Default Daytime Compliment (when dressed plain)

[KJ Francis]

Head-on street stops mainly have to be direct, right?

If you're doing a genuine compliment opener on a girl who's dressed plain, can anyone recommend a default non-genetic aspect to compliment on?

I have AA right now, so it's helpful to have a quick ordered checklist I can run through in three seconds. The thing is, I see some students sometimes who can be the most beautiful girls in terms of facial features, but she's just going to class with her hair tied up. Often these are the girls I'm most floored by i.e. dumbstruck by beauty in the literal mute sense.

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A lot of times it's obvious...
1. Fashion first - I can expand on a genuine, detailed reason for liking a girl's outfit
2. Hair - if she puts care into it, like well defined curls, extra body, super long length, etc.
3. Walk/poise - a very quick thing to notice if it's true
4. Energy - some girls just have a striking look on their face sometimes

So if a girl doesn't happen to be walking sexy giving off a great energy at that moment, but is still strikingly gorgeous, after running through these four things in my head, she's then passed me. What's #5?

I could simply say energy and mean it, but that's just saying she's pretty if it's not caused by her poise or mannerisms.

 

[KJ Francis]

going to tag a few guys from the journals etc @AspiringStoic @bkw @Sidhrnsksijf @thats_a_penis_disgustang

 

[OldGuy]

Head-on just say "Hello". If she lights up start talking.

 

[Atlas IV]

'Hi, excuse me, I just saw you over there and... I had to come and tell you that... you have this very understated beauty. I can't put my finger on it, but there's something that drew my attention to you. Hi, I'm Francis."

Maybe something like that. Or even Gunwitch's classic "You look like my ex girlfriend, only there's a different energy behind your eyes." It's cheesy, but works like a charm when your mind is blank.

 

[bkw]

Yeah, you can compliment/point-out something she is wearing, or doing, etc.

@Atlas IV opener is good.

Go in with conviction, not weak or she may not stop or listen. Make sure to smile, warm energy, strong eye contact.

Beyond the advice given at Girls Chase, there is PLENTY of daygame opener advice on youtube, and a lot of it is similar to what atlas has said, which works. But you have to go in with conviction and warm energy, etc., or it won't really matter what you say.

 

[James D]

@KJ Francis

You can still compliment her on her energy even if she's not giving any particular great energy off.

Maybe what's so fascinating about her energy is that you can't quite put your finger on it.

You can approach with that "there's something about you..." vibe, with your eyes soft, a small smile on your face as you scrutinize her and try to make sense of what draws you so much to this girl.

Like when you encounter a painting that you don't quite understand but can't take your eyes off either.

giving off a great energy at that moment, but is still strikingly gorgeous

Telling her she's strikingly gorgeous with infectious energy on your end is sufficient enough to open as well.

Perhaps infectious energy is a good default to aim at?

That is quite state dependent of course but day game street stops do depend a lot on state.

 

[Stark]

I prefer to go in without a pre-planned opener in such situations.

I would start saying something generic however, once she’s right in front of me, I would notice something very specific to her.

I would capitalise on that. For example, a few days back , I was talking to a friend in a parking lot when a girl parked her bike right next to us.

I realised I have about 3 seconds to say something before she park her bike and head off. I started saying something about her leopard print top and had her looking at me. Then I realised she has such striking brown eyes. I moved closer and said ‘Your eyes…wow they are brown..goes very well with your leopard print top’

The effect was much better than if I stuck to my generic opener.