Dating girls with a speech impediment?

[LoverOfWomen]

My fundamentals are good e.g. fashion,body posture,eye contact etc

However there's one thing that's been holding me back. I used to think it was because I was shy but it's my speech impediment.

I get a lot of attraction invitations from girls in my social circle and outside, but I never approach.

I've gone on online dating have had success but I feel like cold approach would be much better judging form the articles and the forum.


My question to you reading this:

1) should I just stick to online dating or not care about my speech impediment and go cold approach? If the girl doesn't accept it then I'll try not to take it personally.

 

[Mike&Ikes]

Definitely keep trying the cold approach. While I suggest you try to work on the speech impediment, it might not be as bad you think. What kind of speech impediment is it, lisping, stuttering? It shouldn’t matter too much since you’ve got your fundamentals down.

 

[LoverOfWomen]

Definitely keep trying the cold approach. While I suggest you try to work on the speech impediment, it might not be as bad you think. What kind of speech impediment is it, lisping, stuttering? It shouldn’t matter too much since you’ve got your fundamentals down.

I've been working on my speech impediment for a while now and it has definitely improved. I feel more confident.
I tend to stammer a little in stressful situations but when I'm calm it's non existent.

It's just hard to show your true personality or connect as well when you have extra hurdles in front of you.
I definitely won't give up though

 

[Michal]

Hi,
this will sound pretty silly as an approach but a friend of mine had a serious issues with stuttering (he improved it but back then, it required a lot of patience to listen to him) and he is quite attractive so girls were cheching him out a lot. The silly part is that he carried a piece of paper with himself and on that he had a text "Can't talk, sorry " and whenever he wanted to talk to a girl, he would pre-open with getting in her proximity like on a bar stool next to her, look at her, smile and then pullout the paper and make a sad face. A girl would react to that in some way and he would then say "Well, I can but I stutter" and then he would smile and just say "I am [name]". It is understandable that he most clicked with girls who were really talktive. But it seemed to work

 

[LoverOfWomen]

Hi,
this will sound pretty silly as an approach but a friend of mine had a serious issues with stuttering (he improved it but back then, it required a lot of patience to listen to him) and he is quite attractive so girls were cheching him out a lot. The silly part is that he carried a piece of paper with himself and on that he had a text "Can't talk, sorry " and whenever he wanted to talk to a girl, he would pre-open with getting in her proximity like on a bar stool next to her, look at her, smile and then pullout the paper and make a sad face. A girl would react to that in some way and he would then say "Well, I can but I stutter" and then he would smile and just say "I am [name]". It is understandable that he most clicked with girls who were really talktive. But it seemed to work

Hey Michal

That's a pretty good story, I actually considered doing that but thought otherwise.
Like you said it does require a lot of patience when talking to a stutterer however I have great friends who support me.

Also I tend to not date girls who are shy as I'll have to do not do the talking which makes me feel out of my comfort zone. Similar to your friend I do click with talkative girls (the affectionate ones).

It's good that your friend improved his stutter and kept on seeing girls regardless.

Kind regards

LoverOfWomen