FR+ Date with weird girl I kissed last time.

[Water]

2nd Date this month. This one is a date from a really old social circle number. It doesn't count towards my date count, but I just wanted to list what happened.


Basically this girl never stops texting me and always tries to hang out with me. She is less than average looking so not worth the pursuit. I decided to Day her this night and try watching a movie with her. We hung out a bit and I tried escalating on her, I played the 5 truth questions game. Where we could ask each other any 5 questions and we had to answer it truthfully. It was sooo gay. I guess she is a virgin and is incredibly inexperienced. While watching the movie with her I tried to escalate on her the entire time. Hand up shirt, she pulls my hand away. "No Water, I can't." Rub her pussy outside of her pants, same thing. I must have done this hundreds of times.


She stopped me every time. I managed to get to feel her breasts for a couple seconds then she'd stop me. I put in the movie "Casanova" to watch and maybe she was warming up to my escalation or maybe she was zoning out to the movie that she didn't notice my hands. I didn't get any further. Tried to finger her, tried for a handjob. The only thing I didn't do was pull my cock out because I didn't have an erection. And her stopping my escalations over and over was a serious turn off. She was NOT attractive enough to be playing these stupid games. I'm way too busy to deal with her bull shit, not even ever going to see her again.


But I did learn some about my Dates skills. Quite a bit actually.


Lessons Learned.

• Should have learned this the last time we hung out but I had trigger anxiety.
• NEVER GOING TO TALK TO HER AGAIN. SHE IS NOT WORTH THE EFFORT.
• Need to screen out incompatible girls earlier on.

Dates Lessons.

• Get a magnetic dartboard a la LA Phil.
• Get a glow-in-the-dark poster so I can have an excuse to turn off my lights.
• Get a dim light.
• Have better movies planned out. Have a lot of DVD's and played my sky diving video this night. That's 2 minutes.
• Have some short videos and youtube videos ready to entertain the girl. This girl was lower caliber so I could have done ANYTHING and she would have been into me but with a higher caliber girl there was not enough game on my part during this date.
• Need more conversational repertoire for my dates.
• Perhaps get a TV and DVD player for my room, I was playing the movie off my imac pro. Are there remote controls for this? I don't want to get out of bed just to change something on my computer.
• Get a laptop just to watch movies in my bed?
• Get under the covers with her perhaps.
• Have playlists ready.
• Repertoire, need some stories and bridging topics, there was a lot of silence while we were talking.
• Work on escalation game.
• Slower and smoother escalation.

I think that's all. Ugh, such a buzz kill. At least I'm not going to waste anymore time on her.

 

[OldGuy]

In social circle, you may need to brush off her attempts to talk to you politely.

 

[Water]

In social circle, you may need to brush off her attempts to talk to you politely.

If this social circle mattered more to me, also she’s not really high status in it, I’m not gonna blatantly be rude or ignore her in person but I’m not gonna be super nice or reply to texts or contact her. Just a courtesy greeting if I ever see her. Good point though, I was so frustrated with her LMR.

 

[Definitely_not_a_gymrat]

If this social circle mattered more to me, also she’s not really high status in it, I’m not gonna blatantly be rude or ignore her in person but I’m not gonna be super nice or reply to texts or contact her. Just a courtesy greeting if I ever see her. Good point though, I was so frustrated with her LMR.

One idea that could help the both of you is to set her up with another guy. Doesn’t have to be you doing the setting up, I’m sure plenty of men would love to take her out, probably glazing her virginity even though I can only deduce she’s below average quality woman from your FR.