Good to get back into it. Food poisoning waylaid my plan to go out to the mall on Thursday but I'm free the whole day tomorrow.
Girl 1: cute tanned Asian girl in short shorts sitting down. I approach but she says that she was just about to go to the bathroom. I say "Oh, looks like I've got good timing". I continue the conversation and attempt to escalate quickly so she can go do her business. Some guy walks up talking about transcripts. I stay quiet and try to look cool. He leaves and I reengage. She gets up and I ask for meet-up: "I don't think my boyfriend would like that" But it was cool.
To improve on: SLEGIM, faster escalation
Walking around, it's nearly deserted but I remember one place that I haven't checked: a newly built wing behind the school proper. And that's when I see her:
Girl 2: a short brunette with surprisingly big breasts. She turns around and I wave her over and ask her over. I approach, she is slightly taken aback. This is what I am most proud of: I ask her what she's up to and she says that she's just walking around. I say I am too, so walk with me. I start to move off. She hesitates and says "I have a boyfriend" I say "It's just a walk. Don't be foolish" in a charming manner. I move off again and she catches up. Very good leading from me! I deep dive and make banter. I think that I was a little too charismatic in my words but I wanted to get her to loosen up and feel comfortable after having just invested in me like that. She starts asking me questions about myself which is a good sign. She is not as excited when I touch her, although perhaps I should have stuck to her arm and not teasingly poking her face. Anyhow, at some point we stop walking and I attempt to initiate something. She is resistant so I try to use a yes ladder. Something I've noticed that is an issue of concern: when I ask them "Do you like me?" they say: "I don't even know you". Either don't ask the question or ask it if I really know that they like me. Perhaps: "Do you like being around me?" Anyway, no go.
To improve on: SLEGIM, don't touch face early unless she is comfortable, don't ask "Do you like me?"
Girl 1: cute tanned Asian girl in short shorts sitting down. I approach but she says that she was just about to go to the bathroom. I say "Oh, looks like I've got good timing". I continue the conversation and attempt to escalate quickly so she can go do her business. Some guy walks up talking about transcripts. I stay quiet and try to look cool. He leaves and I reengage. She gets up and I ask for meet-up: "I don't think my boyfriend would like that" But it was cool.
To improve on: SLEGIM, faster escalation
Walking around, it's nearly deserted but I remember one place that I haven't checked: a newly built wing behind the school proper. And that's when I see her:
Girl 2: a short brunette with surprisingly big breasts. She turns around and I wave her over and ask her over. I approach, she is slightly taken aback. This is what I am most proud of: I ask her what she's up to and she says that she's just walking around. I say I am too, so walk with me. I start to move off. She hesitates and says "I have a boyfriend" I say "It's just a walk. Don't be foolish" in a charming manner. I move off again and she catches up. Very good leading from me! I deep dive and make banter. I think that I was a little too charismatic in my words but I wanted to get her to loosen up and feel comfortable after having just invested in me like that. She starts asking me questions about myself which is a good sign. She is not as excited when I touch her, although perhaps I should have stuck to her arm and not teasingly poking her face. Anyhow, at some point we stop walking and I attempt to initiate something. She is resistant so I try to use a yes ladder. Something I've noticed that is an issue of concern: when I ask them "Do you like me?" they say: "I don't even know you". Either don't ask the question or ask it if I really know that they like me. Perhaps: "Do you like being around me?" Anyway, no go.
To improve on: SLEGIM, don't touch face early unless she is comfortable, don't ask "Do you like me?"
