It's been a while since I posted here. Quick recap on me is that I'm a college student trying to master this craft. I've been consistently getting girls to be alone with me but I'm having a hard time closing. I've got 3 different girls to come home with me in the past 2 months. However, I'm struggling with timing on how soon to start escalation without coming off too strong or too late that it looks like I'm too scared to make a move. I got these girls to make out with me though. When I start moving towards sex I get different reactions.
The first girl lets call her Mary. I cold approached this girl, got her number. I texted her and set up a date. We wet out to a coffee shop near where I live and when I noticed things going well I decided to pull. I asked if she was having a good time. She said yes, then I asked I she would like to get out of there an keep it going which she agreed to. I got her home and talked to her for a short while to make her comfortable, which was roughly 8 to 10 minutes and I basically ran a yes ladder on her while touching her as the interaction went on. We kissed for a while but she pulled back first. Which I always try to beat girls to. About 15 minutes later after continuing with normal conversation, we started making out heavily. She pulled back again when I moved my hand towards her pussy and told me that she needed to get home to do something with her mom. I asked her to stay 5 more minutes which she did before insisting that she needs to go. I then took her home as she lived nearby where I stay. It's been an uphill battle meeting her since then.
The second girl let's call her Susan. Is a girl I met during internship in a firm I'm attached to. Being that it is an Engineering firm we travelled for work and were staying in a hotel. I had been flirting with this girl also interning in the office for a short while and since she is cute I decided to go for it one night. I suggested we get drinks in that hotel and later that night I was alone with her in her room. (She had a better room with a working TV and I was hoping this wouldn't hurt me logistics wise as we were in a hotel) The first night I was alone with her, I could feel the tension between us but I took too long to make a move. About 1 and a half hours of talking first. I was also a bit drunk when I asked if she could give me a kiss (Which I personally feel is a bad move) and she asked herself outloud ," Am I that drunk yet?"
That was a bit weird to me. Nothing happened that night and I ended up back in my room. Some drinks remained and I asked her if she was down to drink the next day which she asked if we could do some other time since she argued we had a lot of time there. I agreed since I didn't want to force issues. The next day while we were flirting the evening after work, I whispered to her, "We should hangout alone once everyone clears out". She agreed and later that night I went to her room and she let me in.
After taking too long the first time. I decided to go for it from the start. This time I made a move too early and she asked what I was doing. I told her nothing while I kept touching her and as I moved in she told me she liked me as a friend. I took that as a test and handled it calmly. I then told her we should cuddle and I framed cuddling as something friends do. She didn't play ball so after talking for a while I left.
I had just about given up on this one when one Friday after completion of our work there we decided to celebrate over drinks in the hotel together with the other colleagues. I noticed she was flirting with this other colleague so once the drinks were over I decided to leave immediately. She insisted I stay longer but I didn't want to 3rd wheel. On my way out she followed me and after a bit of banter I asked her if she wanted to keep it going. We went to her room and after some small talk I asked her to cuddle. This time she agreed and once we were in bed together I made out with her, kissed her nipples and she even gave me a hand job. As things got heated and I rubbed her pussy from outside her clothes she told me that she couldn't resist me and that I needed to leave. I told her I would go in 5 minutes which she agreed to. She then told me "You are used to easy girls". That also caught me by surprise. We made out some more and after she insisted that I should wake up in my bed, I left.
On the next day which was the final day of the trip we spent most of the day together and we agreed to meet up later that night. That night I went to her room and we talked for a while before I made a move. Immediately I made it she told me she knows that I had come with an agenda and that she remembers what had happened the previous night. She told me that she makes out with people when she's tipsy to make it seem like the previous night just happened. She also said she thinks this is just a passing thing for me since we were on the trip together and asked me what I wanted with her going forward. I said I was open to dating her (I'm not sure this was a good move but she seemed a bit more conservative than other girls I've been with) She later told me I'm the first guy to be in bed with her since her ex-boyfriend. I kept calm through all this and after I felt she was also good, I kissed her and we made out for sometime, I kissed her breasts and neck once more as I escalated but every time I would move towards her pussy she would try and stop me. I tried to always keep my hand moving so that I've left before she stopped me. I also tried to finger fuck her through her clothes but she would stop me there. After making out for about 45 minutes I decided to stop since things weren't moving further. I then left. Upon coming back home I still keep contact with her although logistics aren't the best here. She however said that ,"if its going to happen it will" on the last night in the hotel. I'm hoping I close this soon hopefully.
The 3rd girl lets call her Mercy. Is a girl I've been texting for about a year now. Sometimes I feel like she is wasting my time and I cut her off but she always seems to come back. I got her in my room last week and we were making out and for a second there I got this feeling that I could definitely close her. I was under horrible time constraints though since I was doing this while my family went to church and would be back in about 2 hours. The girl also took her time meeting me which made the time worse. In her case I wasn't trying to close but I thought it would have been cool getting head or 69 or fingering her. However, whenever I would try to touch her pussy she would tell me its ticklish or to stop being too thirsty. We snuck out when my parents got back and I took her out for coffee. Today this girl hit me up out of the blue and told me she was in the area. I met her around the same time as the previous week when people left for church as we are a big family and its hard to get privacy. (I hope I dont go to hell for this!)
Today she had a worse time constraint saying she had to meet her mother for mother daughter bonding in about an hour after meeting her and I told her there was no need to even go to my place. She insited we go there though and I thought I was in for a good time. I decided to wing it. Taking her home she went straight for my bed, I didn't want to seem to eager so I put some music on first and I talked to her for about 5 minutes then I tried to hold her. She would then back away and we didn't even kiss. I was wondering what game she was playing. After this she would resist all my compliance requests e.g. a hug, A HUG!! Although she thought it was okay for her to hold me or climb on my back. When I would also back off she would dismiss it saying that she is playful and annoying. I walked her partly on her way home and she left with this grin on her face. She has more experience with guys under her belt though. I was thinking of cutting her off again since she's a mind fuck but as the holidays come by I will be around a lot more and I wanted to try something with her I saw on Ricardus page.
Anyway, I would like someone with the full proof escalation procedure to explain it to me. Especially, on how to seem trustworthy enough for girls to sleep with you without many questions. How to not seem to keen or like you need her to sleep with you without taking so long either that you seem weak or like you lack the balls to make a move.
I have a date in a week with a different girl who's stunning that I approached last week. I'm hoping someone can shed some light on the closing that could help me then
Anyway, Onward and Upward!
The first girl lets call her Mary. I cold approached this girl, got her number. I texted her and set up a date. We wet out to a coffee shop near where I live and when I noticed things going well I decided to pull. I asked if she was having a good time. She said yes, then I asked I she would like to get out of there an keep it going which she agreed to. I got her home and talked to her for a short while to make her comfortable, which was roughly 8 to 10 minutes and I basically ran a yes ladder on her while touching her as the interaction went on. We kissed for a while but she pulled back first. Which I always try to beat girls to. About 15 minutes later after continuing with normal conversation, we started making out heavily. She pulled back again when I moved my hand towards her pussy and told me that she needed to get home to do something with her mom. I asked her to stay 5 more minutes which she did before insisting that she needs to go. I then took her home as she lived nearby where I stay. It's been an uphill battle meeting her since then.
The second girl let's call her Susan. Is a girl I met during internship in a firm I'm attached to. Being that it is an Engineering firm we travelled for work and were staying in a hotel. I had been flirting with this girl also interning in the office for a short while and since she is cute I decided to go for it one night. I suggested we get drinks in that hotel and later that night I was alone with her in her room. (She had a better room with a working TV and I was hoping this wouldn't hurt me logistics wise as we were in a hotel) The first night I was alone with her, I could feel the tension between us but I took too long to make a move. About 1 and a half hours of talking first. I was also a bit drunk when I asked if she could give me a kiss (Which I personally feel is a bad move) and she asked herself outloud ," Am I that drunk yet?"
That was a bit weird to me. Nothing happened that night and I ended up back in my room. Some drinks remained and I asked her if she was down to drink the next day which she asked if we could do some other time since she argued we had a lot of time there. I agreed since I didn't want to force issues. The next day while we were flirting the evening after work, I whispered to her, "We should hangout alone once everyone clears out". She agreed and later that night I went to her room and she let me in.
After taking too long the first time. I decided to go for it from the start. This time I made a move too early and she asked what I was doing. I told her nothing while I kept touching her and as I moved in she told me she liked me as a friend. I took that as a test and handled it calmly. I then told her we should cuddle and I framed cuddling as something friends do. She didn't play ball so after talking for a while I left.
I had just about given up on this one when one Friday after completion of our work there we decided to celebrate over drinks in the hotel together with the other colleagues. I noticed she was flirting with this other colleague so once the drinks were over I decided to leave immediately. She insisted I stay longer but I didn't want to 3rd wheel. On my way out she followed me and after a bit of banter I asked her if she wanted to keep it going. We went to her room and after some small talk I asked her to cuddle. This time she agreed and once we were in bed together I made out with her, kissed her nipples and she even gave me a hand job. As things got heated and I rubbed her pussy from outside her clothes she told me that she couldn't resist me and that I needed to leave. I told her I would go in 5 minutes which she agreed to. She then told me "You are used to easy girls". That also caught me by surprise. We made out some more and after she insisted that I should wake up in my bed, I left.
On the next day which was the final day of the trip we spent most of the day together and we agreed to meet up later that night. That night I went to her room and we talked for a while before I made a move. Immediately I made it she told me she knows that I had come with an agenda and that she remembers what had happened the previous night. She told me that she makes out with people when she's tipsy to make it seem like the previous night just happened. She also said she thinks this is just a passing thing for me since we were on the trip together and asked me what I wanted with her going forward. I said I was open to dating her (I'm not sure this was a good move but she seemed a bit more conservative than other girls I've been with) She later told me I'm the first guy to be in bed with her since her ex-boyfriend. I kept calm through all this and after I felt she was also good, I kissed her and we made out for sometime, I kissed her breasts and neck once more as I escalated but every time I would move towards her pussy she would try and stop me. I tried to always keep my hand moving so that I've left before she stopped me. I also tried to finger fuck her through her clothes but she would stop me there. After making out for about 45 minutes I decided to stop since things weren't moving further. I then left. Upon coming back home I still keep contact with her although logistics aren't the best here. She however said that ,"if its going to happen it will" on the last night in the hotel. I'm hoping I close this soon hopefully.
The 3rd girl lets call her Mercy. Is a girl I've been texting for about a year now. Sometimes I feel like she is wasting my time and I cut her off but she always seems to come back. I got her in my room last week and we were making out and for a second there I got this feeling that I could definitely close her. I was under horrible time constraints though since I was doing this while my family went to church and would be back in about 2 hours. The girl also took her time meeting me which made the time worse. In her case I wasn't trying to close but I thought it would have been cool getting head or 69 or fingering her. However, whenever I would try to touch her pussy she would tell me its ticklish or to stop being too thirsty. We snuck out when my parents got back and I took her out for coffee. Today this girl hit me up out of the blue and told me she was in the area. I met her around the same time as the previous week when people left for church as we are a big family and its hard to get privacy. (I hope I dont go to hell for this!)
Today she had a worse time constraint saying she had to meet her mother for mother daughter bonding in about an hour after meeting her and I told her there was no need to even go to my place. She insited we go there though and I thought I was in for a good time. I decided to wing it. Taking her home she went straight for my bed, I didn't want to seem to eager so I put some music on first and I talked to her for about 5 minutes then I tried to hold her. She would then back away and we didn't even kiss. I was wondering what game she was playing. After this she would resist all my compliance requests e.g. a hug, A HUG!! Although she thought it was okay for her to hold me or climb on my back. When I would also back off she would dismiss it saying that she is playful and annoying. I walked her partly on her way home and she left with this grin on her face. She has more experience with guys under her belt though. I was thinking of cutting her off again since she's a mind fuck but as the holidays come by I will be around a lot more and I wanted to try something with her I saw on Ricardus page.
Anyway, I would like someone with the full proof escalation procedure to explain it to me. Especially, on how to seem trustworthy enough for girls to sleep with you without many questions. How to not seem to keen or like you need her to sleep with you without taking so long either that you seem weak or like you lack the balls to make a move.
I have a date in a week with a different girl who's stunning that I approached last week. I'm hoping someone can shed some light on the closing that could help me then
Anyway, Onward and Upward!