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RedNeck

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I don't know what crack you guys are smoking. Every 18-22 year old girl I meet (I'm 29) is dating a guy 2-3 years older than them at most, and most of the guys I know in their late 30s or 40s are not banging young women and haven't done so for many years.

maybe you are hanging out with the wrong crew .
Thanks for spreading the negativity
 

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I'm currently banging a 19yr Ivy engineer with a fantastic, petite body who is kinky as hell, and a 23yr high-fashion model signed to a major agency who's walked for Calvin Klein, various runway TV shows, etc. Guess what? They both like guys in their 40s, I'm sure 30s as well.

And I got the receipts to prove it. Hell, the 19 posts the nudes I take of her on reddit.

What hot girls look for in partner's SMV is different than what guys look for, this is basic stuff.
 

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I'm currently banging a 19yr Ivy engineer with a fantastic, petite body who is kinky as hell, and a 23yr high-fashion model signed to a major agency who's walked for Calvin Klein, various runway TV shows, etc. Guess what? They both like guys in their 40s, I'm sure 30s as well.

And I got the receipts to prove it. Hell, the 19 posts the nudes I take of her on reddit.

What hot girls look for in partner's SMV is different than what guys look for, this is basic stuff.
How old are you though?
 

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How old are you though?

In my 40s. As stated earlier in the thread.

I'd say I have intermediate game. But if you approach, some of these college girls will make it very clear they are interested. The first hot college girl I picked up in my 40s was sitting at a bar and started stroking my calves with her heels after about 40 mins. Check, please.
 

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I want to post my 2 cents but I feel like this one has definitely gone off the ringer a bit.

as a 30 year old. was in a similar position where I hid my age from a girl and she found out and didn't make a big deal about it I think because I made it a big deal of it She didn't take it well.

The Age thing is a mindset especially for us older guys, when we see everyone in our age bracket getting married and having kids you start developing the idea of whether or not your doing something wrong.

I'm kinda going through the same thing but I'm also talking to a really hot 21 year old and banging another 21 year old with a great bod. I even asked her one day if my age didn't bother her and she didn't seem to care.

In conclusion, a mams age is a Placebo effect, it's only happening to us and nobody really cares, everyone's living their own life. don't worry about your age just keep taking care of yourselves and you'll be fine. If a woman is ever disgusted by your age you would know
 
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'Everyone is the star of their own movie.' ~someone more famous than me.

That's why hot 21yr olds don't care how old you are. They don't want to marry you, you're a bit player they banged in their journey to motherhood, the c-suite, whoredom, whatever.

IF they do want to marry you, run. Unless you want kids with her. And she won't be ready to settle down no matter what she tells you, unless you're in Utah.
 

MuST0BtA1NSkR1Lla

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No.

Why? Because you are not old.

When did we become old at 32.

PS: the older I get, the more women seems to dig me.

Best,
Teevster

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Comparing myself with 10 years ago, when I was 26, I can say that back then I also got a fair amount of attention from hot girls, mainly due to my being more jacked. Nowadays I sport a haircut (as opposed to a buzzcut), follow a skincare protocol, and use anti-hair thinning shampoo, but other than that and the fact that I have a few kgs less muscle mass than I did back then (still haven't returned to the squat rack, though I am doing deads using a trap bar albeit with for the moment minimal loads), not much has changed.

I mean, sure, the fact that I'm not doing cardio and don't have the powerful squat thrusts means there is less blood flow and so I have a greater tendency to cum fast on first bang (and perhaps less power on the pounding motion). But girls are happy to wait for battery recharge, and Wednesday's did cum.

The age of the girls I'm fucking has stayed the same. So far this year 22 and 24, and next week if f-close occurs they will be 23 and 24 as well. Granted, I may lie about my age (say I am 29, for example) for social frame purposes before lock-in, but that is it. They don't really care.

This WBAFC 32-year-old dude I was having a drink with on Friday was saying that he liked eloping with older ladies (40s plus), but frankly, with his current set of beliefs and self-presentation (including total lack of style), that's the best he can hope for. All of this boils down to mindset and how much attention or care you place in your self-presentation. On top of solid fundamentals and style, game is a bonus.

Hysterical feminists may shriek and wail, but when push comes to shove there is nothing more attractive than a man who goes about the world with self-confidence, who looks hot girls in the eyes unblinkingly because he isn't intimidated by them, who isn't ashamed of his masculinity, who is aware of his value.

Sure, hot sex is a prerequisite, and this is the last item that I am working to refine due to some tweaks that are still ongoing (went through low back issues for a few years), but aside from that, hot young girls (legal of course) only have good things to take from being with a well-rounded older man with more life experience and wisdom.
 

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My Tampa experience was at a conference. A mid 20s grad student invited herself to my hotel room when I was in my early 60s. I will note that my best time for college age women was when I was a grad student who continued to live in a large undergraduate dorm and had a single room, but that could only last so long.
 

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The college girls and older guys thing needs more context. Like if she is going to a commuter campus, community college, or a less snobby type of school, then I can see it working. Like here in Miami, FIU girls and women going to Dade Community College do not seem to care as much about age, and I have had a couple of wings who have closed some while being in their 30s. These girls are also not that wealthy. Foreign exchange students at Uni are also more open-minded to older men.

Where I think it becomes tricky is if the school is status-oriented and the girls already come from wealth. Any school that is constantly featured in the "top party school" list, is in a major conference, and has a vibrant Greek Life. I could not see a guy over 30 going to the University of Alabama or a Syracuse and pulling there unless there was some exception. I haven't known too many older guys here in Miami who have pulled quality from UM.
 

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Where I think it becomes tricky is if the school is status-oriented and the girls already come from wealth. Any school that is constantly featured in the "top party school" list, is in a major conference, and has a vibrant Greek Life. I could not see a guy over 30 going to the University of Alabama or a Syracuse and pulling there unless there was some exception.
I live in a college town where the girls that go to the main university here, come from wealth and has a vibrant Greek life. I’m over 30 and all the girls I’ve pulled were under 20 (girls over 22 care much less about over 30). Very hot too. Exception being my fundamentals.
 

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You must be joking! I've been picking up UM girls for decades, literally.

As pretty much the entire website explains, they're not simply chasing guys with money. Avoid self-limiting beliefs.

I will take you for your word here then. If you are willing to offer some advice and not make it public, DM me brotha!

I game at Barracudas on Thursdays and Regatta on Fridays, its been a grind.

Happy to hear your strategy.
 

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I live in a college town where the girls that go to the main university here, come from wealth and has a vibrant Greek life. I’m over 30 and all the girls I’ve pulled were under 20 (girls over 22 care much less about over 30). Very hot too. Exception being my fundamentals.

Well fuck man, if you are pulling that off. Props to you.

More of you guys need to share your strategies of how you are pulling this off. Like I'd imagine if you go to a college bar on a Thursday or Friday or Saturday it be hard mode.
 

MuST0BtA1NSkR1Lla

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Posting in just had sex with a chick who picked me up. She used a calico rabbit and I went off that and she was 20.

Im about thirty but if you show up to the slower venues with a friend I feel you won’t run into too many issues.

What I field tested today was my age in the late thirties, *[Even though I’m thorty] and they were completely into it.

I’m wondering what you are rocking fashion wise?

Cheers
MuSt0
 

JT Sunshine

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Dude I know where you’re coming from. I go out a lot at night and I’m usually solo, in my mid 30s. If you dress decent, smile and have fun no one is going to look at you weird. I don’t bring it up and if they ask, I tell em confidently and move on. Have no problem talking to girls 21-23 and that’s mostly what I find at clubs. From my trips to Florida I think you’ll have an even easier time than we do up north.

I banged a 19 year old at 34, and I banged a 39 year old when I was 24 😂 both were super into me. Age does not matter. My last girlfriend was 9 years younger than me and when we watched movies she always had a thing for guys like Jeffrey Dean Morgan and Daniel Craig. Find you one of those and you’ll wish you were even older lol
 

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Well shit I just realized this thread is 4 years old. Hope OP is still out there slaying them
 
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