Date got ruined by former boss, how to deal with AMOGs that knew you.

[Militarybrat]

Post your attitude of not wanting conflict is the right one. What you have to realize is every now and then in life you have no other option. Living in NYC is rough and tumble it can be real cool and down right dangerous at times. I live a few hours south of you unfortunately every once in a while I have to deal with disrespectful people too. Fortunately it is very rare that anything physical happens as my facial expressions and body language can be very intimidating they know I mean it.

I was in walmart buying food for dinner. While waiting in checkout line I let a tired single mom with her full of energy daughter cut in front of me. Well this young man decided he was going to make me pay for that kept running his mouth. I stepped back hands down palms open said here I am do your worst he did nothing. He kept running his mouth I told him to stay out of my space he stepped up and got in my face. He put his hands on me I put him in a head lock and choking him I hip tossed him with my full body weight landing on him. When we hit the floor it knocked the wind out of him. I let go and positioned myself on top of him he immediately went into fetal position. I raised my fist to punish him when 4 guys grabbed me and pulled me off. As soon as others pulled him away the look on his face was terror Told him get back over here I'm not done yet he ran for the door. I cannot stand shit like this even now writing this it upsets me as I did not want this and did everything to avoid it. I wrote this for your benefit as shit like this can happen anywhere at anytime. I am 60 post that said I will defend myself anytime anywhere.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Man that is rough dude but I am glad you learned to defend yourself like that. How long would you say I would need to commit to MMA in order to properly defend myself? I was thinking of starting it anyways.

I also had another idea regarding the situation with my former boss. I am close with the legal department and HR at the company I used to work at. When I was on my way to leave, there were discussions of a “bro culture” in the startup and some of my female coworkers had complained about how he talks down to women. Now do note this guy was a Hillary supporter in 2016 and tries to put on the social justice act.

Now in case I do run into this guy in the future and he tries his shit again, I am wondering if recording his actions and then forwarding them to the old legal department or HR at my old company can really check him.

Not just that, I am connected well with influencers in my profession, I am talking LinkedIn leaders that have 10s of thousands of followers and get 5k+ likes on posts regularly. The whole toxic work culture and bro culture has been a huge issue of discussion. If that fails, I can take it up to them and put their eyes on it.

It’s not like the company I worked for was a Fortune 500, it was a startup.

I know that if the CEO at the last company and other leadership got a wind of this they’d be livid but even if not, then influencers I know in the space would want to take action against it.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

@Militarybrat

I wanted your thoughts on these videos over here. Been looking at them for self defense, they have a series on it.

 

[Militarybrat]

Post my skills were taught to me by my father he was a black ops soldier. At 5 he told me he was going to take me apart take reverse gear out of my ass and rebuild me. He did exactly what he said he would do. He trained me to be a soldier it got bloody at times by the time I was 15 I was the perfect soldier no emotion skilled in judo muy tai and thi kick boxing, proficient in every type of weapon. There are very good reasons not to train a child to be a soldier. The most important thing was not to use my skills unless I absolutely needed to when forced to do so. I wrestled in High School also was really good at it.

Post there are no instant fixes it takes time and dedication. Within a year you should be competent enough to defend yourself have the confidence to stand firm and enforce your boundaries. Practice throughout a lifetime keeps you sharp it also gives you a sense of how to survey a room,club,or street for potential problems. This stuff becomes automatic with time after the initial I gotta learn everything phase you will relax and become aware of your surroundings. It will improve your life in many different ways including appreciation of beauty and a light seductive touch.

I always recommend The Art of War it is on Chase's read list it teaches how to win a fight before it happens. How not fighting is the goal he was a very smart man. This book is a must read for executives and has even been adapted to the business world. For me personal improvement has been a life long journey. Every now and then I will stand alone in a peaceful place and survey my domain. I will look at where I have been, where I am now, and where I want to go. I will look inward to see where I need to change for the better. I hope this helps you understand it is a lifelong journey.

Brat

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I have read a lot of works by Robert Greene and I think it has helped me almost see the situation after the fact and know when someone is a snake. Like in the case of my former boss, I know what game he was playing and bailed. When he tried me, I immediately blocked him after the encounter but my gut tells me I should have done it a lot sooner. I am not shocked if he tries me again though or tries to confront me which is why what I have been taught here will be a good litmus test.

My situation was different, my dad pussified me to the best of his abilities. My dad was a fucking pussy who took his frustrations out on his kids and was not man enough to stand up to other real men in public. I hate him to this day and do not care if he died tomorrow. He pushed me away from masculine activities and as a result I ended up being late in development. Thankfully I got soccer and tennis in high school which my teachers negotiated with him to let him play but he is a fat sack of shit who ruins the lives of other people.

Now I look at him and see what a sad case he is, not even my mom loves him and no one acknowledges the coward anymore.

 

[Glow]

Yeah it has not been easy for me because naturally, I am a calm guy that stays to himself. I am too zeroed in on the task at hand and never really get into it with people. TBH, I never got the stir the pot type personalities always looking for a fight. Maybe their own lives are a mess and they need something to vent with, who knows. I always found it tough to fight back not because I felt like I could not but because I felt like there are so many ways in which it can be avoided.

It has been tough for me to go through this. It has made me insecure. I long wish for that Conor McGregor personality but it does not come naturally to me.

I think the guys and you are spot on w the boundary setting as a foundational thing - just beware that there are more ways than getting military level confrontational. You can also choose to outsmart him by changing into different amog tactics that plays on channels hes weak in. There are multiple strategies for handling a douche like that. krav maga, mma and the likes can help you get some weight in your being so that guys like that dont even mess w u out of your vibe. Also cause youll have a different confidence on the area of the physical. Or just provide a stronger back bone to execute amog tactics from.

BUT

Know that this needs amog training as its not fighting - krav maga will teach you scenariobased battle and deescalation, do the same with handling amogs in a seductive setting by using seduction specific social amog tactics instead of confrontations. its part of learning PU.

one key is to Flip whos the aggressor, and consider other ways to outsmart and dominate him by being able to play on more channels.
- eg being omega/way above him - powerful social frame and behaving like that, like hes a lil bug, cut through his sentences etc.
- eg by selfdepreciating which most guys like that frustrate from alongside connecting w the women
- eg by proactively moving away or physically dominating before he says a word
- eg by flipping things and outbrantering him
- eg by eyecoding and socially displacing him
etc etc

I literally walk through them, like im so far above them they dont even exist. And I steal their women by depreciating and connecting with her w sexual tension and sensitivities to her wants which brutal guys like that rarely do.

this is not explaining it to you - just giving you a hint of the models where you outsmart idiots like him and flipping the whole who is dominant here and getting him down without him seeing whats going on.

 

[Militarybrat]

My thoughts on this are as follows. I did not want to say it in the walmart encounter I positioned the young man for this move and executed it first you must be very careful with it other wise you will seriously hurt or kill an untrained aggressor. You must be very calibrated with the force you use just enough to take them out of the fight so that you can walk away. This is why training is so very important it allows you to calibrate properly to seek peace instead of conflict.

I went out of my comfort zone last night. I went to a bar with my ex inlaws even my ex wife was there. Had a great time drank too much paying for it this morning. I went and tested a new look that reflects my lifestyle. It dropped the ex's jaw I got 3 blatant stare down AI's and 6 IOI's all by the hottest women in the place. I kept my body language closed as I only approach sober and will only allow women to approach me when sober. I even made Facebook a picture with me and 2 21 yr olds one was my great niece the other her friend it was staged as someone wanted a pic of me. It was a blast my great niece I call her my wingman she will run game on a male with the quickness. She spots IOI's that I do not see informs me then I open them directly.

Brat

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Will register for the Krav Maga classes locally once I get my paycheck and savings to a certain amount.

Brat, did you smash?