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[Hector Papi Castillo]

Marty,

I was in a long-distance relationship for my freshmen year of college. There were pros and cons to it.

Pros

- Assuming you have a healthy/popular social circle, you will be able to observe and flirt with women without having to escalate. And with your girlfriend confidence (i.e., preselection), you will entice many to chase you and seeing this will give you MANY helpful reference points (mostly just being able to spot signs of interest in every disguise and form).

- You won't get too attached

- You'll have a lot of free time

- When you DO see her, the sexual tension will explode like a Mentos-filled Coke bottle of semen and you will fuck each other for days straight.

Cons


- If you don't handle expectations correctly, you may NOT have the afforementioned benefits (i.e., free time and non-attachment)

- If you don't see her enough or satisfy her when you do meet up, she will quickly get frustrated and break up with you and/or cheat on you. I've fooled around and fucked many girls with boyfriends. And unsurprisingly, >85% of them had long-distance boyfriends.

- You might not be satisfied with the exposure and want to see her more consitently



Honestly, at your age, homie, I'd advise against a long-distance long term relationship (LDLTR). But this girl seems fucking RIGHT for you, so idk. Just don't rush into anything. REALLY think this through (intelligently, of course; no hamster-wheeling, dawg!). Thoughhh, you may already be setting a bad precedent with how much you're talking.

An ultimatum may arise sooner than you think - either you two 1. move to the same city 2. enter in a LDLTR 3. cut contact. With how passionate you are with each other, #3 sounds unlikely (so breathe now).

If you want to update me with specifics so we can hash this out, PM me.


- Anatman

 

[Amadeaus]

Awesome Marty!

Thanks for sharing

 

[lux7]

Those who have experienced it will know, but it's hard to describe the power over a man that well-executed resistance by a very high-value female has.

This whole LR was so emotional -and a bit saccharine at times TBH - that by the sound of it you might either have a great relationship or it's at high risk of getting your heart mashed.

In any case, you lived a beautiful thing and I think the might have also been better because it didn't happen right away the first time, so that built up expectations and emotions.

 

[ray_zorse]

Hey Marty great LR, as somebody mentioned you have excellent writing skills, I must say I've noticed that the top guys in seduction are good at making a story interesting too, which makes sense as it's part of the skillset

One thing I was wondering at the outset, and which became even more relevant since on Sunday I did notice a very cute and stylish girl walking in a deserted area, I should definitely have pulled over to talk to her...and that is, it sounds like she was walking the same direction as you were driving, you went over the hill and parked and started walking back, so as you approached her you were giving all of your body right? How did you structure the approach? Did she find it intimidating? Advice on this site seems to be, don't make eye contact, walk past, turn around and come up behind them and then open from the side...? Or did you go for the "hey, stop for a moment" kind of investment opener? Did you use a preopener or was the fact you were walking towards her, in a pedestrian free area, a sufficient preopener in & of itself?

Any tips on handling this kind of approach appreciated.

cheers, Ray