in the past and still does on occasion, as well as acting as a photographic model for openings of fashion boutiques. I am unsurprised.

What does surprise me at this moment is how hard she hooks straight after the opener. I remark that one hardly sees pedestrians here, and she explains that she is visiting the city: she is an singer and dancer in musical theater. As she is at an early stage in her career, we will call her ChorusGirl. I detect a certain depth and fullness in her voice.

After a couple minutes we have reached my car again, and I go for a fast number close. She is walking to the subway station and I do not offer her a lift the rest of the way; I do not want to intimidate her and it is very close anyway, moreover the air has cooled a little since earlier in the week and walking appears pleasant. I sit in my car and spend a few minutes recovering as she disappears into the distance.

Two hours later I text her to save my number. She texts back after an hour, assuring me she has done so.

Twenty-four hours after I met her, around noon Saturday, I give her a call. She is unavailable and I leave a voice message. A half-hour later, I hear my phone, which I have left upstairs recharging, ringing persistently. I sprint up the stairs and catch it on maybe the fifth or sixth ring.

We begin conversation, but my cell reception at home is poor and after a minute or so we are cut off. She calls back immediately. Upon answering I explain the situation and tell her I will call back from a fixed line.

Speaking from my home phone, I build the comfort that I did not have time for on the approach. She tells me that she has little to no time during her visit, on account of rehearsals, but should her schedule open up, she will text me accordingly.


  • ChorusGirl: I don't want you to think I'm normally like this... it's just I have no free time while I'm here.
Translation: "With men who have done a good job of making me take them seriously, I don't normally try to get the upper hand by doing things exclusively on my own terms."

I assume I'm never going to hear from her again. Meanwhile I go on a date with VolleyGirl and have a bit of fun, I suppose, but they're worlds apart. Fortunately this means that my house is spotless in preparation for a possible visit... luck's a funny thing.

Date

Sunday after lunch I feel a bit tired (maybe it's the emotion of hooking three women in five days) and I take an afternoon nap. My phone is on silent.

When I wake up, there is a text message waiting for me from ChorusGirl, already a half-hour pending, telling me that she has finished costuming unexpectedly early and asking if I can meet with her now.

I explain that I was asleep and tell her to meet me at a midtown subway station at 4:45 PM. She agrees. Meanwhile I hurriedly pull on some fine clothes I have set aside for the eventuality, peek briefly at myself in the mirror and head out.

She sees me before I see her. I kiss her on the cheek and escort her to my favorite café. I do not touch her except to guide her through the door.

She drinks an espresso and I have an iced tea. I don't know what happens in the café, or whether it took place partly at our earlier meeting, but we bond very hard. When we leave after about an hour, I suggest she take my arm and instead of slipping it through loosely like most women, she grasps me and pulls me close.

She doesn't know the city and hasn't had any free time, so I walk her through one of its most pleasant districts and into a big park. We walk down to the shore of the lake and begin circling it. About a quarter of the way round, we espy an unoccupied swing-set and take a seat.

The swing-set has an armrest down the middle, positioned at an odd width, allowing for one-and-a-half people on each side; it appears to be designed to seat either two extremely overweight people, or four extremely slender ones! Initially, we sit on either side of the armrest; she pulls close to me and leans over it.

I try to kiss her; she says "Not yet" and snuggles as close in as she possibly can. Soon enough the armrest begins to dig into her sublime body in a perfectly scandalous manner. (Sacrilege!) I comment on the predicament described above, and she tells me that she believes we are "two slender people" and asks me to scoot across to her side. It's tight, even with my arm around her. Real tight. She's half-lying across my chest, happy as can be. A flock of goslings swims past, soon followed by a watchful mother goose. Now the armrest is digging into my hip, but I couldn't care.

A half-hour later she notices my discomfort and we begin walking again. I take her to the spot where photographers come to capture the city skyline. She tells me of her experience in catwalk modeling. A turtle pokes its head up above the water's surface, and the setting sun streams between the tall buildings in the distance, lighting us in fiery color as we press close together. We kiss, several times. She's still a little hesitant, but she acknowledges this verbally of her own accord.

It's the gentlest pull in the world. As we start walking again, I ask:


  • Marty: That movie we discussed earlier, in the café... do you want to see it?

    ChorusGirl: I don't know. Do you want to see it?

    Marty: Yes.

    ChorusGirl: Then I want to see it too. Let's see it.
Sitting on the grass, I ask about her commitments. Nothing for today; she needs to get to bed by midnight. I assure her I'll get her home safely and she shakes hands with me on that!

It's 7:30 PM. A thought occurs to me. We didn't eat anything in the café, and she mentioned that she's always hungry (singing and dancing puts out a lot of calories). Things are going to get nasty if they drag on too long, unless we eat a proper dinner.


  • Marty: Are you hungry?

    ChorusGirl: A little bit.
So we proceed to a Mexican restaurant I've seen, but never tried. It turns out to be far better than any other I've visited in the city. We sit outdoors in the twilight; it's unspeakably romantic. Thus a peculiar situation ensues where we sit down to eat, and both know what's going to happen next: she'll come home with me.

About an hour and a half later, I pay, then say just two words:


  • Marty: Let's go.

    ChorusGirl: Okay.
We walk a few blocks to my office parking deck; it's all so natural. Not a care in the world—we're totally absorbed with one another. I hold the door for her, she sits in my car. I walk round to the other side, get in, offer her gum, she declines, take my time getting some for myself, then drive off.

We walk arm-in-arm to my house; she takes her shoes off without my asking; I get her a glass of water. She stands in my kitchen, pulls me close and asks, in a whisper:


  • ChorusGirl: So what are we going to do?

    Marty: Let's go somewhere even more private.
She follows me upstairs, into my bedroom. She sits on my bed, props herself up with pillows, and says:


  • ChorusGirl: Come sit with me.
She draws me close. In the park, our kisses were a little half-assed for my liking.


  • Marty: I want to kiss you, properly, right now.
Not another word passes between us. She pulls me in, kisses me hard on the mouth. She commences tongue action of her own accord. She presses me down onto the bed, underneath her. I unhook her bra with my left hand, unzip her skirt.

This is about 9:30 PM. A few minutes later she says, "This is silly" and removes the bra entirely. Her nipples are now poking delicately into the material of her top.

We make out extensively. After she goes to the bathroom, she comes back with her skirt zipped back up; I unzip it again and she takes it off altogether.

I pull back the covers of the bed and we get inside. She takes off her top; her panties stay on. I remove my white jeans and she unbuttons my shirt. She likes playing with the hair on my chest.


  • ChorusGirl: If we had sex, it'd be a little random for me right now... this is a bit of an unfamiliar situation.
It's not difficult for me to be outcome-independent by this point. She's generated so much respect and admiration in me, all I care about is that she gets everything she wants. I resolve to push the boundaries as hard as I can and let her do the resisting. If she'll let herself come, I'll make her come.

Nonchalantly, I ask what particular aspect is unfamiliar. Her answer implies that when she's been traveling in an unknown city, she's never known a man to pull over, get out of his car, meet her on the sidewalk, number-close her, ask her on a date, then take her home and escalate with her. I see the headline in my mind's eye:

SHOCKER: RED-BLOODED MALES FACING EXTINCTION IN MAJOR U.S. CITIES

My hand slides down her panties from the rear; I grab her ass (it sticks out in an incredibly inviting way). I rub her pussy through the material, now from the rear, then from the front. We make out, talk, get physical.

I try to remove her panties.


  • ChorusGirl: Those stay on. Everybody has her boundary; that's mine.
She's basically just told me the tipping-point beyond which she cannot resist total submission. She's made a voluntary disclosure :) If I can get those off, I'm home and dry. Or wet :)

(I know what my tipping-point is too. Moaning. If she starts moaning, I'm barely going to be able to contain myself.)

I go downstairs to get her more water and some cherries for us. She eats the cherries greedily and we stare at each other, unable or unwilling to avert our gaze.

The routine of making out, talking, getting physical again continues for hours. At one point I have my hand down her panties from the front, fingers barely slipping into her vulva. She's panting hard, staring at me longingly but she grabs my wrist, pulls HARD.


  • Marty: (whispered) Please!

    ChorusGirl: (with a reproachful facial expression that's irresistible) Don't make me tell you something twice, or I'll feel less safe.
This girl has incredible self-control. Those who have experienced it will know, but it's hard to describe the power over a man that well-executed resistance by a very high-value female has. There is not a moment of disagreement between us, no rancor, nothing but tenderness. Her resistance causes me no offense and my persistence causes her none. This calm and bitterness-free boundary setting, this gentle but firm insistence on respecting her wishes, causes me to get hooked beyond description. Intermittent rewards cause addiction.

She starts looking at me out of the corner of her eye as I press her down on the bed, coyly.


  • Marty: If you keep looking at me like that, I'm going to get obsessed with you.

    ChorusGirl: I'm not sorry!
She giggles and sticks her tongue between her teeth at me, playfully. This girl is a merciless tease.

It's a half-hour past her midnight deadline already. She assures me that she'll take responsibility for the time. I'm not going to kick her out; I'll just get her back when she needs to go.

Another round of escalation proceeds over the coming hours. I eventually get her to leave her legs apart, relaxed, not trying to close again; her panties are still on, but I rub her until she's panting, gasping, staring up at me. We are kissing passionately.

I'm just thinking I can tip her over the edge when she grabs my wrist again and pulls upward with incredible force for such a slight figure.


  • Marty: But you were enjoying it.

    ChorusGirl: (still gasping) I know.

    Marty: Just let it happen.

    ChorusGirl: Don't tell me what to do.
I tell her she can stay the night if she wants. She's happy I offered, but there are practical considerations on her side. Despite this, she's actually on the fence about it.

At around 3:15 AM I take a break, get myself some water, more for her too, and some strawberries and peaches for us to share. She has to go.

I hold the door again for her to get in the car. As we drive, she remarks:


  • ChorusGirl: Tomorrow, we will both be a little sleepy, but we'll be very pleased with ourselves.

    Marty: We did the right thing, spending all the time we possibly could together.

    ChorusGirl: We did.
I set her down at her hostess's residence at 3:45 AM, after having spent 11 unbroken hours alone in her company. Singers have to be careful not to strain their voices, yet she has willingly talked with me for most of that time.

She beats all the other girls hands-down.

At this point we exchange about a hundred text messages. Among these, on the Tuesday, the following exchange takes place:

ChorusGirl: Rehearsal is often as much waiting as singing.

Marty: I see! Well then, one day I shall just have to test your patience... not to mention your stamina
And then the clincher, on the Wednesday:

ChorusGirl: Hey, what are you doing Friday evening?

Marty: Coming to your show, of course!

ChorusGirl: We should spend some time after the show, if that works with you.
"Yeah, I guess that works with me, toots," I think to myself ;) I check what she likes for breakfast, and she gives a detailed answer, adding that she's "not picky at all". Splendid!

First Night as Lovers

The show is magnificent, and afterward I'm waiting outside when she emerges rolling a suitcase.

I like this girl's attitude.

I grab her case from her, she goes off and hugs a few people for a minute or two, then I put it in the trunk of my car, hold the door for her and off we go. We stop at a late-night café and I take the best care of her I've ever taken of anyone, making sure she gets fed timely, gets water without ice how she likes it, etc. She's quiet for a bit as she winds down after the show, but there is never a hint of awkwardness, just a warm glow. I mention to her that I recognized her in one of the scenes by her ass; she giggles, perks up and it's like the previous Sunday again.

We leave for home, I park, she enters the house with me and sprints up the stairs to the bedroom at the double.

The clothes come off quickly this time. She's in a short dress, and once I've gotten her good and aroused with my hands and face, I slip off the panties. A string is protruding from her labia. I look up at her inquiringly.

ChorusGirl: (intoned in a sing-song voice) It's lady-time!

While the feminine item is still inside and doing its job, I give her a long, drawn-out cunnilingus and after maybe 30 minutes of merciless teasing, she grasps my head between her thighs like she's never gonna give it back and convulses continuously for about a minute. Then she goes to the bathroom and removes the obstruction, and the real fun begins.

We have sex almost non-stop from midnight until 4:10 AM. I never even knew what passion was before I met this girl.

I actually didn't know sex like that was possible. It's embarrassing to admit, but now I get it. Now I know what people mean when they use phrases like "screw her senseless" or "fuck her till she can't walk". I've been in several serious relationships and an 11-year marriage and yet I have never actually known what it is to desire each other so strongly you literally can't keep your hands off each other, you're tearing into each other's bodies.

She's the most affectionate person I've ever met. We're never just "touching"; she's pressed up against me as hard as possible, exerting pressure like a cat. ALL the fucking time. Even when she's asleep. She's obviously ambitious and successful, and she's no "party girl" at all... she hardly touches alcohol and completely eschews loud venues, not just for the sake of her voice.

And she fucks like no one I've ever seen. I actually lose count of how many climaxes she had when it gets to about a dozen, which is within the first hour. My estimate is 30 or 40... (I wasn't sure that was even possible, so I PMed this to a couple of the super-experienced guys to verify). Like, at peak excitement she's literally going into spasms and gasping in that halting way every 90 seconds or so. Throughout, she's pushing up against me with that super-flexy runway-model body of hers into the most extraordinary contortions; she takes it in a wide assortment of positions, moving me if need be, not holding back in the least. Toward the end I'm near collapsing from exhaustion and have become temporarily limp; she gives me head with all she's got, until I'm aching to please her again.

This sounds like I'm exaggerating but I'm not actually even doing it justice. I realize that what I had thought of in the past as "passion" or "love" was simply a shoddy imitation of the real thing. It's like waking up from a dream, becoming a different person.

We sleep till about 11 AM. The wreckage of my bedroom is something to behold. Fluids, love juices, and of course copious menstrual blood over the sheets; a lone towel I put down to make her feel comfortable lies useless on the floor (she doesn't care). When I wake up in the morning, I still have some under my fingernails. I have never been happier in my entire life.

I give her breakfast (as per prior order) and drop her to where she needs to be.

Second Night as Lovers

Sunday night is her final show. A different one this time; she is featured more prominently. I wait for her outside again, congratulate her when she emerges, and she goes off and says her goodbyes. This takes very little time.

We go straight to my home this time; I make her some sandwiches. We hold each other tightly for an hour or so, then go upstairs.

It is even better than before.

Unsure initially whether we even have time for sex, I playfully draw a finger gently across her labia, through her panties. She stops moving, stares right at me, and makes this tiny, barely audible, sharp intake of breath.

From that moment I'm sunk. I can't hear and see that without turning into a raging beast. Frankly, I never thought I had it in me. She brings it out.

Oh, and her period has cleared up already.

I start kissing her through her panties and deliberately don't remove them for about 15 minutes, to get her tormented to the point of ecstasy. As for me, I'm experiencing for the first time in my life continuous stimulation of all five senses: I look up at her sublime face gasping, hear her moans, feel her silken thighs grip me tight, taste her sex through the fabric of her underwear, and the smell... the smell is something so exquisite I can't even describe it.

The panties come off and I give her the first one of the night. Then we move on to the entrée.

With her, every orgasm is like a cry for more and I just can't deny her. I only come because I know she has to leave, and that with great reluctance. Otherwise I end up just taking a short break when I'm exhausted, then recover my strength and start again.

I let go sooner... "only" just over 2 hours this time, because she has an early departure the next morning. All the same, it's gone 3 AM when I drop her back to where she's staying in town.

She's insatiable. Like a lioness in heat.

And that's just the sex. She's an incredibly articulate, self-sufficient, and wise lady too. And loving... beyond anything I've ever experienced.

We've been closely in touch ever since. I've never experienced such a strong connection with anyone.

I'm a changed man in every sense.

-Marty
 

mindful

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Way to go Marty! A smile crossed my face when I saw "LR" in the title. I don't even know what to say...that was one of the best lay reports I've read. It sounds like the two of you really had a connection on all levels.
 

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Great job man! I am proud of you. It sounds like you might want an LTR with this girl. Go ahead, you deserve it. Maybe it's time to take a break from approaching and just enjoy the hard earned rewards of your persistent efforts since taking this path. Respect Brother...
 

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This is the kind of experience that no woman can buy, Marty.

Kudos!
 

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mindful said:
Way to go Marty! A smile crossed my face when I saw "LR" in the title. I don't even know what to say...that was one of the best lay reports I've read. It sounds like the two of you really had a connection on all levels.
Same for me. Well done, Marty ;)

On a side note: does your job require you to write extensively, or are you into writing in general? This is well-written as fuck. It felt like I was reading a novel.
 
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Marty, I've been lurking for a while but holy crap, your writing is exquisite. It's literally like reading some crazy erotic book. Congrats on your exceptional find. It sounds like, as you said, this woman has been a milestone , a point in your life from which you will never remain the same. Your reports are inspiring to say the least.
 

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I can only imagine how fine this lady was, her being a model and all that ;)

Loved how you told her you saw her as you were driving by. Usually, I drive past them, park, and walk by, pretending to have just noticed them.

Way to have been confident, direct, and ballsy. I feel like that could've been taken as creepy.
 

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When I saw it was a LR, I just had to click on it and check it out!

It was definitely amazing! =) U made me believe in this stuff again. I'm glad u enjoyed ur time with her!
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

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I'd been waiting for this, because I knew it was going to happen soon enough. What a beautiful, beautiful sample of seduction!

ChorusGirl: I don't want you to think I'm normally like this... it's just I have no free time while I'm here.

Translation: "With men who have done a good job of making me take them seriously, I don't normally try to get the upper hand by doing things exclusively on my own terms."

Great observation, and it's spot-on. This is one of the things I realized as I started to see results too... when they start telling you things like that, instead of the transparently absolving crap like: "I'm so busy with school and work so I can't, maybe some other time!"

Translation: "Hmm. You seem like kind of a pushover. Sure, I'll go out with you... maybe in your next lifetime!"


I try to kiss her; she says "Not yet" and snuggles as close in as she possibly can.

Here's where a lot guys go: "Not yet?! What do you mean not yet?!" and then even though she's just letting things run it's course, the guy gets impatient and scolds her for "putting it on a shelf" instead of shrugging it off and continuing to build trust and comfort.


Marty: That movie we discussed earlier, in the café... do you want to see it?

ChorusGirl: I don't know. Do you want to see it?

Marty: Yes.

ChorusGirl: Then I want to see it too. Let's see it.

Escalation window, meet brick.


This girl has incredible self-control. Those who have experienced it will know, but it's hard to describe the power over a man that well-executed resistance by a very high-value female has. There is not a moment of disagreement between us, no rancor, nothing but tenderness. Her resistance causes me no offense and my persistence causes her none.

You handled the LMR impeccably. Even though you couldn't push through, it was still apparent to her that the only reason that the two of you didn't have sex was because of her hard resistance (which is important- she knows you'll make it happen when the time IS right). Even though her resistance was hard and well-executed, you still knew she wanted you (which limits the power-shift that can occur if a woman can resist you, i.e. instead of a physical, sit-up-pull-away-and-put-clothes-on type of knee jerk resistance you'll get from some women where you're just not pushing her buttons and she's the big momma bear and you're the cute lil' cub).


ChorusGirl: Hey, what are you doing Friday evening?

Marty: Coming to your show, of course!

ChorusGirl: We should spend some time after the show, if that works with you.

Game, set, match.


Wonderful, wonderful job! You're a pimp.. ;)

J.J.
 

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Marty... you DOG, you!

I knew it was only a matter of time until I saw a report like this from you. Welcome to the world of women (and their insatiable desire for sex), brother! ;)

As a moderator of the boards, however, I feel I should at least provide my constructive criticism to help further the progress you've made today!

I try to kiss her; she says "Not yet" and snuggles as close in as she possibly can. Soon enough the armrest begins to dig into her sublime body in a perfectly scandalous manner. (Sacrilege!) I comment on the predicament described above, and she tells me that she believes we are "two slender people" and asks me to scoot across to her side. It's tight, even with my arm around her. Real tight. She's half-lying across my chest, happy as can be. A flock of goslings swims past, soon followed by a watchful mother goose. Now the armrest is digging into my hip, but I couldn't care.

I think you already know my stance about kissing on a date, but I applaud your ability to remain calm and unfazed here regardless of her decision to decline your kiss. Good work.

It's 7:30 PM. A thought occurs to me. We didn't eat anything in the café, and she mentioned that she's always hungry (singing and dancing puts out a lot of calories). Things are going to get nasty if they drag on too long, unless we eat a proper dinner.

Marty: Are you hungry?

ChorusGirl: A little bit.

If she's ready to go home with you, don't derail this in any way! This could have been the death of this seduction, but it seems like your fundamentals and her infatuation with you carried you forward anyway. Well done. ;)

At around 3:15 AM I take a break, get myself some water, more for her too, and some strawberries and peaches for us to share. She has to go.

Excellent. For those of you who said you attempted to escalate with a girl for 20 minutes and then gave up, THIS is what true persistence looks like. If I'm not mistaken, that was at least a full 5 hours of furious persistence during sexual escalation. THAT is what a woman wants. She wants to KNOW that YOU want HER. Good stuff, Marty. And, I believe that is a new record length for persistence on these boards! (It certainly beats my longest escalation, which was 4 hours)

ChorusGirl: Hey, what are you doing Friday evening?

Marty: Coming to your show, of course!

ChorusGirl: We should spend some time after the show, if that works with you.

This is exactly why you want to persist as hard as you did sexually. She needs to know deep down that you crave nothing else in the world other than her. She'll be reeling so hard the next day about how close she was to mind-numbing, passionate sex with you that she'll initiate the next meetup herself! I'm glad you got to reap the rewards of your persistence. =)

The rest of this... doesn't even need commenting. You reaped what you sewed. Congratulations, Marty. ;)

- Franco
 

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I think all those rejections, failed dates, girls that kiss and flee, among other difficulties the game throws at you paid off on this one... BIG TIME.

I don't even know where to start but here goes the breakdown.

Marty said:
she has worked as a catwalk model in the past and still does on occasion, as well as acting as a photographic model for openings of fashion boutiques.
Marty said:
maybe it's the emotion of hooking three women in five days
When we were talking the other day and you said you were killing it I didn't know at what range you meant that but dayum get that shit Marty!

Marty said:
Marty: That movie we discussed earlier, in the café... do you want to see it?
ChorusGirl: I don't know. Do you want to see it?
Marty: Yes.
ChorusGirl: Then I want to see it too. Let's see it.
This was a dominant answer when she wanted one. I could see a lot of guys getting tripped up on the subtext here when she reiterates the question.

To me this reads:
You: (making up excuse to get her home) Do you want to go have passionate multiple orgasmic sex with me at my house?
Her: I dunno, do you really want me or do you just want to put your dick in another warm wet hole (assuming you get a lot of pussy... cause you've been a pimp so far ;).
You: Bitch get you mind right, I lust you girl
her: fuck me then... I bet you can't outlast my LMR

Lol

mindful said:
It's 7:30 PM. A thought occurs to me. We didn't eat anything in the café, and she mentioned that she's always hungry (singing and dancing puts out a lot of calories). Things are going to get nasty if they drag on too long, unless we eat a proper dinner.

I'm glad Franco pointed this out because for one I agree but for two I could see me getting sidetracked and/or procrastinating going to bed with a girl like this and totally losing shit as a result. Apparently she was so hooked it didn't matter because at the restaurant it was pretty obvious the next step after was sex which would have given her a lot of time to change her mind/"have something come up" before leaving to go back to your place. I'm glad it worked out for both of yall, as I'm sure both of yall are ;).

Marty said:
I unhook her bra with my left hand, unzip her skirt.
That's a true skillset right there, I usually get tired of that jazz after about 15 seconds and just rip her underwear off however possible and then just buy her whatever clothing I render unusable the next day.

Marty said:
SHOCKER: RED-BLOODED MALES FACING EXTINCTION IN MAJOR U.S. CITIES
Lol for real, it feels good to be apart of the elite few that claim a stake in their manhood and sexuality these days.

Marty said:
At one point I have my hand down her panties from the front, fingers barely slipping into her vulva. She's panting hard, staring at me longingly but she grabs my wrist, pulls HARD.

Marty: (whispered) Please!
Emotion. Lust. Uncertainty and certainty by both parties here... kind of interesting. You know you're going to hammer it out to the bitter fucking end until she gets up and leaves. She wants you to hammer it out to the bitter end but doesn't know for sure if you will or not.

Marty said:
Another round of escalation proceeds over the coming hours.
I remember you telling me about how a girlfriend from the past trained you to overcome merciless hour long resistance when you were young... your fortunate to have met that girl from long ago as I'm sure most men don't if they did wouldn't have the humility to let go of their ego to endure it and "graduate".

Literally like Franco said 5 full hours!! I probably would've gotten impatient and passionless after an hour or so but this is makes me rethink all that now. I hope I get tested in such manner one day. I'll remember this when it happens and persist without exception... it's one of the 7 decisions after all ;).

Marty said:
I'm just thinking I can tip her over the edge when she grabs my wrist again and pulls upward with incredible force for such a slight figure.
Marty: But you were enjoying it.
ChorusGirl: (still gasping) I know.
Marty: Just let it happen.
ChorusGirl: Don't tell me what to do.
Absolutely hilarious I love this girl already, chicks got spunk!

Marty said:
ChorusGirl: Tomorrow, we will both be a little sleepy, but we'll be very pleased with ourselves.
Marty: We did the right thing, spending all the time we possibly could together.
ChorusGirl: We did.
I couldn't figure out why you included this upon first reading but now I think I see the significance. It would've been easy for newbies to be like "No! We should've had sex and we'd both be happier!" but that would've fucked shit up. Instead you agree by not taking the interaction at the value of sex but at the value of the relationship "we spent all the time we possibly could together" which I'm guessing in turn helped strengthen the emotional connection you both shared. Well done.

Marty said:
I'm waiting outside when she emerges rolling a suitcase.
I like this girl's attitude.
Lol she means business tonight.

Marty said:
We have sex almost non-stop from midnight until 4:10 AM. I never even knew what passion was before I met this girl
Marty said:
We have sex almost non-stop from midnight until 4:10 AM. I never even knew what passion was before I met this girl.
Pretty good for an old man ;)

I would continue but there really isn't much left to say (and the fact I gotta jet).
You've put in the hard work and written FR for almost every interaction worth mentioning over the past year and you've totally transformed your dating life as a result. Shits amazing man, I knew this was coming sooner or later.

Don't forget about me by the way, whenever you get a chance.

Talk at you down the road Marty!

Keep it pimpin, pimpin...

-Rob
 

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Fantastic, Marty. You had this girl from the moment you walked up to her. This looks/sounds like a "love at first sight" encounter, where for whatever reason the two parties are inextricably drawn to each other from the moment they each spy one another.

No matter how it progresses from here, I'm certain you'll both have / have already had a significant impact on one another's lives and personal trajectories.

Also, as others have noted - masterful handling of resistance and several points in your interactions where things got potentially dicey. You didn't miss a beat in any curve ball situation throughout this entire seduction.

Chase
 

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Marty, it was SUCH a pleasure to read the title, and then the full report. This one sounds like a catch, and MAN have you COME A LONG WAY!!
Franco said:
I knew it was only a matter of time until I saw a report like this from you. Welcome to the world of women (and their insatiable desire for sex), brother! ;)

My thoughts exactly. Well fucking done, sir.
Marty said:
On a Friday at lunchtime I am driving up a winding, narrow road on a steep hill, lined on both sides with townhouses and apartment complexes. My city is pedestrian-friendly in the business districts, but that certainly does not include this road. To my surprise, I see on the sidewalk, going the same direction as I, a girl of exquisite figure and dressed with class and panache.

Right after I pass her, there is a turn-lane where it would be in principle possible to park (illegally). I miss it. A wave of shame comes over me. A couple hundred yards further down, there is another opportunity (also illegal). I park.

I lock the car and walk back in the opposite direction. Presently, the girl appears over the brow of a hillock. I address her directly.

Marty: I just saw you walking here as I drove past, and you have this incredibly elegant look about you. I couldn't resist stopping to say hello.

This seriously sounds straight out of a movie. I mean, you've got some balls man. I'm beyond impressed that you stopped and took the risk. This is exactly what's taught, and shows zero approach anxiety. Great to see you take this opportunity.

Marty said:
Two hours later I text her to save my number. She texts back after an hour, assuring me she has done so.

Twenty-four hours after I met her, around noon Saturday, I give her a call. She is unavailable and I leave a voice message. A half-hour later, I hear my phone, which I have left upstairs recharging, ringing persistently. I sprint up the stairs and catch it on maybe the fifth or sixth ring.

Clearly interested, as she made the effort to get in touch with you.

Marty said:
I try to kiss her; she says "Not yet" and snuggles as close in as she possibly can. Soon enough the armrest begins to dig into her sublime body in a perfectly scandalous manner. (Sacrilege!) I comment on the predicament described above, and she tells me that she believes we are "two slender people" and asks me to scoot across to her side. It's tight, even with my arm around her. Real tight. She's half-lying across my chest, happy as can be. A flock of goslings swims past, soon followed by a watchful mother goose. Now the armrest is digging into my hip, but I couldn't care.

A half-hour later she notices my discomfort and we begin walking again. I take her to the spot where photographers come to capture the city skyline. She tells me of her experience in catwalk modeling. A turtle pokes its head up above the water's surface, and the setting sun streams between the tall buildings in the distance, lighting us in fiery color as we press close together. We kiss, several times. She's still a little hesitant, but she acknowledges this verbally of her own accord.

Also shows interest her, as she keeps you in a position to continue to lead her into the kiss persistently. Good read, and a lot of men would certainly end the date without trying to kiss her again. Kudos for doing so.

In fact, this whole report screams of effective persistence. At times she led you along into the pace she set, and at the same time you didn't let your sight off the goal. Your style is pretty direct, too:

Marty said:
About an hour and a half later, I pay, then say just two words:

Marty: Let's go.

Marty said:
Marty: Let's go somewhere even more private.

Marty said:
Marty: I want to kiss you, properly, right now.

I consider these showcasing your desire for her, which is a turn on if she likes you.

Marty said:
Marty: If you keep looking at me like that, I'm going to get obsessed with you.

ChorusGirl: I'm not sorry!

This girl LOVES the thrill of being chased. And that's also what she's doing by leading you at critical moments where you might have faltered:
Marty said:
Marty: That movie we discussed earlier, in the café... do you want to see it?

ChorusGirl: I don't know. Do you want to see it?

Marty: Yes.

ChorusGirl: Then I want to see it too. Let's see it.

and...

Marty said:
She pulls me in, kisses me hard on the mouth. She commences tongue action of her own accord. She presses me down onto the bed, underneath her. I unhook her bra with my left hand, unzip her skirt.

This is about 9:30 PM. A few minutes later she says, "This is silly" and removes the bra entirely. Her nipples are now poking delicately into the material of her top.

and you weren't unfazed with this little resistance:

Marty said:
ChorusGirl: If we had sex, it'd be a little random for me right now... this is a bit of an unfamiliar situation.

It's not difficult for me to be outcome-independent by this point. She's generated so much respect and admiration in me, all I care about is that she ge

and this, also her leading you, indirectly:

Marty said:
The routine of making out, talking, getting physical again continues for hours. At one point I have my hand down her panties from the front, fingers barely slipping into her vulva. She's panting hard, staring at me longingly but she grabs my wrist, pulls HARD.

Marty: (whispered) Please!

ChorusGirl: (with a reproachful facial expression that's irresistible) Don't make me tell you something twice, or I'll feel less safe.

And yet you continued to persist and showcase your desire for her. She wanted to be desired - by you.

I love your persistence, Marty. She was into you, and you led each other to success at a comfortable pace. And I bet the passionate sex also partially resulted from this great, grandiose, theatrical buildup between the two of you. It also fits your more romantic style of seduction.

Good work, sir. Thumbs up!
 

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Friends:

I'm touched by your responses. Also, I'm immensely grateful for the support I've had from you over the past year or so, without which this would have been impossible. When I say that this experience changed my life, I do so without the slightest exaggeration.

Several of you have commented on specific areas in the report, so I want to address those remarks, if possible in the natural order of the narrative. I'd also like to make some observations on other issues that have come to mind, and ask for your guidance in taking this further.

Franco said:
Welcome to the world of women (and their insatiable desire for sex), brother! ;)
Yes, Franco. Thank you and glad to be here. That's exactly how it feels, you hit the nail on the head.

Gentle_Phrases said:
This is the kind of experience that no woman can buy, Marty.
GP, this remark caused me almost as much self-satisfied smiling as I experienced the morning after the first date, when I first pushed her LMR to the limit. Almost, but not quite ;)

mindful said:
I don't even know what to say...that was one of the best lay reports I've read. It sounds like the two of you really had a connection on all levels.
Thank you, and you don't even know how true your last remark really is.

Anatman said:
My friend, you contributed to this in no small measure ;)

Mr.Rob said:
When we were talking the other day and you said you were killing it I didn't know at what range you meant that but dayum get that shit Marty!
Rob, you've been a fantastic friend and rock-like support.

Dern said:
Loved how you told her you saw her as you were driving by. Usually, I drive past them, park, and walk by, pretending to have just noticed them.

Way to have been confident, direct, and ballsy. I feel like that could've been taken as creepy.
Dern, one thing I've learned (perhaps it applies only to me) is that unless you're a fucking good actor, or a professional liar (e.g. a politician), then you never, never pretend anything. It's about the most transparent and value-lowering mistake you can make.

Like I said, maybe others can pull it off. But from personal experience, I heartily disagree with all the fellas who've posted on this forum about the value of "having a reason" to be in the place you're approaching women, making as if you're doing something else, and so on. It's "hiding the banana" writ large.

Actually, this time I really did have a "reason" to be driving by: I was headed to the department store to buy some clothing. Who cares, though?

You know what? I never even bothered telling her that.

Grand Pooba said:
This seriously sounds straight out of a movie. I mean, you've got some balls man. I'm beyond impressed that you stopped and took the risk. This is exactly what's taught, and shows zero approach anxiety. Great to see you take this opportunity.
Yes, my friend. That's what it felt like. Something's changed... these days while I do follow the precept of trying to get a girl to look at me first, when I actually address her I do so looking her straight in the eye and at close range. The sincerity comes across naturally, and of course it gets far better results.

Grand Pooba said:
Clearly interested, as she made the effort to get in touch with you.
I realized the moment I heard the phone ring that something was different about this girl. I knew it was her. I remember the look she gave me as we parted after the approach. It was a very matter-of-fact, direct, self-assured look, as if I'd said "I'll give you a call" and she were replying "Please do". A first for me.

NarrowJ said:
This is one of the things I realized as I started to see results too... when they start telling you things like that
Glad you noticed this one, NJ. That was a biggie for me.

Grand Pooba said:
Also shows interest here, as she keeps you in a position to continue to lead her into the kiss persistently. Good read, and a lot of men would certainly end the date without trying to kiss her again. Kudos for doing so.
Franco said:
I think you already know my stance about kissing on a date, but I applaud your ability to remain calm and unfazed here regardless of her decision to decline your kiss. Good work.
NarrowJ said:
Here's where a lot guys go: "Not yet?! What do you mean not yet?!" and then even though she's just letting things run it's course, the guy gets impatient and scolds her for "putting it on a shelf" instead of shrugging it off and continuing to build trust and comfort.
Looks like several highly intelligent members with substantially superior success to mine noticed this point. I just want to say that this is actually the moment when I knew deep in my heart that my involvement with this girl, from now on, was going to be substantial come what may. This is the clue:
Marty said:
I try to kiss her; she says "Not yet" and snuggles as close in as she possibly can.
This was a very, very important subtext being communicated loud and clear and it hit me like a bolt from the blue. She's telling me what she needs. If there was any doubt about her interest by this point, it was cleared away instantly... uninterested women don't care whether you understand her deepest needs properly or not. Even if she'd said, out loud, "I need affection, and I need you to give it to me in the following order, step-by-step", the message couldn't have been clearer.

Mr.Rob said:
This was a dominant answer when she wanted one. I could see a lot of guys getting tripped up on the subtext here when she reiterates the question.

To me this reads:
You: (making up excuse to get her home) Do you want to go have passionate multiple orgasmic sex with me at my house?
Her: I dunno, do you really want me or do you just want to put your dick in another warm wet hole (assuming you get a lot of pussy... cause you've been a pimp so far ;).
You: Bitch get you mind right, I lust you girl
her: fuck me then... I bet you can't outlast my LMR

Lol
NarrowJ said:
Escalation window, meet brick.
Rob, you had me in fits, you fucker :) You don't even know how bratty this chick is and that is EXACTLY what was being said, though I didn't quite see through it at the time!

Yeah, NJ, this was a kinda out-of-body experience because it all felt so simple. A few seconds past and the world seemed to have irreversibly changed.

Franco said:
If she's ready to go home with you, don't derail this in any way! This could have been the death of this seduction, but it seems like your fundamentals and her infatuation with you carried you forward anyway. Well done. ;)
Mr.Rob said:
I'm glad Franco pointed this out because for one I agree but for two I could see me getting sidetracked and/or procrastinating going to bed with a girl like this and totally losing shit as a result. Apparently she was so hooked it didn't matter because at the restaurant it was pretty obvious the next step after was sex which would have given her a lot of time to change her mind/"have something come up" before leaving to go back to your place. I'm glad it worked out for both of yall, as I'm sure both of yall are ;).
This is where I slightly glossed over some highly intimate stuff in the narrative, concerning certain minor obstacles, and as a result threw the commenters off. I apologize.

What passed between us for about 2-3 minutes as we sat on the grass will remain private, but I will say that at that point, I would have practically bet my life she'd accompany me home after dinner. The level of investment that she placed in the interaction was such that it was almost a foregone conclusion. Dinner just heightened the romanticism. There was certainly no procrastination at play WHATSOEVER and contrary to all appearances, this was not an inflexion-point where things could have gone off the rails.

Actually, Grand Pooba got close to it with this:
Grand Pooba said:
This seriously sounds straight out of a movie.
—but as usual Chase executed the perfect landing:
Chase said:
You had this girl from the moment you walked up to her. This looks/sounds like a "love at first sight" encounter, where for whatever reason the two parties are inextricably drawn to each other from the moment they each spy one another.
In this instance, if the opener on the street was the volley at the net, then that half-hour spent in the park two days later was the winning smash. Believe it or not. It may not look that way from the text but it FELT that way.

Mr.Rob said:
That's a true skillset right there, I usually get tired of that jazz after about 15 seconds and just rip her underwear off however possible and then just buy her whatever clothing I render unusable the next day.
Haha Rob, I also mentioned this to you in the following context as you may remember:
Mr.Rob said:
I remember you telling me about how a girlfriend from the past trained you to overcome merciless hour long resistance when you were young... your fortunate to have met that girl from long ago as I'm sure most men don't if they did wouldn't have the humility to let go of their ego to endure it and "graduate".
Exactly. And believe it or not, on the night before her departure this chick managed to contort herself into such an awkward position (deliberately, I guess) that I actually struggled with the wretched hooks. I was like "this one seems to be trickier" and she came back with "it's the same bra". 15-0. Stupendously bratty, as you correctly observed right here:
Mr.Rob said:
Absolutely hilarious I love this girl already, chicks got spunk!
and Grand Pooba was, as always, on the mark:
Grand Pooba said:
This girl LOVES the thrill of being chased.
As for this:
NarrowJ said:
You handled the LMR impeccably. Even though you couldn't push through, it was still apparent to her that the only reason that the two of you didn't have sex was because of her hard resistance (which is important- she knows you'll make it happen when the time IS right). Even though her resistance was hard and well-executed, you still knew she wanted you
NJ, this deserves a special mention because I was waiting for someone to notice this:
Marty said:
Her resistance causes me no offense and my persistence causes her none.
It didn't even feel like there was even any back-and-forth in our respective agendas. More like, we were collaboratively moving forward and managing the pace for optimal results, with me providing the power and acceleration, and her doing the steering and braking. That's why:
Franco said:
Excellent. For those of you who said you attempted to escalate with a girl for 20 minutes and then gave up, THIS is what true persistence looks like. If I'm not mistaken, that was at least a full 5 hours of furious persistence during sexual escalation. THAT is what a woman wants. She wants to KNOW that YOU want HER. Good stuff, Marty. And, I believe that is a new record length for persistence on these boards! (It certainly beats my longest escalation, which was 4 hours)
...this didn't even occur to me. I knew very early on that she would not have sex with me that night. I didn't care. I cared only for her pleasure. I also knew that she would, eventually, yield given a second opportunity. The hands of the clock moved inexorably forward, yet we were having the time of our lives and barely noticed. I can honestly say that at that point, this was the happiest moment of my life so far, in spite of the knowledge that its ultimate conclusion would be delayed by a few days.

Which brings me to this:
Mr.Rob said:
I couldn't figure out why you included this upon first reading but now I think I see the significance. It would've been easy for newbies to be like "No! We should've had sex and we'd both be happier!" but that would've fucked shit up. Instead you agree by not taking the interaction at the value of sex but at the value of the relationship "we spent all the time we possibly could together" which I'm guessing in turn helped strengthen the emotional connection you both shared. Well done.
I don't even need to explain that now. You get the picture.

Grand Pooba said:
I consider these showcasing your desire for her, which is a turn on if she likes you.
Grand Pooba said:
And yet you continued to persist and showcase your desire for her. She wanted to be desired - by you.

I love your persistence, Marty. She was into you, and you led each other to success at a comfortable pace. And I bet the passionate sex also partially resulted from this great, grandiose, theatrical buildup between the two of you. It also fits your more romantic style of seduction.
Franco said:
This is exactly why you want to persist as hard as you did sexually. She needs to know deep down that you crave nothing else in the world other than her. She'll be reeling so hard the next day about how close she was to mind-numbing, passionate sex with you that she'll initiate the next meetup herself! I'm glad you got to reap the rewards of your persistence. =)
Franco and Grand Pooba are spot-on in terms of the direction I saw this going as I gave her a ride home after the first night. It was an unspoken deal. I'd provide the drive without let-up. She'd set the pace. And when we were both ready... BOOM.
Big Daddy said:
On a side note: does your job require you to write extensively, or are you into writing in general? This is well-written as fuck. It felt like I was reading a novel.
black_ice_pc said:
Marty, I've been lurking for a while but holy crap, your writing is exquisite. It's literally like reading some crazy erotic book. Congrats on your exceptional find. It sounds like, as you said, this woman has been a milestone , a point in your life from which you will never remain the same. Your reports are inspiring to say the least.
Thanks guys. I'm working on it. No, I work with figures mainly, although my job certainly requires me to be articulate. I'd love to be a novelist, but I don't think I quite have the imagination...

And finally:
Eternity said:
It sounds like you might want an LTR with this girl. Go ahead, you deserve it.
Chase said:
No matter how it progresses from here, I'm certain you'll both have / have already had a significant impact on one another's lives and personal trajectories.
Yes.

This is where I'm in sore need of guidance. A couple nights after she got back to her hometown, she called just to hammer out a few details of her next visit. We ended up talking for well over two hours. Since then we've spoken every evening for at least an hour; we laugh so hard that my facial muscles are literally aching from smiling every time I go to bed. We share an abundance of common interests and beliefs. We can talk about anything under the sun. It's like nothing I've ever known.

I never intended that level of ongoing contact to happen and neither did she... it just took shape naturally.

I'll tell you honestly. I'm scared, like a shopping-cart is rolling uncontrolled down a hill. Everything screams at me that this is going too fast, and I don't seem to be able to do anything to get it under control. Just to be clear—I'm not afraid of loss of freedom or anything like that. I'm afraid that things might go wrong, or get stale. No sign of that so far however, so I'm putting a brave face on it.

I don't even have a clue what to do. Do I use terms of endearment to address her? She'll visit me, probably, in around three weeks' time. Between now and then she has a birthday... WTF do I do about that? Call her as normal? Send an e-card??? Have a special but modest, belated surprise waiting for her when she arrives a week later?

I've spoken to other women ("spoken to" meaning "expressed sexual interest in"). I've even had a little kissing-session with a slim, long-legged mid-30s lady whom I met right before this girl and find very sexy. I just wanted to try to keep my feet on the ground and avoid getting dependent. I felt nothing, though. All my energy and desire is directed toward ChorusGirl.

Those of you who have your head set square on your shoulders and have been fortunate enough to have a similar experience, if you wish to advise me, I'll soak it up like a sponge.

And thank you :)

-Marty
 

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fcking hell Marty i just came back to the boards to post a textbook failure and i see you doing this... all that work you put in this stuff pays back with one girl -- inspiring and depressing at the same time.

congratulations.
 

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In my mind, this is most important part of the entire interaction:

Marty wrote:
I try to kiss her; she says "Not yet" and snuggles as close in as she possibly can.

If your head is in the right place and you're picking up on things that are as obfuscated as this, she's verbally giving you a green light through everything that's about to happen. That's what a lot of men would refer to as a "mixed signal", but it's anything but that. Notice how she didn't say "No", but instead "Not yet" and then followed up with body language that keeps you on the path that you both want to take.

Baseball players say they go through this phase where they know everything about the game, but they're never as good as they could be because they can't quite get the "feel" for what it takes to turn on a 98 mph fastball or can't quite get the "feel" on what jump to make on a pitch to head off a line drive off of the opposite end of the bat. You can watch all the film you want, but you just can't execute properly until you've logged enough time on the field to "feel" everything out and get the sixth sense for it. Marty, you're getting that "sixth sense" that guys get when they're successful. And, that's why it's so damn integral to all our success to break the reports of successful guys down into little bits and analyze every piece of it... because love and sex happens, and it's fun to try to reverse engineer the whole thing!

We can learn tactics and techniques, but the tipping point is to go out and do it. Chase can teach you, lead you, share all kinds of tips and things and provide you with all the knowledge... but it's up to you to get out on the field and make some plays ;)

J.J.
 

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Marty congratulations! It sounds like this was one of those experiences that you will never forget. And it seems like a huge step forward in your progress! It also shows how success is the reward for hard work, and what a great community we have here.

As for your "dilemma" (if you can call it that), I think you already know the answer. Don't let fear stop you from a good thing. Marty, I've never considered GC to be a "pickup website". I've always considered it to be a LIFE website. With that in mind, I think that pursuing a relationship with this girl might not be good for the pickup side of your life in the short term. But it is the best thing possible for your whole life long term. Think about why you got into this to begin with and what your goals were.

From what I know about you, I think the answer is a simple one. Once again, congratulations. There is no one who deserved it more.

V

P.S. I know Anatman has his LR song, but given your more classic tastes and the nature of this LR, I thought this would work better:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lo2qQmj0_h4
 

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Damn, Marty, perfectly executed and written.

This makes everything else seems like child's play.

~Nick
 
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